What do you girls think....I personally feel offended.
yes
no
ew thats gross and i hate you for asking



What do you girls think....I personally feel offended.
Nope, I really don't give a rat's ass. It just makes it a little harder to sell the next dance, but if he ain't buying there's always the next guy. I don't lose any sleep over it, or even 2 seconds thinking about it.
I kinda try not to notice. I can tell if hes intrested by the look on his face. if i don't appeal to him I move on to someone I do, why waste my time. not all guys like my look. who cares....
I don't look out for it. Sometimes you can't tell. I normally only know my client is ''hard'' when his face pulls all sorts of contortions or I find him taking a long time to gain his composure in between or after LDs. There are other signs to look out for if they are enjoying the dance. Not every man must get a stiffy.
That being said, it is a compliment when it happens. As long as they can control it and don't start rubbing it against me. I ain't no ho.
Edited to say: Ummm...sorry guys for messing up the poll. I voted ''yes'' when I meant ''no''.
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I dont get offended, but it makes me wonder, "haha this guy wont buy another dance". Although this happened a few times where I felt nada down there and he bought repeated dances, so who knows?
Nah I dont get offended....![]()
Sometimes I think the guy isn't much into my dance, like maybe he's looking around the room, but then i glance down and notice that he has a gigantic hard-on. I guess I'm still not that good at "reading" men (unless I look at their crotches haha!). Maybe the guys are looking away from me because they're embarrassed or so they can get a grip on themselves. But to answer the original question, unless I've been having a bad night and am not in a good frame of mind, it doesn't bother me too much. No one girl is going to appeal to *every* guy. As long as there are enough that I *do* appeal to, why worry?
one guy on Wednesday night fell asleep (or more like passed out from whatever he was on) during my dance. I should have been offended, but I just laughed.
I can't imagine why any dancer would get offended if a guy didn't sport wood ??? I mean as long as he's paying for his dances and abiding by the rules and not being verbaly abusive then why get offended by a customer
Maybe those that voted yes can explain?





I think that we had a similar topic before in the Customer Conversation forum. Ah yes:
http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/ind...mer/t3936.html
Tori, whatever for? Even if your customer keeps on buying dances?Originally Posted by ToriBaltimore link=board=27;threadid=7357;start=msg83870#msg8387 0 date=1079180373
As someone who should know, (since I have the anatomical part in question attached to me), let me tell you gals that Mr. Happy can be (or at least seem) not at full attention for all sorts of reasons that have nothing to do with your dancing style (read thread above). We could be exhausted after a long day, we could be on medication that impedes getting an erection, or we could have our minds in a fog because we've come in after dealing with a lot of drama at work or home. Different penises also have different sensitivities.
I should also point out some guys aren't into your dances so much for the physicalities as they are for having a pretty lady make them feel validated (yes we still do exist). Never underestimate the power that a friendly smile and some feminine charm can have on a guy. Sometimes its what you do with your eyes, and not with your thighs that matters.
Therefore a hard-on isn't exactly a good barometer of whether your customer is enjoying the dance or not. Does he keep on buying dances? That's all that you should need to be concerned about. And when you get a customer who seems "unresponsive" down there, look on the bright side, he's less likely to have an "accident" on you.![]()
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that makes sence. Its not nessessarily that I feel angry or whatever. I just like turning people on. If a customer only buys one dance and I feel no..well you know...then I feel slightly offended. If he buys several dances with no ..you know..then I suppose I am doing my job and there is a reason I dont feel "it", like reasons you stated Doc.
I was just curious as to if other girls felt the same way I did.
Although I must say I am surprised that there are more "ew thats gross and I hate you for asking" then "yes"....I just threw that question in there as a joke. I suppose its not a requirement in this industry to be mature.....


I don't get offended at all, as long as they pay me!!! I do however get grossed out by 90 year old men with boners in sweatpants...can we say airdance. Ugh, I'm grossed out just thinking about it!





I know as long as the $$$ is still flowing I am happy !Originally Posted by MacKenzie link=board=27;threadid=7357;start=msg84058#msg8405 8 date=1079230504
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No. Gosh no. I am sure alot of guys are in control of their minds when we dance for them. And some guys just don't get turned on.
I have a friend i dance for and he asked me how not to get hard, because he's afraid he will cum. I tell him to let his mind drift off now and again, and it works.
Alot of guys don't get hard, it's not us.
Pamela
I have men who tell me that I need to stop dancing so they can take a break.... sometimes I have men who just sit there and while I am dancing tell me about their kids, their jobs etc.. .(I'm usually thinking WTF???)... or, I get the weirdos... and then I'm thinking to myself why on earth I attract such weird men with the oddest requests????
But honestly, I don't give a rats ass to whether they get a hard or not... I'm usually not the least bit interested as to if they do or don't... I am just making my money and they are buying my time. What they do with the experience is their business..
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Well I sort of get offended..I'm thinkin..what the hell? How can he not be turned on by me..little bastard! he he he
"Some of the most wonderful people are the ones who don't fit into boxes."....Tori Amos



I like to pretend that they don't have penises
Those who bring sunshine into lives of others, cannot keep it from themselves.
I go "eh, oh well!" and continue dancing if they look like they're still enjoying it.
If I really think they aren't into it at all - I had one woman, part of a couple, get a dance and promptly vomit when it was over [I'm chaulking it up to her level of intoxication, but what an ego blow!] - I might just step outside the booth and writhe around naked, practice stretches or moves, basically what I do when I'm on stage and no one is tipping - not exactly giving it my all.
"I still have my name
I still have my face
I have not run away from home
Doesn't seem so long
If I now embrace
Every single thing I've never known"
I got a dance once where it was like the dancer was on my lap, facing away from me, grinding, and it was so energetic that she could've driven in railroad spike with the force of her ass. I was no more able to feel aroused than I could've stopped the tide.
She turned around at one point, irritation plain on her face, and looked at me, looked at my crotch, as though to say, "What the hell?" All I could think was, "oh... please ...let ...the....dance....be.... over.... soon......"





If he's talking with you and really enjoying it... how can he have a physical hard on ? The ones who want conversation and company stay longer.
I don't get offended UNLESS the aim of the dance is to give him a hard on. Sometimes that seems like the aim at the start and then the customer realises he would rather enjoy my company than the actual dance.
At the same time, there are times when I "go thru the motions" and really really want him to be turned off so he won't buy another dance.
enter: E3167322D9 for your 10% discount
If it's just some kind of game then I get annoyed. I am reminded of working near an Indian reservation. This big young Indian who was a casino part-owner would come in and dump wads of cash. All the girls would flock to him as soon as he stepped in the club and he would buy lots of dances from all of them but just watch the bar or the stage.
Of course, I was one of the girls on stage since I was the new girl and almost all the other girls were in his lap! We made a lot of eye contact but there was no way I could get past that dense cluster of cats and I didn't even try.
The next night he came back and this time bought no dances from those girls (yes they were frosted). Instead he bought dances from me. Right off the bat he totally ignored me! He acted like he may as well have been clipping his toenails. He watched the other dances, he watched people walk by, he looked at everyone but me.
Still I made a lot of money off just that one guy, even if he never did pop a woody.
You get what you put up with
I think I've posted this before. I always liked the cute smile that came over a dancer's face when that happens. I always thought that she was thinking she was doing her job well. On the other side of the coin, she could be thinking of an old Seinfeld episode or what I would look like wrapped in fly paper. J/K
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Nah. Not offended by the hard-on or lack there of, either way. Guys may not get hard for all sorts of reasons. On the other hand, getting a guy hard when you're naked and writhing isn't exactly an earth-shaking accomplishment either.
It used to bother me if guys looked away while I was dancing for them. But it's usually the shyer guys that do this, so I think it's just nervousness, not a comment on the performance.
We must have had the same dancer, JZ.I got a dance once where it was like the dancer was on my lap, facing away from me, grinding, and it was so energetic that she could've driven in railroad spike with the force of her ass. I was no more able to feel aroused than I could've stopped the tide.
She turned around at one point, irritation plain on her face, and looked at me, looked at my crotch, as though to say, "What the hell?" All I could think was, "oh... please ...let ...the....dance....be.... over.... soon......"![]()
She was Czech, and I was in pain. Fortunately that's a rare occurance.
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Even if I didn't connect with the dancer, I manage to let her know I'm excited. Some girls grind a little too hard though and you have to stop them before it starts to hurt.
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