View Poll Results: On a slow night, which would you prefer?

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  • A backrub that they have to wake you up after

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  • A single pvt dance

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  • Entertaining conversation with a customer

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    I was just wondering what your opinion is on this topic. I usually wind up visiting clubs on the slow nights, as that when I can make it in. I started working on some of the girls backs when they would be saying how sore they were, and have had to wake several of them up afterwards so they can make it up onstage They usually said that they just felt so good when I was working on them, they just "passed out, but in the good way" Have also had some tell me that my work was "way more appreciated than the money they'd have made from a dance," so was just wondering your oppinions.
    Have also had a few pass on going to do a pvt with someone else, to just come over and ask me to tell some of my stories to them. (had some intiresting times in my past )
    Anyways, just thought I'd ask, and look forward to you feedback

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    I want the dance. A backrub won't pay my rent.

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    Ditto
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    The dance, but if I'll get paid regardless, I'll take the conversation. I don't care to get backrubs at work.

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    For me, this is a pretty pointless poll.

    a) backrub - No. I don't like falling asleep at work (only done that once) it messes up my flow for the rest of the night because I get groggy and I can't make any more money. But if you want to pay for it, then I guess I can put up with the grogginess.

    *And as a side note, some places I've been at won't tolerate it.

    b) pvt dance - yup, because it pays.

    c) conversation - only if it pays.

    so the bottom line is whatever guarantees me money. My time is worth money and the only one where I know it'll be guaranteed it is in a private dance.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Fireball link=board=8;threadid=7372;start=msg84133#msg84133 date=1079247786
    I was just wondering what your opinion is on this topic. I usually wind up visiting clubs on the slow nights, as that when I can make it in. I started working on some of the girls backs when they would be saying how sore they were, and have had to wake several of them up afterwards so they can make it up onstage They usually said that they just felt so good when I was working on them, they just "passed out, but in the good way" Have also had some tell me that my work was "way more appreciated than the money they'd have made from a dance," so was just wondering your oppinions.
    Have also had a few pass on going to do a pvt with someone else, to just come over and ask me to tell some of my stories to them. (had some intiresting times in my past )
    Anyways, just thought I'd ask, and look forward to you feedback
    Just chiming in here -

    Remember that the dancers are at work, regardless if it is slow or not. By that, it means they are there to make money, and that aspect doesnt change on slower nights. You might get a few who would prefer a backrub to a private dance, but as it has been nicely stated that unless a dancer is earning money, a backrub is meaningless.

    A dancer who passes up earning money in a private dance to hang out with you and talk is a unique thing. I hope you realize this, and at least give her some sort of decent tip in appreciation for that.

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    I have interesting conversations at work with customers all the time...usually its between the lapdances that he is paying for.....I don't need to meet anymore interesting people, just interesting wallets...

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    Backrubs/massages are nice and all, but if I really wanted one, I would simply book one at a spa and get one done by a professional. I'm at work to make money. I can't imagine anyone who would like to go to work and not make money (isn't that considered volunteering? *g*) When it's slow, money is appreciated even more so.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Susan Wayward link=board=8;threadid=7372;start=msg84215#msg84215 date=1079282347
    The dance, but if I'll get paid regardless, I'll take the conversation. I don't care to get backrubs at work.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Mariah link=board=8;threadid=7372;start=msg84149#msg84149 date=1079252844
    I want the dance. A backrub won't pay my rent.
    ITA...a couple more single dnces and ........"i'll take the dance"...... who knows i might be able to talk you into another
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    Ahhhh man, you ladies are lettin' me down here! LOL.

    Shouldn't you be shooting for all three (3) but PAID for all three? tee hee.

    Well, maybe substituting the backrub for a foot massage, or skipping altogether if you're "in your zone" and wired for high hustle. A guy wanting to do either I'd think would be informed how the couches in VIP or the Champagne room are the best bets for this.
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    I really don't like backrubs, professional and amatuer alike, I'll tolerate if I'm getting money, but I'd rather you didn't. Had a guy during a ld decide that I must have needed a deep tissue massage on my legs, and I have newbie black bruises all up and down my legs. Owies.

    Anyway, as for the other two I'd probably want the dance, just to believe I have a little appeal. Heh, I'm like, feeling totally unattractive if I can't sell a single dance.
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    i went to a nude club with my boyfriend, and it was a VERY slow night. the girl who actually did an awesome stage show (rather rare in houston) i bought a dance from for my bf, and we both tipped her during several of her stage dances. so i'd have to say that she would have preferred the dance, since we started a bit of a trend that led to her getting more private dances.

    if i get that good, i'd of course prefer to be compensated for the conversation, with the dance a close second.

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    I don't care which it is, as long as you're a paying customer. If you're not paying, you're taking up valuable time in which I could be working elsewhere, so I'm not interested. I most certainly will not EVER turn down a dance to get my back rubbed for free. what the hell is that? A girl who does that is just stupid and lazy. If you're getting all these girls to hang out with you for free, slow night or not, you are one lucky bastard and I hope you appreciate it! I do hope you are not just able to 'make it in' on the slow nights because you find the girls are easier to convince to hang out for free then. At any rate, I think you've found a club full of lazyass strippers.

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    Fireball, you have a skewed response here. Young, cute, lazyass strippers don't spend much time on computers. But hey, I think you already knew that.

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    I chose backrub, thinking that backrub customers usually pay more than conversation customers, then I realized you meant for free!! When you put it that way, I'd rather have my one dance from you and move on to a customer that will compensate me fairly for my time.

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    On a slow night, and if i was tired from working already, conversation with pay for my time. Hands down! Sometimes my feet just need a rest.

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    Ahhh I voted a backrub, but I thought it meant while dancing. I confused it. yes I would prefer the dance because I would like the money, especiiiiiially on a slow night.

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    we are there to make money not to get backrubs - I can get a back rub at home first off and second off I dont like having some strangers hands all over my back unless its one of the massage girls at work that uses sanatizers.

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    The dance ofcourse ! If I'm at work I'm there to earn $.

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    Okay... I'm going to go against the grain and I'm not a lazy ass stripper. Just that I'm experiencing the slow season where I am located so I am speaking from recent experience:

    Conversation.

    At the moment, sometimes it is a case of just passing time until alot of punters are ready so I would rather pass that time with someone interesting than be bored (like I sometimes am). We don't get stage tips at my club (very small minority will tip the dancers on stage.. VERY small) and hence rely on lap dances for our income.... there have been plenty shifts recently where there are 20 guys and 15-20 dancers. Then the "turnover" of punters in the club is slow as well on top of the slow turn out....

    I prefer conversation as we have a massage guy at our club and he does a superb job. It also helps me pass the time without going crazy due to boredom...

    These are, of course, the REALLY slow shifts. Then again, I've had slow shifts where I have 'hung out' with a punter more than other punters and have him turn into a customer (not just for 20 min. either... hours).

    Sometimes it can pay off to just 'hang out and chat' with punters on slow shifts as they might spend up big later on (hence compensating you somewhat).


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    If I'm at work, I want the money.

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    Definitely the dance, unless the customer is going to pay me $20 per song just to rub my back (highly doubtful).






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    Quote Originally Posted by Fireball link=board=8;threadid=7372;start=msg84133#msg84133 date=1079247786
    Have also had a few pass on going to do a pvt with someone else, to just come over and ask me to tell some of my stories to them...
    *cough* bullshit *cough*



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    Fireball Im assuming you are fucking with this post. DUH! I doubt if the ladies would get all sensuous from a back rub unless you want to pay them for the privalige.

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