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    hey you all, i'm really glad i found this sight....anyways, i have wanted to dance forever just never had the guts to do it, i would always do it at parties and stuff jusst for fun...but its different then because the dancing isn't the focus....its not why people came to the party...anyways my main questions are:

    i'm going to amatuer night, i live in lexington ky, alot of college girls,....'m really new, how do they even work....like do you walk in and sit down or what? do they call your name? and then what should i wear...like the woman who told me to come in was like you c an either audition or come to am night and she recommemded amatuer night becuase i could get a real idea of people in the club - should i have taken the audition? and how do you tip everyone out at the end of the night...do you do it if you win amateur night
    ? how do you do that att all? i'm so nervous about the whole thing but in a way excited..i just have no idea what to expect!!! help

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    Quote Originally Posted by brittzlegz link=board=25;threadid=7536;start=msg85946#msg8594 6 date=1079671755
    hey you all, i'm really glad i found this sight....anyways, i have wanted to dance forever just never had the guts to do it, i would always do it at parties and stuff jusst for fun...but its different then because the dancing isn't the focus....its not why people came to the party...anyways my main questions are:

    i'm going to amatuer night, i live in lexington ky, alot of college girls,....'m really new, how do they even work....like do you walk in and sit down or what? do they call your name? and then what should i wear...like the woman who told me to come in was like you c an either audition or come to am night and she recommemded amatuer night becuase i could get a real idea of people in the club - should i have taken the audition? and how do you tip everyone out at the end of the night...do you do it if you win amateur night
    ? how do you do that att all? i'm so nervous about the whole thing but in a way excited..i just have no idea what to expect!!! help
    Hi Britt, welcome to SW!

    Congrats on making the decision to get out there and audition!

    Going to the amateur night wouldn't hurt, I suppose. I've heard that most are rigged, but you'll probably still get hired there, if nothing else. Just get yourself all psyched up to go, and bring a bunch of (tipping) friends to cheer you on. In honest competitions, the audience determines the winner by their applause. I don't think you have to worry about tipouts if you're just doing the amateur night.

    Now on Tipouts... Every place is different. So, it's kind of hard to give an estimate. You can definitely ask them when you go in, maybe ask some questions to some friendly dancers. Tipouts are generally paid at the end of your shift. I've always taken money out of my garter and set it aside in a separate place, so I wouldn't have to worry about it at the end of the night.

    When are you going to the amateur night? We'll be cheering for you right here on SW.. lol.. Good luck, hon, and have fun while you're up there.


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    oh yeah, another question ....you all wear like a garter belt around the legs for tips...lacy,,.. what kind?? and does the daner pick her own music....thanks for the last repsonse...i go a week from tomarrow ..i need tanning advice too!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by brittzlegz link=board=25;threadid=7536;start=msg85952#msg8595 2 date=1079672698
    oh yeah, another question ....you all wear like a garter belt around the legs for tips...lacy,,.. what kind?? and does the daner pick her own music....thanks for the last repsonse...i go a week from tomarrow ..i need tanning advice too!!
    Hey hon..

    Garters.. hmmm.. let's see.. I have just about every kind.. LOL.. You can go with whatever your personal taste is on those. But, I've found the best ones are the tight thin nylon ones. You can get some that match your outfit, they make them in just about every color. They just hold better, in my opinion.

    I'm pretty sure they'll have you talk to the DJ and tell him what type of music you like. Most let you pick your own songs. Just make sure you pick something that's easy for you to dance to, and not just a song that you love.

    About tanning.. LOL.. that's definitely not my department hon. I'm the whitest sicilian you'll ever see. I pretty much stay out of the Sun, and have never been tanning. But, I've heard that the MysticTan (is that right?) is really good. It's the spray tan booth. I think it lasts a few days and covers really well and evenly. There's a thread around here somewhere. I think it's in "body business", that talks about it.

    Not having a tan has never hurt me. I'm a natural pale redhead, and I find that works for me. I would feel weird if I actually had color.. LOL

    Feel free to ask as many questions as you want hon, We're all here for ya. If someone can't answer one of the questions, there's always others who can here..


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    thanks you soo much i'm so nervous....and alot of people are on spring break so like i don 't know many people to bring with me....i'm just nerv ous ab out what to do when i get tghere....how dressed up do i get and shit...maybe i should go the week before and watch amateur night to get an idea....i don't wana wear something where all the girls will be like. oh she thinks shes a pro or anything...ok just rambling here..thanks for the tips keep em coming.....my mom also freaked when she found out about this....i didn't want her to find out but she did and told me i was gonna get rapd and all this shit but whatever she is extremely close minded and i understand that can happen but i'm smart ..from chicago and have been in a million situations...

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    Quote Originally Posted by brittzlegz link=board=25;threadid=7536;start=msg85956#msg8595 6 date=1079673762
    thanks you soo much i'm so nervous....and alot of people are on spring break so like i don 't know many people to bring with me....i'm just nerv ous ab out what to do when i get tghere....how dressed up do i get and shit...maybe i should go the week before and watch amateur night to get an idea....i don't wana wear something where all the girls will be like. oh she thinks shes a pro or anything...ok just rambling here..thanks for the tips keep em coming.....my mom also freaked when she found out about this....i didn't want her to find out but she did and told me i was gonna get rapd and all this shit but whatever she is extremely close minded and i understand that can happen but i'm smart ..from chicago and have been in a million situations...
    LOL It's ok hon.. Just keep yourself calm. You can tell your mother that she really shouldn't worry. When you're working at a club, security normally escorts girls to their cars when their shift is over. They're very good about that now. When I first started out, they weren't, so things happened, but they've come a long way. They earn their tipouts now.

    I lived in North Chicago for a couple of years, so I totally relate to what you're saying.. I still have the habit of locking the door behind me.. lol

    I would definitely recommend checking out the amateur night a week before you plan on doing it. Just so you can get an idea on how things run. While you're there, it'll be a perfect opportunity to ask the dancers questions. Have a couple of dollars handy for them, if you'd like. It's just good etiquette to tip them for their time. There are a lot of threads relating to amateur nights and auditions in the forums, so if you want, you can do a search for them. The site is packed with useful information that will help you out.

    Once you get up on the stage, your nerves will calm down drastically. But, the guys love a new girl, one who appears a little nervous and giddy, so you can use that to your advantage.

    When you go in to check out the club, dress down, but nicely. Some clubs will require you to have a male escort to get in, do you have anyone you could bring?

    Ask all the questions you want hon, we're here.. lol


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    I just started less than a week ago but my amateur night I took along a friend (female) and it helped me to remember to smile and be confident about myself.. best of luck to you

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    By the way... at most amateur contests the girls participating are really not amateurs... they are dancers from other places trying to win the contest for the cash prize.....so don't be upset if you don't win, it's not just about your looks it's also technique... BUT this is how I got my job... I didnt' even place in top 3 because I had never danced before but after the contest the manager approached me and asked if I wanted to start working there...... hope this is a little insight

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    If you don't care about going tanning in a bed or booth do that but please go nude! It is so tacky in my opinion to see girls up there with tan lines. Don't forget to flip over if you are in a lie down bed. If you don't flip over you will have white marks on your shoulder blade, under your butt and where your tail bone hits the bed. I've never done the spray tan thing. I'm sure I'll pay for it later but I look good now!

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    thanks you all//i used this tanning lotion and it worked really welll...i'm gonna call a smaller placed tomarrow to see if i can get an audition,,,i'
    m nervous i dont have enough mov es to take up an entire two songs, and that i'll get laughed at...i just need to get the first time done with and i'll be more calm, thanks for all your advice again

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    going for my audition tonight, i willlet youALL KNOW how itgoes....i'm so nervous

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    GOOD LUCK!

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    Yay! Good luck hon.. We expect a full report when you get home.. lol..

    Good luck and stay calm, you'll do great!

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    i got it!!! oh my god i danced three songs in front of audience and all the girls were really nice..i start wed but have nothing towear...one girl even asked where i had danced before this!!i was like i never danced...hhaa...anyways, i don't have many costumes and such what do id o......i was gonna buy one tomarrow andi have to sell 8 drinks a night, for myself...how doyou all get people pto bhuy you drinks..i can do it at a bar,.is it the same thing!! thanks for your alls support

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    Congratulations!!!!!!!!! I still need to get more costumes too, good luck w/ everything!

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    When you are chosing outfits try on a ton to see what looks good on you. Then once you get farmilar with brands and sizes you can order things off the internet cheaply.

    Sounds like you did great! Congradulations. Its a really great side that the girls were nice to you. Don't ever think that people are gonna laugh at you when you are on stage, most of the guys would kill to be with you!!!

    I suggest spending a lot of time on Stripperweb, it will increase your earning by hundreds of dollars a night. It did for me.
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    Im so proud of you!!!.....Is this not one of the greatest feelings ever. Man I still need outfits myself....I feel like Im always wearing the same thing, I change clothes alot...

    Lots Of Luck

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    ok so i was supposed to go work tonight and my boyfriend freaked out and basially told me he wouldn''t be with me if i stripped, and i don 't wanna lose him i can see myself marrying him, anyways i still wanna strip so 'i'm going to amateur night tomarrow at another place and se if i get a job there,,,i'm a little more confident now and i'm gonna audition at asnother place too....i told my boyfriend that i at least wanted to try it for a couple of weeks,,,,,has anyone else had this problem with boyfriends, and what did you do!!!!!

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    got th ejob at a much classier place...i feel much better ab out this place still have the boyfriend issue, i told him i wanted to work off my debts and then i'd stop but maybe he will just get used to it....i work day shift....i'm nervous...not as bad though..they said to weafr a gvown.....give me some examples!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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