i really love my job so far.. i am comfortable with dancing and stuff. but i am doing horribly.. after tip out i am left with just enough money to buy a mcdonalds happy meal. i dont know what i am doing wrong. i am one of the prettiest females in my club..and i have a good personality. i dance pretty well and look as though i enjoy what i am doing. i get rather nervous because i am black dancing at a very upscale white gentlemens club. i would imagine that i would make money there, but i dont think i am the type of girl the guys want. a guy wont want a dance from me, and then 15 minutes later i see a skinny blonde dancing for him. i am expecting rejection so i dont try anymore. what strategy should i go to work with? i feel as though i am wasting my time because i am not making any money .. and i have been working about a month. i really enjoy when there are black guys there because i can relate with them easier and the music is more my taste. should i try going to a black club to dance and see how it is and if my money increases? i want too, but i want to give my club a chance, it is really upscale and beautiful.... i am in a slight money emergency right now, i need to fix my car and i am not making nearly enough money to do that!! help me!


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) or some other hottie. Then imagine your customer is Brad Pitt-in-a-suit. You'll approach him differently. You'll approach with a flirty, sexy gleam in your eye and a swing to your hips. If that doesn't work then a)you've found a club that's all about making regulars or b)a club you don't share chemistry with. Sometimes the money click doesn't happen because the customers don't have a strong enough passion for your personality. If you can work the room and do OK but the guys aren't waving you over and nearly fighting each other to get a dance, you might have found a lukewarm spot. Try the new approach and sit and visit with the guys for a few weeks to get to know them and make them regulars. If things don't improve dramatically, find a new spot. Don't waste months and years there because it's a glamorous spot with a good rep. Only money matters! I've made great money in glamorous and kooky spots. Only money matters.





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