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    Listen, tonight I had an awful experience with a customer in the VIP room... first of all, our club does not get paid for private dances until the end of the dance.. sooo.... I made it clear when he asked for extras that i'm not into it.. he still wanted the dance so I obliged and when we were alone he ripped down his pants and underwear to his ankles and pulled him on top of him...after I told him there was no f'ing way .. he called me a bitch and took off to the WOMENS bathroom... i grabbed the bouncer and filled him in and the ONLY thing he said to the guy was dude you can't use the womens bathroom... after telling the manager and the bouncer if you don't throw trash out like that I"m GONE they told me he was a regular on a Sunday night and I put my clothes on and left.. what the HELL is wrong with the manager and is she smoking crack?!!!

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    That situation sucks BIG TIME! In my experience, when I have worked for employers with a blatant disregard for their staff like the one you have outlined, the best I did was walk away. Sure I lost $, but they lost a damn good staff member. Plus, I got to keep my self esteem.

    I did a mixed show last year (me and 2 girls) where some guys thought it was funny to try and humilate me. On 4 separate occassions in our first set, they tried the same caper and I complained to the event organiser. He smiled and nodded and said that it wouldn't happen again. Come our second set, as soon as I was down to my thong they tried the same thing again so I grabbed the guy - stopping our show - and threatened him. He stopped.

    Your bouncer deserves a punch to the guts for not roughing that customer up. Let us know what you do.
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    I totally agree. If that bouncer didn't throw the guy out and make sure he hurt the guy in the process, he wasn't doing his job. I would have left....right after I called the police and had charges filed against this guy.

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    the least I woulda expected from the bouncer was a threat and a throw out. I like paiges suggestion about the cops though...

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    OMG!! I am so sorry that happened to you! Total BS. Do you by any chance, work for Deja Vu?
    I wouldn't call the police, because, here in WA, our dances are ALL illegal.


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    Quote Originally Posted by NikkiD link=board=27;threadid=7604;start=msg87015#msg8701 5 date=1079966689
    OMG!! I am so sorry that happened to you! Total BS. Do you by any chance, work for Deja Vu?
    I wouldn't call the police, because, here in WA, our dances are ALL illegal.
    No I work for a club called Tycoon's in Detroit.. supposedly with a good reputation but I just started and can't see how they keep their girls...

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    Oh my god. I'm so sorry. I would have called the cops and filed a sexual assult charge, then sued the club. Or at the least chucked a shoe at the guys head.

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    Its unbelieveable the danger you girls are prone to endure everyday, Myself I am just a web developer that sits in front of a computer everyday, I have recently been assigned a new venture from up above and am learning quite a bit about what you ladies have to put up with to earn your livings.

    I would like to wish you all the best and most of all be safe. I cant phathom how anyone could treat a woman with such disrespect. I know my wife has had run in's in her corporate world but nothing compares to some of the stories I have read here in the forums. I do not frequent strip clubs but maybe I should, Just to teach some of these assholes that treat you all with disrespect a lesson. I appologize for rambling but incidents like these make me angry.

    I would also like to thank you all for opening my eyes to what you experience. If you ever need anyone to talk to just holler I'm a good listener.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ohio_Dancer_Paige link=board=27;threadid=7604;start=msg87005#msg8700 5 date=1079962758
    I totally agree. If that bouncer didn't throw the guy out and make sure he hurt the guy in the process, he wasn't doing his job. I would have left....right after I called the police and had charges filed against this guy.
    I'm not a bouncer, but what he did wasn't the best thing. He should have gotten the guy out of there. However, I wonder if the bouncer didn't want a confrontation for fear of who might get hurt. Some bouncers look big and tough, but it only takes one guy who knows how to fight to kick the asses of the bouncers. I've seen it happen, and then bouncers are forever looking for ways out of confrontation.
    The best bet would have been to call the police if management wouldn't take care of it.
    It's all mind over matter. If I don't mind, it doesn't matter.

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    after telling the manager and the bouncer if you don't throw trash out like that I"m GONE they told me he was a regular on a Sunday night and I put my clothes on and left.. what the HELL is wrong with the manager and is she smoking crack?!!!
    If you'll forgive a tactless answer, the manager understands that regular big spending customers make money for the club and are hard to come by, while replacement dancers are a dime a dozen !

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    Quote Originally Posted by Melonie link=board=27;threadid=7604;start=msg87321#msg8732 1 date=1080012787
    after telling the manager and the bouncer if you don't throw trash out like that I"m GONE they told me he was a regular on a Sunday night and I put my clothes on and left.. what the HELL is wrong with the manager and is she smoking crack?!!!
    If you'll forgive a tactless answer, the manager understands that regular big spending customers make money for the club and are hard to come by, while replacement dancers are a dime a dozen !
    Yeah, well what he did was completely illegal and management should know better....

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