Ok, I know this topic has been been skimmed over before, but I want to open it up more in depth based on some recent conversations.
I was at a club visiting my regular girl, and when she was busy some other dancers would come over and sit with me to chat. On different occassions this would happen, and the particulars as below have happened at least 3 times. They knew I was waiting for my regular girl, and they would praise her up and down. But then, while talking they would mention how they were dancing to make money for school, etc. and that "other" girls were doing this to feed their kids or support their drug habits. They would make every other dancer seem less than her. I had one girl tell me some of the crap about other girls without mentioning who they were while she admitted she was high on xanax right in front of me. Then when they were done bemoaning the other girls, they wouldn't even ask for dance, and tell me they would get my girl or let he know I was still waiting.
So, why do some dancers feel the need to bash the other girls, even when they don't seem to be moving in on me (or any other guy for that matter)? I am pretty sure they didn't mean to bash my girl. One of the reasons I chose her is they way I read her. I may be wrong, but (not to be immodest) that is not that often when I read people.
Do people think they are bashing my girl, or are they just bashing the other girls for no good reason?
I have to say I find the practice of dancers trashing their fellow dancers a bit disturbing and a big turnoff.




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