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    Hello I have not been on here and posted in a long while. I hope everyone is doing well! anyway I have a question I am sure this has been asked before but I did not see it probally did not look good enough :o

    How do most strippers feel about couples going in to your club? I am not talking about a couple where the girl is there only because she is jealous but is there becasue they both enjoy it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Luda link=board=8;threadid=7651;start=msg87532#msg87532 date=1080073592
    I did not see it probally did not look good enough :o

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    this link did not work.

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    I love couples in the club . I am usually the only girl that approaches the couples in the clubs I work at. I will address the woman of the couple when approaching the table, as the woman is usually the most talkative anyway.

    I probably earn 40% of my income from couples and women on the weekends. Weeknights tend to be less women in the bar overall. I have started to change my stage shows to be more appealing to a female audience. Men don't usually notice one way or the other, but the women take notice when I change up my show to appeal to them.

    I enjoy my female customers because I think I get better reactions from them (applause, hoots, and cat calls etc.). The women seem to have more fun when in strip clubs. More smiles from the female customers then from the men, and the ladies seem less self concious than the guys do.

    Many dancers are uncomfortable with the female customers because they had to deal with a negetive comments. I had a girl in the club one night call me a slut because she walked in when I was dancing for her husband. I told her to "get it right, I'm a whore, 'cause I don't give it away for free."

    But for the most part, the guys are way more rude and crass then the ladies ever are.

    Every club has a dancer or two like me that loves the female customers. Ask you door man or the cashier lady who those dancers are, and then seek them out. You will have a better time if your dancer is comfortable with her situation.


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    some couples are "swingers" and these usually don't money in the club there are looking for some "outside attention" these people i stay away from
    on the other hand couples that are new to the club scene spend money and have a really good time
    KNOW THE DIFFRENCE

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    Quote Originally Posted by ParisLove link=board=8;threadid=7651;start=msg87584#msg87584 date=1080082630
    I love couples in the club . I am usually the only girl that approaches the couples in the clubs I work at. I will address the woman of the couple when approaching the table, as the woman is usually the most talkative anyway.

    I probably earn 40% of my income from couples and women on the weekends. Weeknights tend to be less women in the bar overall. I have started to change my stage shows to be more appealing to a female audience. Men don't usually notice one way or the other, but the women take notice when I change up my show to appeal to them.

    I enjoy my female customers because I think I get better reactions from them (applause, hoots, and cat calls etc.). The women seem to have more fun when in strip clubs. More smiles from the female customers then from the men, and the ladies seem less self concious than the guys do.

    Many dancers are uncomfortable with the female customers because they had to deal with a negetive comments. I had a girl in the club one night call me a slut because she walked in when I was dancing for her husband. I told her to "get it right, I'm a whore, 'cause I don't give it away for free."

    But for the most part, the guys are way more rude and crass then the ladies ever are.

    Every club has a dancer or two like me that loves the female customers. Ask you door man or the cashier lady who those dancers are, and then seek them out. You will have a better time if your dancer is comfortable with her situation.
    Thank you so much for the input it makes alot of sense.
    I am just curious becasue I love to go watch and spend money on the girls becasue i think you girls are so brave for the jobs that you do.

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    Quote Originally Posted by slick_stephy link=board=8;threadid=7651;start=msg87595#msg87595 date=1080085274
    some couples are "swingers" and these usually don't money in the club there are looking for some "outside attention" these people i stay away from
    on the other hand couples that are new to the club scene spend money and have a really good time
    KNOW THE DIFFRENCE
    Well my husband and I go about twice a month. We ARE NOT swingers I have never been and niether has he. I am Fascinated and I think if I have the money to spend on something I like then I can and if a girl feels like that then fine I will spend it on someone who wants to make money. Thank you for your input also it is good to here the different ways you girls think about this. Thanks have a great day.

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    I don't mind couples in my club most of the time. The one exception was Valentine's Day. It was horrible, most of the club was just couples and they didn't seem approachable. Most other times, if a couple is in my club, I watch to see they have a first drink then approach them. Many are very receptive and will spend money on the right girl.

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    Sometimes when i see couples in the club, i invite a girl on the stage, she has fun and dances with me around.
    But on the other hand, I had a situation when a "boyfriend" brought his woman to check me out because he was there with bunch of friends before and really liked me. It feels horrieble, especially if girl stats crying and then flipping out on the parking lot. It depends.
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    As the female part of a couple who is not into swinging nor are we looking for anything outside the club. I find it difficult to go. Not because I'm insecure or jealous. But because we spend, and we spend-- when they are on stage. But many of the girls would rather play the video game machine than talk to us. I really don't know why either. We're both friendly. We tip well on the stage. We buy dances, sometimes together and sometimes just my husband will go in back (which doesn't bother me at all). I have also had a dance alone, but it was with a dancer who we got to know well over the course of a few months at the club. Anyhow, most will go around the room after a dance and thank the "tippers", they look the other way when they walk by us-- like please don't make eye contact. I really don't get it. They do this w/ all the couples in there. The funny thing-- is the club advertises heavily as being couple friendly!!!! Oh well, their loss. We usually go w/ an average of $400-750 to blow that night. Lately I've been coming home w/ most of it. I'm just not gonna keep tipping the girls on stage that wanna give the cold shoulder. It's the nicest place around. Pretty soon we're gonna start braving the borders and head to Niagara Falls, it's only an extra 20 minute drive. Our money goes further, and there are a lot more clubs to pick from.

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    Quote Originally Posted by slick_stephy link=board=8;threadid=7651;start=msg87595#msg87595 date=1080085274
    some couples are "swingers" and these usually don't money in the club there are looking for some "outside attention" these people i stay away from
    on the other hand couples that are new to the club scene spend money and have a really good time
    KNOW THE DIFFRENCE
    I just wanted to comment on the swinger thing. It is really easy to spot swingers. They will usually reveal themselves right away, as they are in comfortable surroundings. And I agree that they don't usually spend much on dances as they often assume that dancers are practically swinger themselves.

    Ladies, you can still earn your money from swingers. Offer to teach the woman of the couple some hot lap dance techniques, that she can use to impress people at their next swinger's party. Also, open the sale with a line like "Let's go check out the VIP area and see if we are compatible." I frequently have danced for swingers, where I have had to do very little work because I got the girl of the couple to dance for me and her husband. In some areas it is okay to get her topless, otherwise I let her dance in her bra. He's turned on, she's turned on, and I'm getting paid. You have to be a convincing actress with swinger couples. If you look distant or bored, they will walk away from the sale.


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