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    when you approach a table you can pretty much tell if a customer is interested in you.when you walk up and say hi and they give you a smile and a friendly hello.ask them if you can sit and have a drink and if they are more than willing your garuanteed to get a dance from him.if the waitress comes up to the table and asks if he wants a drink and he immedietly turns to you and asks if you want one,he has no problem spending money and you will get a dance. if he tips the waitress more than a dollar,you'll get a dance! if he's from a big city your most likely to get more than one dance. now a tip to know without asking for a dance if he's even interested: if you approach the table and say hi and he doesn't give you eye contact,or he doesn't communicate with you or he bitches about the drink price,or he tips the waitress nothing to .50 cents turn around and run!

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    Default Re:this is a tip to tell if a guy is interested

    Most of those are great.

    Yet I would caution the "he immedietly turns to you and asks if you want [a drink]"... sometimes they are quite willing to buy you a drink but not a dance.

    It is hard for me when all I drink at work is lemon water or lemonade. I only drink alcoholic beverages when I'm celebrating a really great shift or else am having a really bad shift and figure it will help me.

    How would you respond if all you were drinking was water and/or lemonade which you get for free ???


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    Default Re:this is a tip to tell if a guy is interested

    As a customer, I agree. If I'm interested I will smile and make eye contact. (If I'm not, I'll politely say no thanks so we both don't waste our time).

    One exception, however. Although I am more than willing to buy a dancer a drink, I won't do it immediately because I want to see some of her personality before either investing money or time. A drink implies she will Also, some places have extremely high drink prices and I'd rather the woman keep my money, not the club.

    Regarding tipping waitresses....I think a dollar or two each time is fine for bringing me a single drink. After all, a regular waiter only gets 15 to 20%, and he or she serves me an entire meal. It has absolutely nothing to do with whether I would get a dance from an individual dancer.

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    Working a room can be a lot like driving- use your mirrors! Don&#039;t stare at yourself in them, but when you walk across the room/give a dance, you can use the mirrors to see whose eyes follow you. It&#039;s a discrete way to eyeball the crowd without staring at them directly and intimidating them. For example, I may walk across the room to the D.J. booth, checking the mirrors on my way there. Then, I&#039;ll walk over to the man whose eye&#039;s were just burning a hole through me and say hello.

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    Hmm, I&#039;ve had a guy bitch about the drink prices but then buy dances from me because I&#039;m &#039;different&#039; from the other girls who only run by and ask if they want a dance. heheh. Note, this guy never buys more than 3 dances and never tips, so only if it&#039;s slooooow. Which it has been recently, every guy requires ten minutes or so of warming up, and by that time I wonder if it&#039;s just a pity thing.

    And I&#039;m under 21, so all I can drink is water, juice or soda.
    him: "you want a drink?"
    me: "Oh, I&#039;m fine." *holds up half finished bottle of water*
    him: "that can&#039;t be all you want, let me get you something..."
    Me: "oh, none for me, thanks for the offer, though."
    him: "are you absolutely suure?"
    and back and forth and back and forth, this guy also hedges dances for like, half an hour, askes me to find someone for his buddy, which I brought three girls to and finally he got a dance from one, but then my guy didn&#039;t want to leave the drinks, or some other excuse. I wasn&#039;t even initiating this, I&#039;d leave and then he&#039;s tell me to pop back over after my stage set or something. finally:
    Me: listen, sweetheart, I need to see if I can sell dances. I&#039;d be happy to dance for you, but if not, I need to see if someone else wants one.
    him: what about a drink first?
    me: look, the bar makes money when you buy me a drink, I don&#039;t make anything, and I work here to make money.
    him: But I&#039;ve been trying to spend money on you all night!

    grrr. There are few customers that really make me mad, but that guy did. Most guys, if they are actually trying to spend money on me, stuff it in my g-string. Then, never tipping, figures that buying a whole &#039;nother dance he&#039;ll get to finger me - geez, at least offer money in addition to the price of a dance if you want extras...

    cookie sounds like the best customer.
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    Darkness has made some very valid points, I&#039;ve been using this information for a long time...there are additional sales tactics as well.....but if the man does not offer to buy you a drink..and if he gets angry because you do not want alcohol-you need to scam his arse or move on!!!

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    DARKNESS... so true!

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    Default Re:this is a tip to tell if a guy is interested

    and kat.... i love this quote "What do you call a yard full of strippers?"
    -Garden hoes.

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    I have been thinking of using the approach of turning down the drink but taking the money for the drink and chatting with them I dont drink but I will gladly accept a tip for my time kind of thing. Think it would work? Im a newbie havent started dancing yet but I will going for some auditions in June 2018 I'm in Vegas so I am trying hard to step my hustle up lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by Stripperwhoneedshelp View Post
    I have been thinking of using the approach of turning down the drink but taking the money for the drink and chatting with them I dont drink but I will gladly accept a tip for my time kind of thing. Think it would work? Im a newbie havent started dancing yet but I will going for some auditions in June 2018 I'm in Vegas so I am trying hard to step my hustle up lol
    I love how you responded to this thread fourteen years later. You definitely been doing your research, sis. This thread definitely needs to be revisited since times has drastically changed. But all is still the same, definitely sit down with a customer if they are nice and willing to engage and pay for your time! I wouldn’t ask to join. I would just sit. And if they catch an attitude, then I’ll dip!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Stripperwhoneedshelp View Post
    I have been thinking of using the approach of turning down the drink but taking the money for the drink and chatting with them I dont drink but I will gladly accept a tip for my time kind of thing. Think it would work? Im a newbie havent started dancing yet but I will going for some auditions in June 2018 I'm in Vegas so I am trying hard to step my hustle up lol
    This might work in a place where tipping for time is normal- most places I've worked it's pretty rare that a custie hands over money for just chatting, typically it's just dances or you move along. I usually just decline the drink but continue with the sale. Anybody who tries to push drinks on me after I've made it clear I don't drink "but you can get me naked" etc I just walk away from. Buying a drink sometimes indicates they want to spend on you but sometimes it's just them wanting to get you drunk. Sometimes these guys will eventually go for dances once they figure you're messy enough to let them take advantage of you... just avoid all around.

    There's plenty of guys who say things like "I don't buy dances but I'll buy you a drink" I'll usually just joke "yeah the last time I tried to pay my bills in vodka it didn't go over well" and move along.

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    Arranging with servers and/or the club to have you brought fake drinks that are just water (coloured if appropriate) and getting some of the money back would be the ideal scenario. Maybe arrange to have it count against tip-out or something like that. If you're otherwise NOT going to drink, they're actually coming out ahead even if they give you the full "drink" price back, as there's still the tip, the custy ordering one for himself as well, etc.

    You just want to avoid sugary drinks as a frequent substitute, as those calories will also add up! Variations on water with food colouring probably have the most potential, as "diet" drinks are pretty nasty too.

    Quote Originally Posted by SuperJa View Post
    This might work in a place where tipping for time is normal- most places I've worked it's pretty rare that a custie hands over money for just chatting, typically it's just dances or you move along. I usually just decline the drink but continue with the sale. Anybody who tries to push drinks on me after I've made it clear I don't drink "but you can get me naked" etc I just walk away from. Buying a drink sometimes indicates they want to spend on you but sometimes it's just them wanting to get you drunk. Sometimes these guys will eventually go for dances once they figure you're messy enough to let them take advantage of you... just avoid all around.

    There's plenty of guys who say things like "I don't buy dances but I'll buy you a drink" I'll usually just joke "yeah the last time I tried to pay my bills in vodka it didn't go over well" and move along.

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    Arrange with the waitresses to give you fake shots of tequila or vodka. It will be water instead. That way you drink the "shot" fast and if he's not gonna buy anything, you move along.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Clara_M View Post
    Arranging with servers and/or the club to have you brought fake drinks that are just water (coloured if appropriate) and getting some of the money back would be the ideal scenario. Maybe arrange to have it count against tip-out or something like that. If you're otherwise NOT going to drink, they're actually coming out ahead even if they give you the full "drink" price back, as there's still the tip, the custy ordering one for himself as well, etc.

    You just want to avoid sugary drinks as a frequent substitute, as those calories will also add up! Variations on water with food colouring probably have the most potential, as "diet" drinks are pretty nasty too.
    Yeah we're not legally allowed to do the fake drinks thing here unfortunately. It also becomes problematic when I've ordered a drink downstairs but then don't wanna split the champagne with him upstairs- too many different waitresses to arrange things with. For clubs where it's doable that's for sure an option.

    For me personally though 90% of the time waiting for the waitress, ordering a drink, waiting for the drink to come back, and then drinking it at the table is just more time than I want to invest, unless I'm positive I'm closing a large sale. Ariel's suggestion of shots is great as it's quick and easy.

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