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    How do you operate? Which punters do you approach first... etc


    When you go out on the floor of your club, in what order do you hustle punters ?

    Do you first look for those who are alone... then go for those who are alone and fat or alone and over the age of 30 or alone and over the age of 50.. after you exhaust that area of punters.. do you then approach groups of 2-3 punters who are over 25 years of age.. then after you exhaust all those groups... the larger groups ?

    Do you avoid couples, a certain race, age etc ?

    I personally do something similiar to what I described above. I also tend to only approach couples as a last resort otherwise they generally have to indicate they want me to approach them.. and I also avoid the punters who are under the age of 20 and especially if they are in a group of 4 or more.

    I love Bucks parties. I generally am chosen for a lap dance with the Buck or a member of the party more often than not. I also go for the 'fat' guys and older men over the young guys.

    Or do you just go to whoever warms to you via the stage or when you walk past them ???



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    In the club, I generally try to avoid large, rowdy groups who are typically young. I like to approach the single, preferably older guy in the corner because using my energy on one guy to get repeat dances or possibly investing in a regular is better money than being passed around a group of tipsy guys once who I'll probably never see again. They can be good money sometimes, but I totally need the patience with them. Sometimes, it can get testing!

    I try to approach every type of guy but in general, I noticeably get very bad business from some asian, particularly Japanese customers. It is so true that they adore blonde, fairskinned girls so I normally find myself making small chit-chat with them before I'm replaced with a busty blonde. But there have been few occasions I have had dances so I don't rule them out as it's a potential loss. I just concentrate more efforts into others.

    There have been very young guys (18th birthdays) who come into the club and a lot of the girls don't approach them. In these cases, I will do so because at the end of the day, they are pretty naive to the whole scene and want to have a memorable time. It always feels weird dancing for them though. They seem like babies (aaaw!).

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    First, I'll approach the ones that have tipped me on stage.

    Next, I look for the guys sitting alone. When it comes to the loners, I generally go by age, starting with the older guys first on the theory that they have more money to spend. I used to go by the way they were dressed, but I've found that that is not necessarily a good indicator. The guy that is dressed nicely in his suit and tie may be drowing in credit card debt, or more likely, have a wife at home that counts every nickle. The middle-aged guys in clean, if not fashionable, clothes seem be more willing to part with their money, and have more of it to part with.

    After that come the groups of guys. I've found the groups are a lot more work for the same amount of money. I think it's much more profitable to find a lonely guy sitting in the corner.

    Personally, I don't much go for dancing for couples, so I'd approach them last, if at all. I know there are couples that come to this board and I don't mean to offend them, It's just not my thing.
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    I usually wait until I see someone get served their drink. That way, the chances of the "I just got here" response is reduced. Personally, I prefer to approach men that are alone, rather than 2 or more men. I don't work too much with other ladies at my club, although I am friendly with most, if not all of them, so groups are hard for me to tackle, unless I have been specifically requested. When I am in the "zone," I make my rounds, stopping at about every table and using the friendly "Are you ready for a dance?" If the offer is declined, I smile and let them know I will check back later.

    Groups are difficult for me to approach, as I prefer a one on one conversation. And more often than not, there is one misogynistic asshole in the group that got "dragged" to the club and wants to be disrespectful.

    Couples are great!! Some ladies seem to be afraid to approach the couples, but I have found that couples can 1)spend alot and 2)become very loyal. My fave line when approaching a couple is to go to the male and say "Would you care to buy a dance for the lady?" If that is declined, I turn to the gal and say "Would you like me to dance for the gentleman?" More often than not, I will get at least one dance with this method.

    At the clubs that I have primarily worked at, it is an unwritten rule to not approach customers sitting stage side. If, however, a customer who tipped me on stage returns to his/her table after my set, I will definitely approach that person.

    I also have to go with Malibu on the race issue. Asian men tend to love me, because I am a tall, busty blonde: to some the "all American" girl. I have also from time to time had an African American male/female following due to my curves and booty.

    Occasionally, I will entertain the bachelor/bachelorette/birthday parties...this not only gives me the chance to sell a stage dance for the bday boy/girl or bachelor/bachelorette (we're in San Francisco), but it also gives me the opportunity to say "Okay, who's next??" when I'm done doing dances for the lucky one.

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    I forgot to mention, I stay away from Indians. I definately avoid them as 10 out of 12 Indians I have danced for.. well.. could they be any more unpleasant ?

    It isn't just me either that stays away from them. Ever since the Indian convention that hit the Gold Coast (for two weeks our club was dominated by Indians)... only the desparate dancers go near them.


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    as a rule i always ask anyone who responds to my eye contact... tips me more than a dollar... or who throws money on the stage...for a private dance....
    i also steer clear of groups...
    i totally agree with malibu about sitting with an older customer who may become a regular as an investment... rather than getting passed around by one time customers...

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    I don't do good with Asian & Latin guys, they prefer blondes But I do exceptionally wellwith white customers Different preferances, I guess.

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    I also prefer to approach customers who have already been served their drink and I also try to take note of who is tipping and buying dances w/ other dancers - basicaly who is spending more freely.

    If coming off stage I go to those who have tipped me and thank them then offer a dance if none buy I freshen up in the dressingroom then hit the floor.

    If I'm just working the floor I try the middle age guys, preferably alone but I'll approach pairs as well. 2nd choice- older gents. 3rd choice the younger ( under 30) shy or heavyset guys- these can make good customers but I find they require a little extra time/attention in the begining or ALT. 3rd choice Bach. parties- they can be an easy dance and go if u find out quickly who the bestman is - so 3rd choice is very dependant on how much is left on my shift.

    And as a last resort i'll approach young guys & preferable alone..... young guys in groups are my least fav :

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    I try to sit and chat with the guys and charm them. And ask for a dance. Then always ask them for another dance after the song ends. I usually like older guys. I feel more comforable when they are alone or in pairs. If it is a group of guys I look for the oldest guy and plop right down on his lap. I group of youngins I usually bypass unless I am desprate. I really do not like dancing for young guys they always think you want them or something. It is so funny because they are like yuppy metrosexual types exactly the oppisite of what I like( I like the long haired musician type) The older guys make you feel like the most beautiful woman ever and mostly treat you with alot of respect. (Plus they usually have money for multiple dances) Couples are usually hit or miss with me. I do not sit down and chat with them I just smile say hi to the woman, ask them how they are doing, and turn to the man and say " Are you going to buy the beautiful lady a dance?". After midnight untll close I do not even bother sitting down I just run my hands through their hair, smile and say " Are you ready for me to moleste you?/ Are you ready for me to crawl all over you/ Are you horney do you need a dance?" Something cute and sexy. If works if they are not cheap assholes unlike last night!!

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    I'm all about efficient use of my money-making time. Generally when I get there I come out of the dressing room and go to tell the DJ I'm there. On the way I acknowledge customers who make eye contact with a sexy smile and "hey babe" or whatever. Then I check in with the floor guy to see if there are any customers I should sit with. Then I'll go back to a customer who's preferably 40+ and really big. Sit with them for a couple minutes. What I say isn't as important as how I say it, so I lean towards them, make big lips and heaving chest, and when the time is right I ask for the room. I continue to do this till I hit stage. After stage I go to any customers that came up to the stage to tip me and then went back to their seats.

    I generally don't do the hit and run ("wannadance") thing, cause I don't want hit and run customers. I want customers that come back every week and spend an hour in the champagne room with me.

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    When I danced in SF I found that Asians rarely did more than tip me on stage. Younger black guys usually wanted the "hook-up", while older black men loved me. I also did well with white guys and latin men. I found that large groups of men were usually broke/cheap, so they were a last resort.
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    Don't discount large groups of men. Case in point: Superbowl or other large sporting events. Lots of guys come in a group of friends, like old college buddies, or what have you. They're here for football, golf, etc, and they've put $$ away to spend at the clubs at night....

    You can do a round of the table, and get 2-3 dances per guy. Since they are high volume, they won't be as gropey and try to have sex with you like the VIP man....

    Its not first choice, but you can't have Mr. Lonely big spender every night. By making a huge point to approach only single guys alienates others, look available to ANYONE!!

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    i go to the older guys first and men sitting alone, or in twos then threes.....groups etc.....after i dance for the one guy i ask him if he thinks his friend will get a dance and i go back to the table flirt alittle and then eventually dance for all the guys in the group.....the Japeneese guys usually get dances from me , im petite, long blonde hair and D cups..i guess thats what they like blondes......go figure..they have money but sometimes it's tuff to get it from them..........but i try...LOL......i find that most of the guys who have and spend more money ususally sit in the upper front / middle section of club and the broker ones....ha ha ...sit towards the back .....but not always because sometimes they have to sit where they can find a place....i also when i can remember who i see at the cash machine and go to them ;O)

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    also i have a twin sister when she's in the vip room /or vise versa.....i go find her while shes dance and when there done i ask would you like the both of us to dance ...boobs in his face........and they do 98% of the time.......double trouble.......LOL. they love it!!!

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    if i go for a group, i always tell the guy to put a good word in for me with his friends. he is usually like a rabbit in headlights wen im finished with him so it works everytime.

    in the UK, we are not allowed to touch the customers or do any floor work and a VIP dance is just a 15 minute long dance, so its hard work!
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    Quote Originally Posted by 21stcenturyfox link=board=9;threadid=7759;start=msg107294#msg1072 94 date=1084156720
    in the UK...a VIP dance is just a 15 minute long dance, so its hard work!
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    we arent allowed to touch the customers either! they hav cameras in the booths so we have to use our hair to put our breasts in their face so the camera's cant see.

    ps: this is just at my spearmint rhino club, there are different types of clubs all over the UK. but SR are feeling pressure from the media.
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    21stCF, I take it you work at SRTCR? I've heard that that particular SR club has been getting a public grilling lately. How easy/hard is it to make money there nowadays?

    P.S. I'm from UK too - welcome to SW!
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    no i work at the slough branch so i guess its a bit harder as we are very much 'out of the way'

    i think they arent as strick at slough as TCR. im not 100% as ive never worked at TCR. £85 for a house fee and nearly 100 girls everynight!? u must be crazy!
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    Worked at Stringfellows when I was staying in London for a while. I think the stripclub industry is pointless in the UK. If there isn't aleast some contact from the woman, you know rubbing his chest or leg what hell do they bother going? If you have no choice, I think blondes do better there than anyone else. When we get guys from the Uk here (NYC) they just go crazy with the blondes.
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    the english are bizzare, im so glad im south african
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    Why do the Japanese like blondes? Because there is no such thing in their country! They also like large, more rounded eyes because most Japanese do not have the larger eyes (have you guys ever noticed the overexaggerated eyes in Japanese animation?) So they like something different and exotic to them, and to them, blondies are exotic! Makes sense, since variety is the spice o' life.

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    I seem to appeal to the college boy (private vs state).

    White collar men who grew up fairly middle class as opposed to White collar men that grew up poor or in the slums.

    Down-to-earth very wealthy men who are involved a "people friendly" type biz like farming as opposed to oil.

    Mommas boys and virgins adore me.

    Women who are new to strip clubs.

    Earthy-crunchy organic or artistic types.


    Thats who I go after....but anyone with a smile, eyecontact, and who has tipped will also get a quick response from me....All others stand in line as they generally aren't worth my time.
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    I have no strategy, except I will approach anyone who smiles or glances at me etc regardless of who they are...
    In Sydney, it's easy. I usually get approached by customers during or after stage or customers will just come up and talk to me, or they'll ask the hostess if I can go over to them. Thats the perfect way to work!!! My customers there are all ages, sizes, races and walks of life, it's great!
    Queensland was the same once. I'm abit lost with the current situation though. When there was a $20-30 dance option I'd clean up if lots of young people come in. Now most of them cant afford to spend money on lap-dances so i don't talk to them as much as i used to. I usually approach people at tables age 30+ who have a spare seat so I can sit down! It also depends on who I'm working with. On a quiet night, (which is pretty much every night!!!) if other girls on the shift are going around hasseling everyone in the room over and over for dances without sitting talking to customers 1st, I will sit and do nothing or just talk casually to one or two people. There's usually at least 1 customer who really appreciates the fact that I haven't gone around asking everyone for dances / money and that often works to my advantage. (-Though I've had some shockers from doing this too, lol!!!) If the other girls are taking time to talk to customers and be friendly etc I will work the room a little. Talking to customers often pays off anyway, I tend to get tipped for having conversations even if people dont get dances and i find that very easy to do. I try to walk around the club a fair bit to increase the chances of getting tipped for the things that make me stand out from other dancers, (hair, boots, beer-drinking, attitude etc...) this happens a fair bit too.
    I avoid Japanese because they tend to look uncomfortable / horrified whenever I go near them, and I pretty much will avoid Indians too because I get the impression that they usually think I'm a freak-show. Also I always assume both groups of people prefur light skinned women. I'm more inclined not to talk to people from Asia as the language barrier is too awkward and many Asian men expect our clubs to be like they are in Thailand, so it's difficult.
    I used not to approach buisness men, but I now find that they often much prefur the company a young looking older woman over a young looking young woman, not that I'm that old, but it's a tad tedious because first we have to get onto a subject which allows me to drop my age and show off my intelligence. I quite often approach buisness men now though.

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    You know, I've thought about this time and time again about the age thing --- I'm thinking I'm gonna have to boost my fake age up a little just to get the respect factor going on.

    You're right, many men do prefer youthful looking mature women and I believe I could pull this off.
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