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    Just wondering, if a dancer leaves a club and goes to another, is it okay to go there to see her? Or does that weird you girls out? We're not talking goind 1500 miles or anything.

    One of the dancers, my husband and I prefer to see has abruptly left the club we go to. Anyhow, one of the other dancers came up to us the other night-- she knew that the previous dancer and us spent a lot of time together. She said she wasn't really supposed to say-- but that we'd probably want to know that "X" went to such and such a club. She wasn't trash talking-- she was being pretty discreet and sincere.

    Now this other club is up and across the border (we're about 20 or so minutes from Niagara Falls). Anyhow-- there's tons of clubs up there. I actually remember having a very specific conversation w/ the dancer about us not going to Canada because it's a hassle to cross the border, ect. Anyhow-- of all the clubs, I think it would be obvious that we were going to see her.

    So, my question is, is that weird to you guys, or is it okay?? We have always spent A LOT on her, and she really seemed to like us in a professional sort of way(I mean-- she never seemed annoyed, she always came to see us when we got there-- even if she was sititng w/ someone else she'd rush right over and give hugs and how have you been's, we clicked in a "professional" sense) Just wanted to stress I have no notions that this isn't business to her.

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    Hi Kilee,

    I think that if you and your husband were high-paying customers of this dancer, then she shouldn't have a problem with you coming to Canada to see her. I am not currently dancing, but I went from working in Buffalo to Fort Erie Canada, and it was nice to have my fans from Buffalo come up to see me after I switched. There was pretty much only one guy who I would have preferred to NOT see after I switched, but most of my customers I welcomed to my new club.

    Just out of curiousity, what club in Niagara Falls is it that this dancer switched to? If it is the Sundowner then I definitely wouldnt worry about the girl being weirded out--EVERYONE goes to that club.

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    It wouldn't weird me out at all. If you are really good customers, she may have even asked her friend to discretely let you know where she went.
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    Following a girl home: creepy

    Going to see favorite dancer at a new club: normal and acceptable.

    When I go to work at another club for awhile, I usually ask my regular customers to come see me there. That way if the girls are mean, or it's slow there's someone that I feel comfortable with there.

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    Theresa--- she's at Maxine's. Guess thats right in Fort Erie.

    I'd never follow a dancer home!!! Not interested in that way at all.

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    Kilee! Kudos for you and your hubby for being so loyal! It's great, in any business, to have regular customers whom will stick with you!

    IMO, as long as the customers are not stalkers or weirdos (like I'm one to talk!!) I would totally welcome and even be excited to see familiar faces at my new club!

    In fact, I currently work in San Francisco, but when I meet folks from my home town of Boise, even if they aren't regulars, it makes me feel at home!

    Support your fave stripper! You and hubby picked and stuck with her for a reason!

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    If she works at Maxine's, I would say DEFINITELY go help this girl out. I used to work there and that club can be dead!! I wonder why she picked that club? I only worked there b/c I didn't know any better, but as soon as my contract was over there I promply relocated to Pure Platinum.

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    Theresa-- can you just tell me-- is this place "dirty"? I have been to few clubs w/ my husband that made my skin crawl, not to mention made me feel unsafe!! The one's we usually go to in NY are Rick's Tally Ho and Madamoselle's (I just know I spelled that wrong). Because both are alittle nicer along the lines of surroundings. Nor am I out of place w/ my husband there. I have been to one club where I felt like every guy in the place was staring at us, in a really uncomfortable way!!

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    I didn't really have many regulars at my old club before I moved to my current club... there is really only one guy who comes in every so often who knows I worked at the previous club (where I met him in a sense).

    The good thing about all the clubs here on the Gold Coast is that they are all along the same street so when I 're-located'.. it is just a matter of going further up or down that street (which isn't that 'long' anyway).

    Now.. I'm thinking of re-locating again to another club in that street. I only really have two regulars who have stuck with me for a long time... one will probably follow me.. I don't know about the other one. I guess I will ask him next time I see him. I'll pass it off as a 'passing thought'.

    I just want my ass covered if I do get fired from my current club or do decide to move on... I want to know that there are at least two customers I can relatively depend on.. if you know what I mean ?

    So.. go for it. If it won't inconvience you... do it! When you find a dancer that you click with.. try and stick with her.


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    Maxine's itself isn't too dirty, but some of the girls definitely are! Some of them should probably not be dancing, imho...and to make up for their looks, they just do really dirty dances. There are quite a few postings on the walls of the club "reminding" the girls that any sexual activities will get them fired, interpret that however you want. Also, Maxine's is the club where girls from the better clubs (Pure Platinum, Sundowner) go if they are being punished. Even though there is no bouncer there on the weekdays, (well, there wasn't when I worked there) I don't think you will feel too unsafe there. A lot of couples go there.

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    Thanks for the info!!!!

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    Definitely, go see her at the new club!



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    I sounds like you were good customers of hers and therefore she'd most likely be flattered, or at least pleased, if you came up to see her. She might be slightly ticked about some dancers telling people where she went - there may be a reason she doesn't want people to know - but that shouldn't have anything to do with you. Go ahead and go.

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    Why do dancers have such a thing about secrecy? Its just business. I would think your fav dancer would be thrilled that a good customer would follow her to a new club. DUH! I own a sales business and I do a happy dance whenever a customer, after changing employers, lets us know where hes at. Business 101.

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    As long as you have money I would be happy and flattered you came to see me if I were her.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kilee link=board=8;threadid=7764;start=msg88909#msg88909 date=1080408188
    Just wanted to stress I have no notions that this isn't business to her.
    This is all the reason you need to go visit her at the new club. She'll appreciate the extra business and familiar faces in a new locale is always a nice thing!


    can you just tell me-- is this place "dirty"?
    The more "dirty" the place is, I'd say the more important it is to go visit your dancer friend... provided there aren't too many concerns of your own personal safety involved. Continuing business with a dancer in a more liberal club model can only be positive in helping her not feel pressure to any new club models.
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    Quote Originally Posted by MacKenzie link=board=8;threadid=7764;start=msg88935#msg88935 date=1080419120
    Following a girl home: creepy

    Going to see favorite dancer at a new club: normal and acceptable.

    When I go to work at another club for awhile, I usually ask my regular customers to come see me there. That way if the girls are mean, or it's slow there's someone that I feel comfortable with there.
    totally agree....

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    Quote Originally Posted by FBR link=board=8;threadid=7764;start=msg90426#msg90426 date=1080777893
    Why do dancers have such a thing about secrecy? Its just business. I would think your fav dancer would be thrilled that a good customer would follow her to a new club. DUH! I own a sales business and I do a happy dance whenever a customer, after changing employers, lets us know where hes at. Business 101.

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    I don't think it is so much the dancers having the problem, but the clubs. Just like a salesman has to leave his client list when he goes to work for the competition, the clubs expect the same from most dancers. That is the reason why everyone says they don't know what happened to the girl you are looking for.

    I would be thrilled if a good paying customer from another club came out to see me from my old club. Many customers don't like to give out their phone numbers or email, so there is no way to contact them if a girl moves to a new venue.


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    On the flip side I would never think to give my cell or email to a regular dancer we see. I would think it too pushy on my part. I am still trying to track down through a couple websites that she for sure went to work for this particular club. If that is the case-- we're gonna venture up there for a few hours. Unfortunately I'm not having any luck in getting responses to my posts over on the stripclublist site. I've actually been coming home w/ more money since she's been gone.......

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