i just had to vent here....tonight (or should i say last night since it is the morning?)... i had some awful lapdance experiences...grrr....
i HATE it when guys grab your hips and give themselves the dance... they move you like you are an object to rub on their privates... i mean who is doing the dance here?! me or you? don't get me wrong i like it when a customer gives me suggestions on how i could make the dance better for him... after all every guy is different... but come on now.
or even worse.... like tonight i had a customer who insisted on lifting his crotch region and thrusting upward hard while i was doing the dance... i almost fell off... wait... actually he almost threw me off of his lap like three times... it was so miserable that when he asked for another dance... i declined... i just couldn't take any more...
i tried to hint subtley that he stop doing that... but it didn't seem to help...grrr...
and to top it all of some REALLY drunk younger guy actually took his shirt off "accidently" when i was about to give him a dance... when i ever-so-politely reminded him that he had to wear it... he got angry and said it was an accident and that i should just start the dance while he put it back on which i didn't.... then while putting the shirt back on HE SPILLED HIS BEER ON MY NEW OUTFIT!!!.... understood accidents happen but come on... he didn't even apologize...then he proceded to Bark out orders on how to grind... and try to grab me the whole time....and ask me if i hook on the side...so when it was all said and done... he was so drunk that he forgot and paid me three times for one dance... i considered it a tip for dealing with his rude behavior...
does this bother anyone else? does this even happen to anyone else? i'm still a newbie... maybe this stuff is common.... but it's crazy....any ideas on how to discourage this type of behavior?![]()
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help me guys...
i'm counting on ya here...
xoxo
heidi




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