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    Default Re:Contact Dancers: How do You Feel About Contact?

    So it comes down to contact....that is the defining factor between a dirty stripper and a clean stripper.

    would a massuesse, tailor, or cosmetician or basically anyone that has physical customers/clients as part of their daily occupation a dirty whore? I mean, why is our contact dirty? Because guys get aroused by it? Well, that's their problem.


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    This person is trying to get a rise out of us...I don't know why she's talking about how much money she makes. According to her, she's not even a dancer anymore. ???

    Check out her thread in body business about dancers needing lipo. Apparently, she's much smarter than all of us, too...

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    Default Re:Contact Dancers: How do You Feel About Contact?

    I feel the same about low to medium contact, and that's IF I like the guy/grl.
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    Quote Originally Posted by daphned link=board=27;threadid=7817;start=msg92341#msg9234 1 date=1081187741
    :'(
    Girls need to stop letting dudes touch them for money. its nasty. i make lots of money and no one even touches my legs in the private room......
    Slutty girls should be escorts.
    Too bad we can't smite people anymore.






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    Default Re:Contact Dancers: How do You Feel About Contact?

    Well I thought I made an acceptable response to Brittany's post, but I guess it got deleted....

    I was basically saying something along the lines of what others here have said - the mere contact (no extras and nothing outside of club rules/standards) makes me a dirty dancer? LOL! One thing I'm sure of, outside of this forum, I have never been called a dirty dancer! LMAO!

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    Quote Originally Posted by daphned link=board=27;threadid=7817;start=msg92341#msg9234 1 date=1081187741
    :'(
    Girls need to stop letting dudes touch them for money. its nasty. i make lots of money and no one even touches my legs in the private room......
    Slutty girls should be escorts.

    Slutty girls should be escorts????? wtf?

    Just because someone allows touching does NOT mean they wish to allow penetration or anything close to it. There is obviously a place in this profession for girls who allow touching but nothing else. Slutty is YOUR opinion, as is the rest of this post, of course. You have your right to this opinion, but I find it close-minded personally. There are plenty of people out there who think of you as slutty.

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    Its the same slutty girls who work regular jobs who have sex with guys every day of the week and then have the nad sack to call us whores. LOL
    Shit, I have only been with one guy so far (and I am 23) and I choose to keep it that way. I am far from a slut, thank you very much.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lexi link=board=27;threadid=7817;start=msg92548#msg9254 8 date=1081210571
    Its the same slutty girls who work regular jobs who have sex with guys every day of the week and then have the nad sack to call us whores. LOL
    LOL That is so true! There are girls with "normal" jobs that hang out at the regular bars 3-4 nights a week. These girls will get drunk and go home with any guy that buys them drinks or gives them the time of day. Then they turn around and call strippers sluts and whores. I think a lot of these girls are just jealous because they don't have the looks or the courage to do what we do.






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    I was a pariah in my small private college because I danced, and yet I saw countless female classmates get drunk and perform sex acts for free that they mistakenly thought I performed for money. The human race is rife with hypocrisy.

    I've worked at many different clubs, although I've never yet tried working at one of the big-PEC style showbars. My personal preference is one-way medium contact. I've posted on other threads about bad experinces I've had attempting to work at high contact clubs.

    I made about $150-$300 a shift in DC stage dancing only fully nude with zero contact, but it was when I started traveling that I realized that some of the rumors of dancer money were in fact true! I've had some $60 nights, but it was nice to travel and average $500-$700 doing medium contact lapdances and VIP's. I'm a fairly good hustler, so If I could have zoned out and dealt with the high contact lapdances I probably could have banked at those places, but I've found a great happy medium. $500 is a good average.

    The irony for me is that nearly all the nights that I have topped $1K (about half a dozen total, I tell the truth kids!) were with guys that I mostly talked to who didn't really expect any contact for their money.

    I don't judge the high-contact girls, I just wish that clubs would be consistent about enforcing contact levels so that the competition isn't messed up by a high contact girl coming to work in a low contact club.
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    My problem with the club where I used to work was that the club/state rules demanded 3 feet of distance between the dancer and the customer, but the other girls ignored that completely and gave (generally) medium contact dances. Another club near us had been busted for contact, but that didn't stop the girls in mine. It was impossible for me to get repeat dances at the beginning, then one of the other girls showed me dance moves which happened to involve contact. I hadn't discovered Stripperweb, so I took her advice--I did make more money, but I was constantly nervous that I'd get busted and arrested.

    I didn't mind low-contact dances, or even medium-contact, but I would really have liked to be in a low-to-medium contact club to do those dances. I didn't realize that there was possibly another way to make money (though, at my blue-collar club, they were not looking for good conversation), so I just imitated the other girls.

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    why oh why are all y'all fighting? I will turn this message board around right now and take you all home where I will send each and every single one of you to your rooms if you don't stop this right now!


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    I've worked primarily in one club just outside of Savannah, GA "over the bridge" in South Carolina. For me, it was the best one i ever worked at. NO contact was ever allowed. (That's not to say it didn't happen.) I personally didn't allow any contact. However, lap dances here are different from most other places apparently. Grinding is the norm. The majority of the lap dance is spent in a variety of positions with the girl grinding. If the girl doesn't grind at all then she makes very little because its the norm down here. The first time I went to a place that said you had to have atleast one foot on the ground at all times I was like, well how I am supposed to give a lap dance then? Lol. We didn't have three second rules either.
    The only thing I ever did was make out with a fellow dancer who was also my best friend so it didn't really bother me at all. A few times when sitting on a guys lap facing him he might try to touch my ankles or calves but its easy to just get up and shift to a new position.

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    I've only worked at high contact places and so I started off that way. And I know a lot of the girls around the area like to work at the high contact places because they made more money there then at a lot of the low contact places. since i only worked high contact places pretty much ive actually kind of been shocked about how most of the dancers here seem to be no contact to very low contact. we also had a minimum number of drinks u had to sell and so not drinking was not an option at all. though now im getting off the subject.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Brittany View Post
    Personally, I've never seen any sense in doing contact dances. I too have worked in no-contact gown clubs as well as in high-contact clubs...and to tell you the truth, I've done the same table dance in both. No grinding, no tits on the face, no "extras" touching . And I have consecutively been one of the bigger money makers in the higher-contact clubs I've worked at in Texas.
    I think that just about any girl COULD make money being as clean as me provided she was a good hustler, smart, energetic, and persistent. As many articles and previous posts on this site claim, the girls who often do the "extras" are girls who are looking for the lazy way out or who for some reason aren't smart enough (or just haven't been in the biz long enough) to realize that they really DON'T have to dance that way to earn money.
    I honestly don't think that girls can actually feel good about grinding their butt against some strange man's hard-on....but then you never know...different strokes for different folks. I'm sure some girls will come back with comments that they know they can make money without having to grind or rub their tits on men's faces, but they choose NOT to because it's fun for them...sigh....as I said...different strokes for different folks...
    But after over ten years of dancing....I have YET to see a dancer that grinded or allowed touching who has been able to stick it out in the biz as long as I have. I have also NEVER met anyone who gave extras who was still okay with the fact that they used to do that for money after they had been out of the biz for a while. Not saying that there isn't this type of girl out there, just saying that in my experience, I have never met one.
    really? the girls who make the most money at the clubs i work at are huge grinders. i dont know how they keep a guy buying more songs, youd think hed cum from all the grinding after two songs. maybe its my location but you have to grind to get any repeat dances here, not as much as the girls im talking about do though.
    i guess im jaded because id ont care about contact (as long as his hands seem clean)
    what i will not tolerate is kissing, nibbling, licking, touching my pubic area, and sucking on my breasts, all things which apparantly a lot of girls where I live are okay with and do for free. i am seriously boggled at how many guys seem to think that "feeding" is part of the deal when they do a dance.

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    Quote Originally Posted by michele View Post
    Lexi,when you give scores or pec a try,let me know if you still feel the same way( disrespected by cutomers),I dont believe you will feel that way when you are in vip earning 400-600 an hour to just sit,have wonderful conversation and sip on crystal or maybe some lobster or filet mignon,I think you will have a change of heart.Rayana come on you are smarter than to take what some guys on some board are saying as gospel,well ,I dont go on any other sites and most business men are not sitting on some site talking about contact dances and the like.All I can do is qoute things from my experience,but when I did work in a light lap dance club I was highly respected by my fellow dancers,customers and management,for being a clean dancer.
    i have heard about this no dancing champagne room thing happening but, i have never seen it. why would guys pay over 400 an hour to talk to a girl? do the girls in NYC not talk on the floor? is it just billionaires who just like showing off? i wish that was common here :-(

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    Quote Originally Posted by NinaDaisy View Post
    it was nice to travel and average $500-$700 doing medium contact lapdances and VIP's. I'm a fairly good hustler, so If I could have zoned out and dealt with the high contact lapdances I probably could have banked at those places, but I've found a great happy medium. $500 is a good average.
    Nina, where were the areas that you made this kind of money with medium contact?
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    I'm currently trying to get used to a no contact environment, coming from a low contact one. I liked the one with a little bit higher contact better. None of it was dirty, but nonetheless I could do more moves, and keep the customer wanting more with slight grazes. i.e. my favorite: gently running my nose from one cheek, over the bridge of his nose, onto the other cheek, while looking into his eyes with my mouth hanging slightly open. Plus, I could keep the customer in the VIP for 5+ dances every time, whereas now I'm lucky if I get 3. I have to say, the potential for money is not that great.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bebewood View Post
    i have heard about this no dancing champagne room thing happening but, i have never seen it. why would guys pay over 400 an hour to talk to a girl? do the girls in NYC not talk on the floor? is it just billionaires who just like showing off? i wish that was common here :-(
    You have to not give away too much on the floor (Sitting and talking for an hour for free! Or humping them. ) and create some sort of rapport. A lot of girls have no idea how to do this (I'm not fab, but I know what not to do!) and just hump a guy for $20, then sit and drink with him for the next 2 hours. Sadly a lot of guys are conditioned to expect this.

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    this thread is FOUR YEARS OLD.
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    I find that the more seductive and less contact in the first dozen songs works best..with all the influx of new lose and careless Romanian dancers being imported..it is a bit of an effort to show the guys in the club what is kind of dancer is really worth t.heir money, this is mostly in Ontario, Canada though, those girls will do almost anyhtibg for a dollar..and in groups too.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bebewood View Post
    i have heard about this no dancing champagne room thing happening but, i have never seen it. why would guys pay over 400 an hour to talk to a girl? do the girls in NYC not talk on the floor? is it just billionaires who just like showing off? i wish that was common here :-(
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    Quote Originally Posted by CuriousSeeker View Post
    Nina, where were the areas that you made this kind of money with medium contact?

    I don't understand why that's so odd. On a Friday night where I worked at regularly I made b/w $800 and $1,200 doing no contact. Of course that is during the winter- the busy season. During the summer time doing no contact at the same club I expected between $400 and $500 on a Friday night. Weekdays in the busy season I would be pissed if I made less than $400. During the slow season though I would be lucky to make that on a week day. This is all with no contact.

    When I say no contact I mean no letting guys put their hands, lips, tongues, or teeth on me. I always grind during lapdances. But I've always thought that was normal

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    impressive how you maintain such low contact as a threshold in high contact environs.

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    i've only done dancing for
    some of my friends' parties
    and i don't mind the touching.
    just depends on where..
    i giggle a lot if you touch
    me too softly :]

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    Quote Originally Posted by asianMannequin View Post

    i've only done dancing for
    some of my friends' parties
    and i don't mind the touching.
    just depends on where..
    i giggle a lot if you touch
    me too softly :]
    Hon, you are not a stripper and we are talking about an entirely different issue here. We don't mind your questions but this is different.

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