I am in the same camp. I actually lived in air-dance land forever and didn't learn how to grind until 8 months ago.I hate doing it. I will avoid it if at all possible, but if I have to, it's the 1-2-3 count and I keep it moving. I made a blog entry recently about how a guy grabbed me when I had my back turned to him in VIP, I tumbled, he wasn't wearing underwear and tried to grind himself against me against my will. It made me feel disgusted and violated.
I try to distract them but maybe rubbing my cheek on their cheek, smiling while looking into their eyes, that kind of crap. I never put my boobs on them either- I sort of lean over and hover about 6 inches up.
I'm not much of a touchy-feely person in real life either though. And we all know I am going through a phase right now.Le sigh.
My definitions?:
Airdancing: Zero contact, dancing between their knees, swaying and be-bopping to the music looking sexy.
Light contact: Touching of some "safe" areas, such as legs or sides.
Medium contact: Two way touching of safe areas, plus grinding.
High contact: Touching everything but the kitty, heavy grinding.
Hard contact: Touching everything, likely even the kitty. Licking, boob sucking, heavy grinding.
Ps. I had no idea people could grind facing their customer. Doesn't that hurt? I never thought to use anything but my butt cheeks, but then again we are prohibited from straddling... and I don't want my bajingo on someone's dirty pants.




I hate doing it. I will avoid it if at all possible, but if I have to, it's the 1-2-3 count and I keep it moving. I made a blog entry recently about how a guy grabbed me when I had my back turned to him in VIP, I tumbled, he wasn't wearing underwear and tried to grind himself against me against my will. It made me feel disgusted and violated.
Le sigh.
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I don't wanna do that!

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