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    The other day at work 2 guys came in and spent the night with 4 girls...3 girls w/ 1 guy, 1 girl withthe other guy. The man spending most of the $$ had the 3 girls and apparently he was a regular of one of them.

    The big spender had his credit card stolen by his favorite girl who extracted (supposedly) almost $800 throughout the night. (I'm guessing part before midnight and part of it afterwards). I've worked with women who are scammers for years and it disgusts me.
    I once did a double V.I.P. w/ a girl who took all of the guys extra $$ out of hisw wallet-like $200. I left the room to go get a mngr and when I came back the customer was demanding a refund because I was "charging him for V.I.P. but not in there with him" I awas gone for 2 songs.
    These thoughts of course were put in his drunk head by the little thief to distract everyone from what she was doing.

    I'm not one to put down women for doing "extra's or prostitution etc. although I wish they'd take it out of the club. But thievery just gets my blood boiling.
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    that sucks. and you were doing the right thing trying to get a manager about the theft. why do people do "extras" anyways? isn't getting naked and dancing enough?

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    I have been ripped off a couple times at clubs. As a customer you remember these clubs and girls. In one instance I somehow managed to get 22 dances in less than an hour, dancer argued I had been there over 3 hours. The CC check they ran when I arrived and opened my tab and the one when I went to close out, proved I had been there less than an hour, management sided with the dancer. I didn't return there for 8 years and after they had new management.

    The good news is I have met a number of dancers, waitress and management that are fair and get to the bottom of the situation. As I mention in the contact thread I have even had two times when a dancer returned extra money I mistakenly gave them. Do that and you have locked me in as a customer. Kudos to you Nina, keep on doing the right thing.

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    I'm not one to put down women for doing "extra's or prostitution etc. although I wish they'd take it out of the club. But thievery just gets my blood boiling.
    I agree wholeheartedly that direct thievery from a customer's wallet and related unprofessional conduct, i.e. lying about the number of private dances done or time spent with a customer, promising a customer more than you intend to deliver in order to get him into the champagne room etc., do a great deal of harm to a club's reputation. Customers always remember the way they were ripped off, and often refuse to return to the club where it occurred.

    And for the record, there isn't necessarily any correlation between dancers who provide "extras" and dancers who rip off customers. Some of the largest customer rip off incidents I've ever heard about occurred in expensive upscale clubs !

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    Its ridiculous that management would side with the theiving dancer because it is so horrible for business. I haven't seen any girls steal before but you can bet I would get their ass fired for it. The men who come into my club usually can't afford what they are already spending, let alone afford to get their money stolen.

    It would make more since for guys to get ripped off in upscale clubs because the girls may think the men are made of money.

    I have been stollen from several times in my life and I can say it leaves you with an empty, helpless feeling that you don't easily forget.

    I always worry that if I get into a disagreement with a customer I will get sugar in my gas tank or I will be followed home.
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    Thieves piss me off too. I've worked at clubs where the dancers do a tip walk after going on stage. One time, a dancer was doing her tipwalk and I was sitting with a regular who is a good spender and an all-around nice guy. Well, he had gone to the bathroom and he told me to tip her when she came around. This guy usually tips each dancer $2 on her tip walk (but he buys drinks and dances all night), so I was going to give her $2. Before I could give her the money, she has the balls to grab a $20 from this customer's pile of money!

    I said "What do you think you're doing? Put that back!" Sure it was only $20, but it's the principle that matters. She put it back because the customer was on his way back from the restroom and she didn't want to look like a bitch in front of him. However, she gave me dirty looks the rest of the week that I worked with her. I didn't care, I didn't like her anyways and I'll be damned if I'm going to let her steal from one of the nicest customers I know.

    Some dancers get greedy and want money fast, even to the point they are willing to steal customers' money off the bar and lie about the number of dances that they did. This makes me so angry and it ruins it for the honest dancers. Customers are people too and some girls treat them like walking ATM's. Stealing and cheating the customers out of money ruins it for everyone and makes the well-behaved, good spending customers not want to return to the clubs.






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    wow. IF I was in that situation i would have said something to her about it while she was doing it before seeking out management and make sure MY VIP knew what was going on.
    i have no tolerance for people who steal. Regardless of their situations.
    In fact, the only time iv'e ever heard of anyone stealing is when a girl had 300 in her cigarette box, and a CUSTOMER stole it and bolted out the door.
    Women who steal from customers are their own worst enemy, because these guys could have been regulars!!! Not only that, but it gives the club a horrible reputation!

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    Its ridiculous that management would side with the theiving dancer because it is so horrible for business. ... It would make more since for guys to get ripped off in upscale clubs because the girls may think the men are made of money.
    I agree that in terms of absolute dollars upscale club customers can get ripped of for larger amounts. This is simply because a white collar customer getting scammed for $50 in an upscale club will notice it a lot less than a blue collar customer getting scammed for $20.

    In many big city clubs with high competition and high customer turnover, the club will often go along with a dancer's scam claims against a customer since the club stands to also profit from her scam (they get a cut of private dance and champagne room money). After all, one permanently lost customer a night means very little to club management when the club can expect 50 to 100 brand new customers to walk in the door the next night, especially when the club stands to pocket extra bucks as a result of the scam.

    It's an entirely different situation, of course, when the club is located in a small city or neighborhood where repeat customer business is important and where word of one local customer being scammed will filter through a relatively small customer base in a big hurry.

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    Nina good for you being an honest person. Karma will always get you in the end and later on I'm sure you will be rewarded. I myself can not bring myself to cheat customers no matter how slow the night is. If I do a dance and the customer accedently gives me two twentys insted of one I give it back ALWAYS! Even if they don't give me a tip for doing it I get satisfaction from knowing I am a good person. Kudos for going to get the manager. Even though it sounds like the ending suxed because of that scamer. Keep being honest people really appreciate it!

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    I hate the scandalous bitches!! I'm so sorry that there are some of these girls that give us all a bad name!!


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    Stealing is plain tacky !

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    Dancers who rip off the customers just make everyone look bad (and the club too) - especially if the management doesn't want to do anything about it. Good way to lose a lot of business.

    Has anyone here had the distasteful task of removing a disruptive and irate customer who got that way because a dancer ripped him off? Unfortunately, I have a few times, and it really sucks. I wanted to toss the dancer and keep the customer on one occasion...

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    Quote Originally Posted by blondhottie link=board=27;threadid=7840;start=msg90344#msg9034 4 date=1080769096
    ....Customers are people too and some girls treat them like walking ATM's. ....
    customers are atm's, but the trick with any atm is you have to push the right buttons. the hussel is part of the art of being a stripper. (the dance, the makeup, and the clothes are the other parts) but some girls don't relize that there is a diffrence between hussel and steal.

    at my favorite club ever everyone was so honest it was wonderful. this was dayshift mind you so there were only about 7 girls working. one of us had left a $5 bill on the counter in the dressing room, it sat there for hours and hours. it was between my stuff and another dancers. there was no camera in the dressing room so it couldnt have been fear that kept it there. at the end of the day no one knew whos it was so the other dancer and I split it. I love places like that.

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    In all the clubs that I have danced in, the scamming dancers were all known for having drug problems. I once lost a VIP room to a girl who let the guy pay her in crystal!

    Maybe some other non-druggie dancers do it just to see if they can get away with it, like a power thing.

    Melonie's right about big clubs VS smaller neighborhood places in terms of handling it. I won't say exactly where, but from my experience she's mostly right, as she is about so many other things
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    Quote Originally Posted by ami link=board=27;threadid=7840;start=msg91449#msg9144 9 date=1080970233
    Quote Originally Posted by blondhottie link=board=27;threadid=7840;start=msg90344#msg9034 4 date=1080769096
    ....Customers are people too and some girls treat them like walking ATM's. ....
    customers are atm's, but the trick with any atm is you have to push the right buttons. the hussel is part of the art of being a stripper. (the dance, the makeup, and the clothes are the other parts) but some girls don't relize that there is a diffrence between hussel and steal.

    at my favorite club ever everyone was so honest it was wonderful. this was dayshift mind you so there were only about 7 girls working. one of us had left a $5 bill on the counter in the dressing room, it sat there for hours and hours. it was between my stuff and another dancers. there was no camera in the dressing room so it couldnt have been fear that kept it there. at the end of the day no one knew whos it was so the other dancer and I split it. I love places like that.
    In all honesty, I dont consider my customers ATMs. Yes, they give me money, but I HAVE to work for it. An ATM is easy, and ya dont work hard for the money you are getting out. lol

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    you don't use my bank then.....

    it took me 3 days and like 6 or 7 phone calls for the stupid thing to TAKE my money... grrrr...

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    yikes. stealing is grounds for a beat-down ESPECIALLY if it's at your "expense" (ie. YOU are getting blamed for someone else's dirty deed.) that would totally piss me off.

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    It happens often enough in the clubs here. A girl will agree for a certain price to do an extra, perform the act, then the customer won't pay because he couldn't come or something like that....

    Also, drunk customers are just asking to be ripped off in VIP.

    What did you people expect? Stripping is a job that requires no skills other than willingness to do it and some physical attractiveness (varies). Most places don't even care if the girls have criminal records, particularly if they are good sellers and kiss the right behinds.

    The stripclub is NOT the artsy burleque club, its a cutthroat place. Eat or be eaten! I end on the note saying that I also do not condone this blatant ripping off, but its not much worse than stringing along some PL for months and months, promising him sex and companionship, meanwhile letting him pay your rent, tuition, spending $$, and everything else.....

    Just compare it to how many people die in a car accident versus how many people die in a plane crash. Not that many people die in airplane accidents relative to auto, but it still shocks and freaks everyone out because of the instant mortality numbers....its the same thing..people get fucked!!!

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    Humm I do think stripping takes skill, otherwise the best looking girl would always make the most money. From what I have seen that rarely happens, things like how good you hustle, attitude, turning a no into a yes, being able to evaluate the customers, being able to hold a mans interest all make a larger difference. These are all sales skills that apply to any sales job, my bet is the girls who master these will be the ones making the most money. So yes I think it takes skills to be a stripper.

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    That's not just how the model works. We are not talking about the minority of strippers who could probably sell anything. Nor are we talking about many of the girls who contribute to this site. Finally, I am not trying to stereotype all strippers, but management's goal is to have as many accomodating ladies in the club as the customer's demand. Often, this means hiring any girl off the street and keeping girls who have made a turn for the worse. Guess what, some of those high earnings strippers have some level of scam going on too...or at least it occasionally behooves them to take a little off the top. Clientele is not always plentiful and giving, even to the most astute sellers.

    This is my industry too, but maybe 10% of strippers work in very clean upscale environments, ie gown clubs that actually might do background checks. The rest of us lie somewhere in a grey area, as is life....

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    I remember at one club I had tried out at, I did really well throughout the night. It was the best I had EVER thought of doing, trip after trip to VIP. I thought I had found the club for me! Low to medium contact, customers had great respectable attitudes. Then someone breaks into my locker while I was in the restroom, and takes my purse. It was accomplished in less than 5 fuccin' minutes (excuse my french). Apparently I heard the next day, the girls had watched me doing so well that night and two of them plotted to do that. So MEAN!!! LOL, can we say desperate?
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