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    Okay in my club I like to think im one of the best.. But I intimidate guys.. ALOT mainly i think because of my hight... Im 5'11 with No shoes.. when I ware my shoes im 6'3 6'4 LOL But I look goood and my legs look super long... I dont see myself waring smaller shoes.


    What I want to know is how many of you guys are intimidated by tall women? Even if they are pretty, *My pics in the avatar*. And would you get a dance from them even if they where taller then you were? ???

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    Height has never really been a factor for me, 2 of my favorite dancers were 5'11" and 6'1", I liked the one who was 6'1 enough that we went out for a while and I'm only 5'10". They tower over me in heels but it doesn’t bother me one bit.

    I think most of my buddies I hang out with are more intimidated by beautiful women than by tall ladies. Since you are both I’m sure you do intimidate quite a few guys. I have met a few guys that don't date girls taller than them but none who didn’t get dances because of that.

    One of my best friends is bad like this, he is shy in the first place but put a girl like you near him and he is at a loss for words, very intimidated. The funny thing is most girls don't know how to handle that and end up leaving when in fact he likes them and would get dances, he has a terrible time starting any kind of chit chat. Just remember if you think the guy is intimated that just means he likes you but is a little nervous. If you can calm him down, then once comfortable ask him if he’s ready for that dance. I bet you will do real well. On guys like this you have to take the initiative.

    I don't think my buddy has ever asked a girl for a dance in 10 years, yet once they get past this he usually spends between 200-300 a night on dances.

    If I saw a girl who was as sexy as you and 6'4" with heals on at one of the clubs I hang out at, Heck I would be first in line for a dance. So to answer your question, No I would not be intimated by a taller pretty girl and yes I get dances all the time from taller girls.

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    I'd be absolutely thrilled to find a dancer that was taller than I was... but it's just never happened. You're 6'3-6'4 in heels? *swoon* My two favorite dancer friends are both the same (5'11 and 6' barefoot) and it's beyond words how sexy and appealing that is to me!

    Guy's all have their different preferences- some guys specifically seek out what they coin as "spinners"- which are 4'9-5'1 dancers, petite and much shorter than themselves. Others like 'em tall and long legged, but while drooling at them from a distance, turn into frightened children once the dancer comes face to face and towers over them for the hustle... and after barely being able to squeek out a "no thank you" under their breath, they proceed to follow them with their eyes and jaws agape.

    I can understand their feelings, after asking a few of my shorter buddies why they rejected a dancer they were drooling over on stage, the typical replies were along the lines of "Are you kidding? She'd eat me alive!" or similar since they felt sooo small face to chest lol.

    You should consider switching your hustle approach to take your height and the customer's height into consideration. While purring up and being seductively sexy for a tall guy is a good angle, the shorter guys might yield better luck if you bring yourself down to earth a bit- play the dork gal, super fun party gal, corny gal or comedy gal. Anything to get the towering effect put at ease will likely warm them up to you and lose any discomfort they may have.
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    Im 5'10"...just average..so quite a few strippers are taller than me when they have on their stilletos. Hasnt stopped me from getting dances from them tho.

    And yes TB..you are very beautiful. Assuming your attitude is right Id spend money on you all night long.

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    Looking at your pictures I never would've guessed you're that tall. I'm about your height and it would be great to have you on my lap I'm not that hip on short dancers and here in PR most of them are.



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    I'm 6'3" myself, so I'd actually like it that I could look you straight in the eye. Besides, does it really matter how tall you are when you're standing there dancing in front of the guy?




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    I personally love tall long legged dancers, it doesn't intimidate me at all, although I guess I could see shorter guys being at bit intimidated (I'm 5'11").

    Very pretty face by the way, you look like Jessica Biel, the actress from 7th Heaven.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tragic-Beauty link=board=8;threadid=8026;start=msg92955#msg92955 date=1081286361
    Okay in my club I like to think im one of the best.. But I intimidate guys.. ALOT mainly i think because of my hight... Im 5'11 with No shoes.. when I ware my shoes im 6'3 6'4 LOL But I look goood and my legs look super long... I dont see myself waring smaller shoes.
    While I do have a personal preference for short women, I can't help but notice when a gorgeous tall one come along, and I don't find such women intimidating in the least. Usually when I approach a gal on stage between the stage height and her shoes, she's far above me in height anyway, and during a lap dance we're both in a sitting position, so I hardly notice.

    In fact, the lovely redhead that entertained me at your club last week told me that she was 5'9" flat footed (6'3" in heels). Until she said that, I didn't have so much a clue that she was that tall. A friendly smile and approachable personality can soften up any intimidating exterior.
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    You are the most beautiful dancer on this website, and it ain't even a close second.

    I'm 5'10"--were you to tower over me in your stripper heels (and that face, oy!), I'd prolly break every one of my self-imposed rules about airdances and still get a bunch from you, every time I went to your club. Seriously.

    One dancer at a club I go to is 6'2" in her stocking feet. When she sees me, she goes back to the dressing and gets her 8" heels, so she's a foot taller. I loooooove walking next to her on the way to the VIP room.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tragic-Beauty link=board=8;threadid=8026;start=msg92955#msg92955 date=1081286361
    Okay in my club I like to think im one of the best.. But I intimidate guys.. ALOT mainly i think because of my hight... Im 5'11 with No shoes.. when I ware my shoes im 6'3 6'4 LOL But I look goood and my legs look super long... I dont see myself waring smaller shoes.

    What I want to know is how many of you guys are intimidated by tall women? Even if they are pretty, *My pics in the avatar*. And would you get a dance from them even if they where taller then you were? ???
    TB, I'm 5'2". Although I prefer dancers generally my height, I've become friendly/gotten dances from girls your height. Yes, it is intimidating, but a dancer with the x-factor (chemistry, looks, personality, or other hook) is worth the trek to high elevations!
    Anyhow, you are talking about height issues in the club right? This is fantasy, not the cold hard light of reality outside It's his loss if some mook discredits a beauty like you because of his psychological hangups.

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    Thanks guys, I think you probably hit it right on. Ill try to rethink my hustling ways and take it slowly. You guy helped me alot, I was really having problems understanding what was going on lol. I think I maybe to much of a "Go getter" for the guys that are intimidated by me. So Ill probably cool it down a notch.. Im pretty nice in the club down to earth and whatnot, Or atleast I think so

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    Dahlink,
    The only time I get turned away by guys is if they want a really "tall" girl, and I am at least 5'10" in heels. Tall is a very important fetish for many many big spenders. I think its more of an advantage to you than you realize....its BIG money...

    Men fantasize about models and goddesses....you are a fantasy girl...hell, no one has offered me $20k for anything! Good luck chiquita, you've got it!!!

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    I usually pick the little ones, 5' - 5'6", but I've enjoyed taller ones, before one was about 5'10" without shoes. I'm 6'2", so you won't tower over me.

    But if you get 'em to put on roller skates, the pull around just the same.

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    I feel like a little boy being led by the hand of a tall dancer to the lap dance area. It is sort of sexy!

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    lot of guys are intimidated by really hot women reguardless, although with the average guy being 5"10" or so a taller woman might be intimidating......to me...on stage it does not matter.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sfx86 link=board=8;threadid=8026;start=msg93702#msg93702 date=1081389678
    I feel like a little boy being led by the hand of a tall dancer to the lap dance area. It is sort of sexy!
    I feel like an ATM on wheels.

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    Tall women...Drool Drool pant pant etc etc
    Dea is 5&#039;9 flatfooted and around 6&#039;4 in heels and I love it!Theres something to be said for looking a hot dancer squarely in her boobs!

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    I think your fantastic gorgeous looks are more likely to intimidate guys than your height. Maybe you need to take some ugly pills. Seriously, some guys will assume that a really good looking girl has an attitude (which unfortunately is sometimes true.) A big friendly smile can change their mind in a hurry.
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    I&#039;ll take the other side of the argument. I&#039;m over 6&#039; and not intimidated by tall women, but I just prefer women that aren&#039;t 5&#039;11" or over. That is very tall. But, then again, if Giselle (the supermodel) ask for a dance, I&#039;d probably reconsider.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sadbuttrue link=board=8;threadid=8026;start=msg93867#msg93867 date=1081425745
    Quote Originally Posted by sfx86 link=board=8;threadid=8026;start=msg93702#msg93702 date=1081389678
    I feel like a little boy being led by the hand of a tall dancer to the lap dance area. It is sort of sexy!
    I feel like an ATM on wheels.

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    Tragic, You look gorgeous on your avatar, I would have no problem with getting dances from a tall girl like yourself. But in all honesty, If there was a girl 5&#039;0, another 5&#039;6, and another 6&#039;0, the one I&#039;d get a dance from would be an easy choice, the one with the big tits! lol!
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    I&#039;m fairly short,so most dancers are taller than me once the heels are on.I&#039;ve never had a dance from anyone your height,but would love to try.Especially if you had a bit of a dominatrix thing going on
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    I agree with Fondl, I think guys might be intimidated by you because of height/beauty but I think you can turn that to your advantage, because when you turn out to be funny and personable (as I&#039;ve seen in your posts) they&#039;re going to be that much more turned-on because it&#039;s unexpected.

    Whereas a girl who is very cute but lacks your "God damn!" qualities might want to play up the sex kitten thing (because she doesn&#039;t seem sexy at first) you might have to play it down at first because it&#039;s already so strong.
    If anything MAYBE you might want to try being very open from the start i.e. instead of just walking up and asking if they want a dance go up and sit down and start talking to them, make a definate effort ot be overly accessible from the start (of course maybe you do this already, or maybe it&#039;s not a good idea, just my opinion)

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    I rarely hit and run for dances unless the club is packed and I have no other choice Actualy I recently bought one of those school girl outfits with the thigh highs... Big hit Like you wouldnt believe.. guess i look less intimidating

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