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    I don't know what to do, i'm just so embarrased about my body, my boyfriend thinks i'm the most beautiful girl in the world but I wish i could feel that way.Is there any way I can feel more sexy in my skin. Also i have all these bumps near my breasts and on my back, anyway to get rid of the so I can have more confidence wear tank tops and sexy clothes that show off my back.
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    I'm sorry I really don't know what to say about being more accepting of your body. There are probably deeper emotional issues involved that can be better explored through couseling.

    As far as the bumps go, if you're already using an exfoliating body wash with salicylic acid and it's not working, I say time for a trip to the dermatologists office. If you have health ins. derm. visits are typically covered.



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    What about your body don't you like? Unless you have specific goals (lose/gain weight etc) there is very little the people here could offer in the way of advice.

    I also agree to go see a dematologist about your skin condition. There is no reason to have skin problems in today's world of advanced medical science.


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    I'm just insecure about my body. I've tried just about everything to lose weight but nothing seems to help, I don't look what the scale says but whenever I see the numbers, I just feel like crying. Any tips

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    You need to see a professional. I am serious. This is a major issue.

    For the bumps. They are probably nothing but you should see a dermatologist if its acne. Tanning beds can also even out skin town.

    Try working out or getting in touch with your body. Take some risks and show your body off a little. Unless you are 13 or 75 you have no reason to be ashamed of your body. You probably look better than you ever will in the future. Look around. Most women have discusting bodies and they are happy as hell. Why are you CHOOSING to punish yourself?

    Seriously seek help. There are free counseling centers in every area. Contact your family doctor or local health agency and they will direct you.
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    Hi Yas,

    I just got done reading your post here. So what is it about your body that you don't like? I know you said that you feel uncomfy in your skin what is it?

    You mention the weight? Okay so that is fixable right? Hit the gym, if you don't have money for the gym then start walking every morning and at night. While watching the tv set do some sit ups, do leg lifts grab that chair and while you watch your fav show work out or flip the music channel on and while watching music videos you will have motivation from the women on tv and also the music will pump you up.

    As for the scale, another fixable problem. DO NOT LOOK OR GET ON THE SCALE AT ALL! ONLY ONCE A MONTH! I had that some problem and boy did it kick my bootie.

    Now I go by my clothes how I look in the mirror how I feel when I run or jog how lighter I am getting.

    As for feeling sexy. Again fixable, Start getting your nails done and feet, Start getting your hair colored or cut, Start wearing low cut shirts, Wear an exocitc perfume, Put lotion on your entire body. Buy some lacy panties or better yet thongs, get the matching bra. Take a long hot bath with bubbles, play some Noarh Jones or whatever your into.

    Start your day everyday looking in the mirror and say to yourself outloud " I am beautiful my body is beautiful I love myself, and I am a creature unlike anyother.

    Sweet all your problems are fixable. You just need to think postive and start pampering yourself more. I don't care if you do your own nails buy a new shade of nail polish you will start to feel sexy.

    Just remember: You are your own best friend, You only have yourself nobody is going to take care of you but you. Your body is flawless, keep it that way drink plenty of water, work it out, put lotion on your body protect it from the sun.

    Love you fall in love with yourself and you will see the changes. I also think you need to talk to someone if all I suggested still makes you unsexy.

    Take care sweetie and if you liek PM me anytime. You are beatuiful just the way you are!

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    Just was wondering how you were doing? Pm if you need any more tips or help okay!
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    honeygirl, what a AWESOME POST!

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    Wonderful post, Honey!


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    Honey,
    I really like your attitude! It's cool that you're so positive. Those are good suggestions.

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    I FIRST OFF WANNA THANK ALL OF YOU FOR BEING SO AMAZING TOWARD ME WITH YOUR KIND WORDS, I WOULD LIKE TO TALK MORE ABOUT BREAKING INTO THE BUSINESS BECAUSE HONESTLY I DON'T HAVE MUCH DANCING EXPERIENCE AND CAN BE QUITE CLUSMY.
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    AWW YOU GUYS ARE GONNA MAKE ME CRY LOL!

    NO PROBLEM SWEETIE! I been there too so from one dancer to another I just wanted to make sure you are okay and how your progress is coming. PM me anytime you want I also have aol as well here is my info:
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    Angelique,

    I'm 5'4 and I used to weigh 196lbs and believe me when I tell you I was comfortable and could care less what anyone else thought. I was happy and healthy and that is all that matters. When I was ready, I lost the weight. No one pushed me to do it. It took me about a year and I lost the weight without joining any gyms. I did a lot of walking, bought the taebo tapes and watched what I ate. I lost a little over 90lbs, I went from a size 20 to a size 0. I'm still the same person I was when I weighed 196. Society puts such pressure on women to look a certain way which in my opinion is just wrong. I have a friend who is about 5'1 and weighs probably around 220 and she is the most confident woman I've ever met in my entire life. She's happily married and has a 2 year old boy. Her husband is a professional bodybuilder, she wont go anywhere near a gym and he worships the ground she walks on!

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