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    stripping has become a slight set back i ask once could u n your guy be n the same bussiness didn't get a lot of responses. so now it has come to the point where if i'm not at the club he don't want 2 be bothered.he had his family over today i called 2 c if i could come over he said after his family leave. so that makes me think either he had another girl over or he just didn't want me 2 meet his family. it would have been totally different if we were at the club so it seems as long as i'm making money takin my clothes off he cool but me around his people is a new story .someone please help ???

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    I don't entirely get what you are saying, that is probably why you havent gotten a lot of replies....

    but from what I can tell....
    you two work together at a sc,
    he likes being with you at work, but dosnt invite you into the rest of his life, you think this is because he has another girl, or maybe because he dosnt want you to meet his family...
    did I get it right?

    how long have you been together? did you two ever declare that you were exclusive?

    ps, this belongs in the lounge or the ladies (or even member boards) section, not the stripping section...

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    Default Re:it's a problem

    Just dump the dude and move on with your life. Why do you want so much drama?

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    Your posts aren't getting replies because your grammar is horrible. Edit your posts and include periods and correct spellings and people might take the time to read it.

    Sounds like your guy is using you or doesn't really love you. Its a huge red flag when a man will not allow you into other parts of his life that are important to him. Have you confronted him about it? It could be he is embarrassed by his family or maybe he is embarrassed by you. His family might now approve of the stripping. Depending on what you look like they may ask questions.
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    I think someone said it before on your first post. He's a pimp or he wants to be. Get rid of him and move on.



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    I agree with Lena.

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    I agree with everything said so far, if I understand the situation to date clearly between the two threads:

    1) You two hooked up outside the club.
    2) One way or another, you wound up in his club.
    3) You eventually started stripping at his club, mainly to try and get his attentions.
    4) He's reduced all out of club attention to be exclusively in-club.
    5) He is not giving you any exclusive attention, but instead sharing his attention to all his girls.

    These are indeed the strategies/tactics of a "pimp".. Welcome to his stable.
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