what have your experiences been being married and dancing? how does your husband feel and does your attitude towards your job change at all?
what have your experiences been being married and dancing? how does your husband feel and does your attitude towards your job change at all?
As the husband of a dancer I can honestly say I love the fact that Deanna dances! I'm glad that my begging her to try it finally worked! Of course I have noticed that its hard to spin cds while watching her dance cuz I just cant seem to get close enuff to the cd player anymore.....hehe


I've worked with my man all the three years I've danced. I enjoy it, I always feel a little safer with him there. He doesn't care for it as much. He hates seeing me give couch dances to other guys. But he gets so see naked ladies every day, so it evens out.
Blade you are a lucky dog...Originally Posted by Blade is a D.j. link=board=27;threadid=8207;start=msg95923#msg9592 3 date=1081812967
Dea is smokin hot. Just listen to the music you are playing and watch her work her magic LOL
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Once again I have embraced my addiction and have put off the moral dilemma to another day.
My girlfriend wants to start dancing at my encouragement. I think its great, but I'm slightly concerned about the problems it might cause in our relationship. I'm curious about how it goes for other married or serious couples.



I not only dance, but I escort and do movies as well. This hasn't seemed to hurt my marriage any. However, my husband knew what he was getting into before he married me. As long as I'm honest and as safe as possible, he's ok with it. I also always get his opinion before starting at a new club/company/agency/ect. This helps him to feel involved some and not so left out of it all. Would he probably prefer to see me do something else? Sure, but for now this is what keeps me happy and that keeps him happy as well. My dad married my mom knowing that she was a dancer (met her in the club) and ended up making her stop because it began to bother him. I could never do that for a man. One thing to avoid a girl or situation like that in the first place, but it's another thing to get serious with the girl expecting it will make her change just for you.





I met my husband while we were boh working at the same club. Working with him has never been a problemand my job has never affected or marraige. When it comes to my job I always discuss things with him. When my club started doing contact lap dances we had a long talk about it since I had never done them before. We both had to be comfortable with me doing them, same thing when I started doing private parties. It's all just business in the end.



I met my husband while he was the DJ at an alternative dance club next door to our stripclub. He then became a DJ/Manager at our stripclub next door and we have both worked at another stripclub..he managed and DJ'ed and I danced. Before he worked at a stripclub he did have the same stereotypical BS that his mother and other girlfriends had fed him. You know..Dancer's were sluts, druggies and more. BUT of course he has learned differently. He is SUPER protective of any dancer because of the BS we put up with. I have lapdanced men within 20 feet of my husband. He act's like so what big deal. He did confide that he sometimes gets an uptight feeling like "Your not good enough to touch my girl!" But then he also gets a good feeling that guys would pay good money to see me. We have NEVER argued about me dancing. It's always been in our life as a couple. I don't know if our situation as a "DJ & Dancer" couple differs from say a "Construction Worker & Dancer" couple though.
"Some of the most wonderful people are the ones who don't fit into boxes."....Tori Amos
my husband liked me dancing because I had a job that I liked. he didnt like thinking about the details though, even though he understood that it is just a job. I didnt care for it though for reasons beyond my relationship with him, mostly the laws where I live now and the drive....
i model now (fine art mostly), and sometimes he comes with me as my bodygaurd/driver person. his only problem with that is that he gets bored just standing there and stuff. well, sometimes he gets a little jelous if the photographer touches me, but he dosnt act upon it...
as for me.... well its a job, and my personal life and professinal life are seprate things. I dont' even tell photographers that I am married or that the friend that I am bringing is also my husband. as a professinal thing that is not thier concern.....


The one thing that sucks though, our favorite bar is right next to our club and we run into TONS of customers there. I get so mad though, guys recognize him all the time, and say hi, cool job etc. They never recognize me though.![]()




Well, I met my husband at my club (he was a regular there). I want to go back to dancing, and he does not seem too thrilled about it, but he's still allowing me to go back. He insists that I can everytime I ask him "Are you sure?" So I guess I can, and I will!![]()
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