Yep, good for me. :cool:
Yep, good for me. :cool:
Good point. Never burn a potential bridge.Originally Posted by Malibu link=board=8;threadid=8231;start=msg99508#msg99508 date=1082529888
A few months ago, as I would sit waiting for someone, there was always this beautiful lady that would ask me if I'd like some company. And being very focused, I would politely decline. She would always accept this with grace and a smile. She didn't ask multiple times in a night, but she always asked me once each night.
Well, intrigued I accepted a dance one night, and now she's one of the people I regularly go to see, always getting 1 or 2 (or 10) dances.
It's good business in action.
-afx
A great smile and seductive manner to approach me is best. But you better have a bit more to say then "Wanna Dance" Even if it is a cheezy line that makes everyone laugh, it is ok. No matter how good looking the dancer may be if you just come up and say "Want a Dance" I will say no. There has to be some sort of fantasy for most guys I think, so they want to hear a bit more than that. Of course there are plenty that just want a great looking woman rubbing up and down on them so they get hot and bothered and go do there thing after, but not me.
Well for me I guess the friendly smile and personality works best. I met the dancer who I see regularly when she was working door one night. I had no idea that she was a dancer. We spent time talking that night and it was only the next time I was in the club that I found out she was a dancer. The fact that she was so damn nice and friendly grabbed me that first time. The next time it was her amazing stage presence that grabbed me. Oh and did I mention she is drop dead gorgeous? There is something about the total package that is highly attractive.
I am not a number. I am a free man
Agreed on the total package aspect, especially when you haven't seen the person before--it really is about attitude as much as appearance. I prefer the easy-going, almost casual approach over the more aggressive approaches, simply because I feel less like I'm being targeted for milking--my milk money flows fine once I see more than a token effort being made--especially by someone who really enjoys (or convincingly acts like she enjoys) what she's doing.![]()
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William F. Buckley, Jr.
Yes.Originally Posted by lilac666 link=board=8;threadid=8231;start=msg96334#msg96334 date=1081881536
When I go to a club I am looking to have fun. The friendly approach works big time for me. I don't mind someone asking me if I want a dance. I just tend to accept more often when I get a feel for the girls personality before hand.
If they come up and just ask about a dance. I only decide based on looks.



As with the other posters here the do you want a dance is a big turn off smiling and a friendly attitude work best another good technique blowing in their ear rubbing the back of their neck well it always works on me.
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