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    Default You dance so you must...

    Twice now since I have started dancing I have been asked to come and perform at "hotel parties." Both times I have refused, the guys were like "come on how much would it cost 500 dollars, 600 dollars? After saying no twice I always get the "Whatever everybody has a price, especially you strippers/dancers/girls like yall.

    Im fully aware that these and many other rude and uncalled for comments will be in my ears, due to my work environment.

    However, I get very upset that certain comments are made along the lines that " Well if you dance you must do this...

    Why cant we just be dancing, is that just not the norm.

    Oh well Im done ranting, thanx for listening.

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    Default Re:You dance so you must...

    If I had a dollar for everytime I heard some loudmouthed idiot tell a dancer that because she dances she must do..(insert own terms here) I would be rich!
    I know it's been done to death but I feel I have to say it again....Just because a girl chooses to dance for a living does not make her less of a person, and she should be treated with the same respect that you give to your wife,sister,aunt,mother etc....

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    Default Re:You dance so you must...

    Don't let it bother you. My comment has always been, "Why do you think that you can come into a stripclub and try to get me to go to a hotel with you? How many times do I have to tell you that it could get me fired? You are willing to pay 600 bucks for my time? Then, let's finish this conversation in the Champagne Lounge."

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    Default Re:You dance so you must...

    well i don't dance yet but i do engage in.... with my fiance! not some random guy(s) paying me money. not my cup of tea.

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    Default Re:You dance so you must...

    I get that all the time, but I just tell them "sorry, that's not my style" or "sorry baby, I'm a good girl, but if you ask around I'm sure you'll find other girls here who will be able to give you what you are looking for"... always works for me.

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    You'll get used to it and develop "filters" soon enough :->

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    Default Re:You dance so you must...

    I always tell them that they can bring the party into the club. If they're really stubborn and persistant about it I'll crack jokes about being allergic to cheep carpet and such.

    My personal peeve though is "Is that your real name?"

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    Default Re:You dance so you must...

    It's really unfortunate that there is still such a stigma attached to exotic dancing.

    just my opinion.
    Wellspring of energy
    Rises in the body's core
    Tap it and be sustained.
    Channel, and it will speak.

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    Default Re:You dance so you must...

    Its extremely annoying. I get this all the time as well. Its usually the same dudes who sit at the bar, and dont buy dances. If they have so much money to spare, why dont they buy dances and test it out first???

    Its annoying, I hear ya girl.

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    Default Re:You dance so you must...

    These guys are just deluded dumbasses. Yeah, some strippers are also hookers. So are some of the girls at the dept store cosmetics counter!

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    Default Re:You dance so you must...

    Tell them to look in the phone book if that's what they are looking for~

    That will usualy shut them up

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    Default Re:You dance so you must...

    (My personal peeve though is "Is that your real name?)

    Another thing that makes me develop a sudden tick...
    When I am here yes this is my real name.... Funny how I always get this question from the guys who are nicknamed shit like "Tiny", "Smokey" "Lil J" and my all time favorite "Big Daddy."

    I mean hell "ahe shorty", "come here gurl", and "let me holla at you for a sec" arent my real name either but they damn sure dont hesitate to call me that.

    Oh well...

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    Default Re:You dance so you must...

    You wanted to become a stripper so badly too. Not all glammer and glitz is it? Has Tiny whipped out lil Tiny, or Big Daddy whipped out lil Daddy for you to play with yet? That's next.........

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rayanna link=board=27;threadid=8255;start=msg97151#msg9715 1 date=1081998079
    Tell them to look in the phone book if that's what they are looking for~

    That will usualy shut them up
    haha this reminds me of a girl at my club, whenever someone asked her where they could " get more" etc, shed tell them the name of this gay bar lol. guys would come back in so pissed off at her for it! HAHA but they soon stopped asking....

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    (You wanted to become a stripper so badly too. Not all glammer and glitz is it? Has Tiny whipped out lil Tiny, or Big Daddy whipped out lil Daddy for you to play with yet? That's next.........)

    YES, I wanted to dance, no I didnt think it was going to be all glam and glitz....wtf? No shit this stuff happens, but it is called a rant for a reason.

    Anywho, thanks to everyone else who understood what I meant.

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    I understand and sympathize doll, I am just really jaded 'cause I've been there/done that. At 27, I've become a rachetty old pro, sorry........

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mia M
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    sometimes when they say "is that your real name?" I say ya know lets give you a stage name too ...something macho like hercules or zeus ....that way while your are here you can fantasize that your'e cool !
    "And when your'e crawling over broken glass to get to me, thats when I'll let you stay." -me

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    Default Re:You dance so you must...

    I had a guy the other night who thought for $20 he could put his hand in my g-string and go lower.I said you're not touching my pussy for $20.He asked how much would it take?I said "you're not getting it".
    How sad that they think for $20 they can do that.Anymore it's just amusing.It used to really chap my hide when I first started.But...the insanity makes it interesting. :rolleyes:

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    Quote Originally Posted by vegasvixen1 link=board=27;threadid=8255;start=msg97216#msg9721 6 date=1082007714
    sometimes when they say "is that your real name?" I say ya know lets give you a stage name too ...something macho like hercules or zeus ....that way while your are here you can fantasize that your'e cool !
    I'm not the only one who does this ... sometimes I do it on accident as I can't remember their name. This doesn't work with everyone tho'... the person has to be 'in the mood' to have a stage name if you know what I mean ?

    The question about "is it your real name?" doesn't bother me anymore. I have a whole heap of responses to use nowdays.


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