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    Okay i have been posting here a little bit now so you guys might be wondering who I am and why I am on here (plus have i have a ?) I am here becuse i have been so intranced with the idea of being a dancer scince i moved to ga near a military post i have done everthing nesscery to make sure i look good and am ready for the club i went to the poperler club here met the owner she offerd to train me and I wimped out my main problem is that i don't have the faith in myself that i need becuse when i was much younger and in high school i was made fun of terribly by all my classmates i don't live there anymore so its time to get over it. I want to know if any of you have had this problem if you can help me. oh and by the way everyone i have metioned my desire to tells me to go for it and that i look good enough. I do think dancing is for me i just need a good kick in the ass to get out there advice is welcome thanks for listing

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    Hey Sweets,

    I had that problem back in high school but you have to understand sweetie that was then. This is now I know its easier said than done to get over it and move on.

    But what I did was just worked on myself. I lost an insane about of weight due that motivation. I turned there mean, hurtful, scar saying into motivation. When I don't want to get up and jog or hit the gym I remember what they use to say to me and how I want to prove them wrong.

    I think you will make a great dancer you just need to start LOVING YOU AND BELIEVING IN YOU! CAUSE IF YOU DON'T THEN WHO ELSE WILL? You are in a business were you are going to get rejected by men you will have your highs and lows so you have to start preparing yourself for that. You have to realize that when they reject you its not the real YOU JUST THE DANCER!

    I would go back and let that lady help me train. They see how you will be successful. YOU HAVE TO HAVE FAITH IN YOURSELF SWEETIE ESPECAILLY IN THIS INDUSTRY! If you don't believe or have faith in yourself then when you do work you aren't going to make as much as the other dance cause you will be insecure and believe me that shows to the men and to the other dancers.

    HOLD THAT HEAD HIGH, LOOK AT YOURSELF IN THE MIRROR AND SEE THAT BEATUIFUL BODY THAT YOU WORK HARD, GO ON THAT STAGE AND MAKE YOUR MONEY! YOU ARE A CREATURE UNLIKE ANY OTHER! YOU CAN DO THIS. YOU CAN DO ANYTHING YOU SET YOUR MIND TO! SUCCESS IS YOUR ONLY OPTION FAILING IS NOT!

    YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL SAY THAT OVER AND OVER TILL IT SINKS IN!

    HONEY!
    Love Yourself Like Nobody Else Could Then you will have that everlasting love we all search for!

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    High school can mess with peoples heads some times! For me, I was picked on throughout middle school! From the age of 11 till i guess 13, I was called a "lesbian." It was sooo freaking annoying, especially since i'm not, and even if i was there is nothing wrong with it!!!

    This guy Anthony used to pick on me hardcore, he used to walk passed me in the hall and whisper "dike" in my ear, Anyway... I'm 21 yrs. old now, and maybe 6months ago, I'm at a gas station, and guess who hits on me??? That jerk Anthony, he didn't even remember me, I just blew him off and walked away... IT FELT GOOD!

    In high school everything changed for me, I ended up switching schools and being in that group that everyone wanted to be in! And to be honest with you, I was anorexic, lonely, and the friends that i had, were never real friends... I was kinda mean to people, that i wished i had been nicer too!

    Basically, what i'm trying to say is, everyone has there own agenda!!! Don't let what people say hurt you! Everyone tries to play a role in high school, and i think sometimes people can get hurt! Don't let that ruin your self-esteem!!! I say go back and let her train you!!! You know if you want to do something, do it! Definitely don't let what people have said in the past get in the way of what you want to do now!! Just be confident! And if your not confident, pretend that you are, people are easy to fool... haha.... GOOD LUCK! Don't chicken out, atleast give it a try!

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    thank so much for your modivation i will keep you posted on my progress

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    Aww... high school is so brutal! Ugh! It was the same way for me. I was fairly popular and not exactly the ugly girl, but I was 10 pounds heavier than I am now, didn't wear the right clothes for my body and had such low self- esteem that I blended in with everyone else. I never stood out- at least, not in a positive way. And if one guy had something negative to say about my body, I'd fall apart. Now, I'm a completely different person, but sometimes when I look in the mirror I still see "that girl." I think everyone goes through it. If anyone from my old school knew I was about to start dancing, they'd have a heart attack... and I like it that way.
    I'm sure you are more than beautiful enough to dance. As every dancer here will tell you, it's mostly mental. So tell yourself you can do it, and go for it! And let us know how it goes! Good luck sweetie.

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