Hi girls (and guys). I want to describe what my working life at my club is like in order to hear if more experienced girls would put up with this!
I am dancing for the first time, in Tokyo, I^m in my third week. I am not the best dancer (yet!), but I do get a lot of tips (for Japan, not a high-tipping country!) as I always try to look like I^m having a good time on stage, and interact with customers, which I know they like. Also I am one of only two girls in my club who can speak Japanese so I get a lot of customer requests from non-English speaking customers.
However I^m having a really hard time getting private dances. We are seated with customers and do not have to approach them. We are seated either according to the order of our names on the list or if the customer requests us. I am fine with asking them if they would like a private dance (if they seem like a halfway decent guy and not a complete asshole that is), but if they make an excuse such as having to catch a train, having no money, being embarrassed because their boss is with them, I find it really hard (impossible!) to change their minds.
Last night the girls who got the most private dances (I got only one! OK tips though) apparently promised their customers they would have sex with them after the club closed, and that they would run away before getting to the hotel. I just CANNOT do this! Surely, in any country, we should not have to do this, to make money!?!?
My boss said I should be trying harder, and I shouldn^t just ask the customer if he wants a private dance, I should touch him more and "make him horny" while I^m talking to him, and then he will agree to the dance. I don^t mind holding a guy^s hand or resting a hand on his leg while flirting with him but this is really as far as I^m prepared to go! The majority of our customers are in their 50s and 60s, and it is bad enough having stinky-breathed elderly salaryman maul your boobs in private dance (for it is high contact in this country) without having to get into some kind of foreplay with him to get him in there in the first place!
I^d really like to know if this would be acceptable to girls who work in the US or other countries. Looking at this board, conditions seem to be much better outside of Japan! Should I quit? Last night really nauseated me! I feel it^s too bad when I^m getting better at dancing, but what to do???



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