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    ok im not shy im acually really outgoing.. my problem is this im onstage with these majorly experienced girlz, then i get up there and feel like i know nothing... is there any way to not feel so intimidated its bad enought there are 2 bitches that dont like me that have worked there for years and try to steal any tips i get not to mention my guys cuz i get lots of complements... id love to outshine them.. any pointers or advice? thanx girlz!

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    Default Re:Akward Dancing...

    hmm.. no replies yet...

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    You're kidding, right?

    Prolly the reason why no one has responded is because no one believes ANYONE could steal tips/customers from someone who looks like you.

    Let's get real. All you have to do is just walk around the club, be friendly and give even a remotely decent lapdance and you'll make more than 90% of the other girls here, regardless of talent and/or ability onstage. They know that, I know that, and if you're being honest with yourself, you know that, too.

    You're a smoking hot Pam Anderson look-a-like, and almost no one except guys who like "natural" women will turn you down if you ask them for a dance.

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    I don't know what to tell you, practise makes perfect.

    Also try to be the better girl by not calling those two girls bitches. Maybe if you are nice to them you will get more customers. Small gestures make a big difference.
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    I thought that avatar was of someone else on this board? Did someone upload it again? Or is that really you?

    Anyway if it is you, you are hot, and I agree with Chili. You shouldnt have any problems getting dances if you are sweet, sexy and outgoing. Just get on the stage and strut your stuff. You are gorgeous.

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    Yeah,a kelly or something used that avatar.Dont know if it was really her either because when people commented she never answered if it was her or not.But to answer your question,ignore other girls,dont ever call them names it only makes you look like the bad one.Customers pick up on that and then they wont come in anymore.Be nice and do your thing.

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    The only way to polish your stage performance is practice, practice, practice. Also, if your focus is on "upstaging" the vets, then that is part of your problem. Your focus should be on your body and connecting with your customers. Sometimes vet dancers get really bitchy with newcomers and will make it as hard for them as they can. All you can do is kill 'em with kindness. Let them think that you cannot be bothered with their drama and it will eventually all go away.

    Just focus on yourself and your customers...it'll all eventually go away.

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    Do your own thing. That's the most important thing. I used to be able to do a ton of stuff that I can no longer do due to an old injury, but, what I have done is learned to deal with what I can do, and I do my own thing. I don't copy, and I don't watch the other girls-I don't have time.

    I agree with Chili. If that is you in your picture, you have really nothing to worry about, your stage is just for exposure, your lap dances is where you are going to make your money, and if you are friendly and able to strike up a conversation matched with how you look, you should have no issues whatsoever.

    But, stop calling the other girls bitches, and don't wallow in the mud with them. Be better than they are in that aspect and simply walk away, your time is valuable and not to be wasted on drama.


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    Default Re:Akward Dancing...

    Just wanted 2 thank everyone who replied.. i havn't been on in a couple dayz i've been really busy.. but had to give some thanx on the great advice, and i didnt mean to look like a bitch by calling them names i was just totally frustrated and had a really bad night with them lolz.. oh and for the 100th time this pic isnt me i guess its just some girl named april i so gotta change it lolz.. she is pretty aint she? lolz

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    For what do you define as real experienced...
    There are alot of factors that can contribute to how your moves on stage can outshine the competition...

    What do you mean by awkward dancing...?

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    Umm, I don't know if that's the same pic that everyone's talking about but...that's a pic of Pam Anderson!

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    I think we have all felt like that at times, and even after years of experience, we still have days like that.
    I mean, sometimes you kind of run out of things to do on stage. You can only get on your knees and wiggle your butt so much.....
    I always found that when I danced to Matchbox 20 (i know it sounds lame but Rob Thomas, YUMMY!) I got so into the music and that made me feel sexy. But if I were on a back or side stage and it was music I felt uncomfortable dancing to (ie, rap, speed metal) forget it, I was uncomfortable through the whole song. Lol I have no rythmn in the "real world" as is it, but trying to be sexy to "Blow My Whistle Bitch" just doesn't work for me no matter what!

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    This might seem contradictory but I've noticed that girls who trip and fall/stumble on stage seem to get lots of dances afterwards. They're always embarressed about the trip and surprised by the dances too. Go figure.


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    Yes that is Pam Anderson....LOL Look at the tatoo! hehe....but damn she is gorgeous! I am a female and I would do her! <hehehehe>

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    I agree with the other girls....practice..watch the other girls and you will learn. Maybe get a pole dancing video or take a class. In my experiance...it always takes time for girls to accept new girls. When you have been working at a place for a long time....you tend to consider it "your club" or "your terf" ....these girls are more then likely eventually going to warm up to you...it just takes time for acceptance. Till then..screw them..make your money...thats what you are there for.



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    I was using a picture of April not knowing she was someone on the forum (this is when i was new here) but anyways i changed it an uploaded one of my favorite pam pics, in my eyes she will always be the ultimate sex goddess haha!

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    Quote Originally Posted by antsprincesss link=board=27;threadid=8540;start=msg102036#msg102 036 date=1083074888
    I think we have all felt like that at times, and even after years of experience, we still have days like that.
    I mean, sometimes you kind of run out of things to do on stage. You can only get on your knees and wiggle your butt so much.....
    I always found that when I danced to Matchbox 20 (i know it sounds lame but Rob Thomas, YUMMY!) I got so into the music and that made me feel sexy. But if I were on a back or side stage and it was music I felt uncomfortable dancing to (ie, rap, speed metal) forget it, I was uncomfortable through the whole song. Lol I have no rythmn in the "real world" as is it, but trying to be sexy to "Blow My Whistle Bitch" just doesn&#039;t work for me no matter what!


    AMEN SISTER! I can&#039;t be sexy to "blow my whistle bitch" or anything of the sort, or something so damn fast you have to basically be a super human to dance to it...

    Antsprincess.. welcome to SW!


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