I think last night pretty much ended it with me and the big man. My bikini, which lived at his house, was on my porch this morning....
Oh well, moving on I guess.......![]()
I think last night pretty much ended it with me and the big man. My bikini, which lived at his house, was on my porch this morning....
Oh well, moving on I guess.......![]()
"Have you ever been to American wedding? Where is the vodka, where's marinated herring?" - GB
"And do the cats give a shit? No, they do not. Why? Because they're cats."-from The Onion
Originally Posted by Mia M
Awww hunny, I'm sorry to hear that. Hope you're okay.
But um.. Since you're moving on and all, move on over to Rhode Island baybee! >^..^< Meow! hehe
Smile Dahling,
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Damn Katrine I'm sorry to hear that, if ya wanna talk ya know where to find me or Dea.
Damn you Rhia...Ya beat me to the punch!





Sorry to hear that Katrine, hope you're okay.![]()
So sorry Kat... But I'm sure you'll get over it.
Here...have a cookie!
If you want you can curl up against my big blue furry shoulders.![]()
"Those who dance, are considered crazy by those who can't hear the music."--George Carlin


Sorry to hear Kat (
Hang in there



Sorry to hear it Kat - not to minimize how difficult this must be (currently helping my roommate through her breakup after a 2 1/2 year) BUT you said before that you felt like you "needed" him - my impression of you is that you're going to find out that you're strong enough to get along just fine on your own for a little while. Tonight say "Screw it!" and go to Stubbs and dance your ass off! (show there with DJ Shadow and Blackilicious)
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Sorry to hear that Katrine.
Things will get better.
XOXOXOXOXOXOXO![]()
Opinions are one thing that makes us all individuals.
Thanks everyone! Its my fault. After we finished the fashion show last night, I hopped into the limo that drove us and we went to the clubowner's house. I basically ditched my boy at the club.
He called a few times, and about 4am, I answered, stupid me....he was totally confrontational, not like him at all. He said he was sick of me telling him things that appease him for a little while and doing them over and over again....
There is a reason I did not invite him to the limo, and its a very bad one. I think I have a serious drug problem...whoaHe, of course, does not approve, and rightfully so.....
I don't know what to do now, do I go to Cocaine Anonymous or something, check into rehab, stop hanging out with all of my friends that do it.......
Should I try to get him back? I don't think its worth it, we were having problems for a while, and I don't give him the respect he deserves.....
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"Have you ever been to American wedding? Where is the vodka, where's marinated herring?" - GB
"And do the cats give a shit? No, they do not. Why? Because they're cats."-from The Onion
Originally Posted by Mia M
I'm sorry, Kat.
The tides of life ebb and flow. Sometimes we can paddle along for ourselves, and somes the tides just take us where they will.
It's important to realize the process that goes along with any loss and to minimize the damage. You said he was good for you in some aspects. Accept those good results that helped you out and hang on to them. Make the relationship, now apparently over, work well for you.
There's a lot of life to live out there for yourself. All the best to you.
Girl....you said it yoruself. You need to work on your own problems because if you don't fix those, you will not be able to fix the problems in your relationships. Nobody likes feeling like they take second fiddle, and especially to drugs.
if you love him, change your lifestyle. other than that, give him time to think.
by the way, WHY do guys think they need to drop all your stuff off at your house (in the yard, on the porch) when they are mad or when they think it's over?
Lame-o....![]()
I don't know Giselle, he has done this before, in previous breakups. I can't be bothered to go over there to drop off some grimey white tshirts and briefs.....
FUCK! He has my Motorhead "Ace of Spades" CD!!! I want it back, but will have to return GnR Lies...good thing I can rip it onto computer......
Wow, this sucks ass. All of my single girlfriends seem so lonely and desperate. They throw themselves at men, and I am terrified that I will become needy like them.........
"Have you ever been to American wedding? Where is the vodka, where's marinated herring?" - GB
"And do the cats give a shit? No, they do not. Why? Because they're cats."-from The Onion
Originally Posted by Mia M
Katrine...I think that you really need to take a good, long look at yourself. Not only are you not treating him with the respect that he deserves, you are doing the same with yourself.
If you have a drug problem, then you may want to consider rehab, counseling, and yes, a whole new circle of clean friends. It will be too hard to stay clean with the drugs running under your nose.
You are a wonderful person. Please take care of yourself. And, if you want to change, do it because you love and respect yourself...not because you want to get your man back.
Lots of hugs and love,
Venus





Sorry to hear that Kat, although from other things you'd posted about the relationship recently I'm not too surprised. You said yourself there were problems for a while.
I agree with Emily that, since you've stated you have problems of your own, best thing you can do is work on that now because if not the relationships will always suffer for it. My impression of you is that you're a damn strong woman and can overcome whatever you set your mind to. I know it's a difficult time now, but you might find later on that this breakup was the best thing to happen to you. Sometimes it takes something bad to inspire a realization.
Regarding the drugs, I don't think that JUST cutting off with the friends who do it is the answer. Most find their way back eventually. You'll need support from others around you, along with avoiding tempting situations, and a DAMN strong will. And yes as mentioned above a new circle of drug-free friends. Years ago I was the Queen of All Potheads, and though it's not the same as coke, one addiction is just as bad as another if you ask me. I would not have been able to get away from it without outside support.
Sending you love and wishing you happiness.![]()
Thanks Ladies!
i'm in chat if anyone wants to stop in, I need to get to bed soon though, havn't slept in almost 36 hours, yikes!
"Have you ever been to American wedding? Where is the vodka, where's marinated herring?" - GB
"And do the cats give a shit? No, they do not. Why? Because they're cats."-from The Onion
Originally Posted by Mia M
I take it your boyfriend doesn't do any drugs?? if not, then try to make him understand that you have a problem and if he loves you, he'll help you through it. It's not going to be easy though...been there done it. if he does do drugs, then that's part of the prob..If you love him, try to make it work for BOTH of you. Decide whether he's worth it too...if you don't really LOVE him, then be strong and get yourself together for your own sake. Then find someone better. It always seems so hopeless after a breakup or almost breakup, but regardless you have to do the thing that makes you happiest.![]()
He is against drugs, except for weed.
"Have you ever been to American wedding? Where is the vodka, where's marinated herring?" - GB
"And do the cats give a shit? No, they do not. Why? Because they're cats."-from The Onion
Originally Posted by Mia M
if drugs are the main argument, then you gotta decide what's more important. as I said before, if you love him.........


he returned the bikini because he wanted to play games (men do that, and so do women)
Um, it sounds like he knows you have a drug problem and he is no longer willing to help. Have you asked him for help?
Is this something you want to give up? Because if it is, it should be for yourself and nobody else (that is how people stay clean)
Does he know WHY you ditched him????





Kat - I have a few questions for you about the coke.Originally Posted by Katrine link=board=1;threadid=8560;start=msg100607#msg1006 07 date=1082742810
Do you crave it when your not around the people and places that you associate it with ? If so you might want to attend some NA meetings. If not maybe you should try to break away from that "scene"
I know of a few dancers who were addicted to the whole "scene" rather than the substance and when they changed the enviroment they stopped using and best of all stop wanting to use.
It's alot easier to say no if it's not right in your face![]()
Just something to think about. Best wishes to you hon![]()





actually, Kat, this sounds like a perfect opportunity to get the [email protected]&k out of Houston ! Putting some distance between yourself and your ex, your clubowner and your party friends, as well as leaving the $50 blowjob club culture behind, might do you a world of good !



$50 for a blowjob? WTF!!!!! I only get paid $25 at the truckstops I work! And half of that goes toward my dry cleaning bill to get the stench of chewing tobacco out of my clothes!
Kat, will talk to you later - sleep well
LOL You're too much.Originally Posted by Weluckyfew link=board=1;threadid=8560;start=msg100670#msg1006 70 date=1082752627
Blade, if we can persuade her to come to Rhode Island, it's only a hop-skip-and-a-jump to Connecticut, so we both win! Weeeeeeeee! hehe
Kat seriously hon,
I hope you're doing ok with all of this. If you need to chat, you know I'm here.
~Rhi~
Rhia, let's take a trip to the moon baby, errr to houston and kidnap Katrine, the ride would do her good,lol.
We can then hide her in your closet and keep her to ourselves,hehehehe
Seriously Kat a trip away from everyone and everything you know in party mode wouldn't be too bad an idea
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