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    I just started dancing for the first time EVER and my club does topless and nude lapdances. (Plus a private VIP room where girls are nude and guys can touch (Not the crotch or chest area) and a spa where girls give nude massages.) I'm petrified! I've already managed to get my ass on stage and get topless and strip to a thong, but the nude thing is kinda freakin me out. Any advice??
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    Practise at home and when it's quiet in the club to build up confidence. Remember to smile! Honestly, it's contagious and when everyone is relaxed and happy, you calm down and feel good. Try to remember to move, dance and strip s-l-o-w-l-y (I cannot emphasise this enough). You won't have time to feel nervous about the nudity if your concentrating on moving slowly and sexily to the music. Not only will it help control your nerves, but it works wonders on customers (the slower the movement, the better the sexy mental image they can capture of you which will entrance them). Just think how gorgeous you will be naked - all eyes will be on you in an admirable way. That's enough to make ME want to take off ALL my clothes!!

    You'll be fine. Some girls get a bit freaky at first, but as long as it isn't a serious obstacle (and it can't be nor can it be long term) then you'll ease into things.
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    If a nude club freaks you out that badly, it might not be right for you. If you look nervous and tense, you won't make money, no matter how hot or naked you are.

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    Hey, relax, as long as the guys behave it should be a great experience, I wish I could be fondling you right now



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    Don't think about it. Every guy has seen a woman nude. Plus you only do one song nude usually. It's no big deal, really.

    Does a bouncer monitor the dances to make sure the guy doesn't touch down below?

    I've worked in nude, topless and bikini environments. I am versatile and go with the flow.

    To dance you pretty much have to be flexible.

    Now, if I am in a club where the customers are arrogant and obnoxious, thats a place I will not stay in.

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    lol, I started nude so it was all easy after that!
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    I guess it is also your disposition: those of us who have beliefs which are positive in re: nudity and sexuality usually have no problems with nudity. It is usually those who have beliefs that being nude is shameful that have problems.

    If your beliefs aren't a problem and it is just nervousness.... I have been there. The first time I went nude on stage for free (no tips).. my heart was pounding. It was great! I felt exposed but in the end I loved the experience.

    After being nude for awhile.. you will have moments where you will forget that you are nude. Been there too.. For example, you're having a conversation with a customer during the lap dance time and all of a sudden it just occurs to you.. wow.. I'm nude. LOL!

    You'll get used to it. Just a matter of doing it.


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    Thanks guys for all the advice, I already did a couple (all of em in fact) nude lap dances. On my first Saturday. The first one of course was a VIP. I didn't even get that close to the guy even though I know you can grind on em and stuff cuz I was so damn nervous. BUt I made good money that night. There is this one weird ass guy that kinda gave me the creeps. Everyone of the girls knows him and was tellin me how during the VIP lap he is basically grinding so hard it's like he's trying to get off (He once broke a chair with one girl) ANyway, when I was doin a dance for him he didn't go crazy but he was basically huggin on me and had me all close and man it was just weird, (HE wears really weird clothes it looks like the jacket is from a marching band) But all in all I was fine. Bouncers are all over the club watching EVERYTHING so I feel safe.
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    Timid what club are you dancing at? I just moved to the chicago area and I'm looking for a new club...
    I haven't thought of anything clever or witty to put here..i just failed as a stripper.

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