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    whoahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

    just heard on the news, this guy killed himself and his two kids ( both the same ages as my regulers kids) in his home ( which is the same suburb he told me he lived in) and whats crazy, is he was telling me before i left work ( ive been off for over amonth now, due to implants) that he wanted to just kill himself and his kids so his nasty ex couldnt be happy.

    fark.

    im heaps worried now. i thought maybe he was just saying that for attention or whatever, but the other night i went into work, social call for half an hour hehe, and one of the girls said he came in freaking out, looking for me, saying he HAD to talk to me..etc.


    i dunno. maybe its not him, but i have a feeling, it is.



    well that just ruined my day.


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    Default Re:OMG!!! my regular just killed himself and his kids!??!

    That is some messed up stuff there! Let us know when you find out for sure!
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    will do. i gotta wait til the night news tonight. but it freaked me out when i heard the headline.


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    wow hun that sux! Hopefully it isn't but def. keep us posted..!

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    How tragic! Selfish bastard didn't have to kill the kids!
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    It's probably good you weren't there...
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    So much struggle for meaning, for purpose. And in the end, we find it only in each other. Our shared experience of the fantastic. And the mundane. The simple human need to find a kindred, to connect. And to know in our hearts... that we are not alone.
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    wow. ok its all good, not him, was worried for a while tho. every single thing sounded like him, ages,locations,reasons for doing it, this guy was even in the same family situation as him.

    only difference was their names.

    my guy is a john, this guy was a jason.

    whoa pretty simmilar tho. same kids ages,same ages, same suburb,smae family situation. freaky.

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    that's pretty fucked up! what's going to happen to your regulars kids, though? did you report him for the threat to his kids?

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    Wow! Thats horrible regardless who it is! My regrets to John or Jason's kids!!


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    im not going to report him. thats his business, not mine. maybe theres a logical expaination for his actions since i have known him.

    have to admit, i was pretty freaked out when i thought it might be him....THEN i would have gone to the police. bit late tho i spose....

    i dunno,i think he was saying that for attention tho... i dunno

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    Don't you think it's possible your 'john' gave you a fake name at the club? I mean, we do it all night long, and I am SURE some customers do it as well. If he doesn't show up at the club anymore, I think I'd be questioning whether 'john' is really his name...

    Like Pryce said, it's probably a good thing you weren't there when he came in 'freaking out'.

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    i wouldn't be freakin out if i were you. i mean, if it is him, so what? he's dead, he can't harm you now.

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    I would suggest at least talking to the local police. I'd go in and tell them, "hey I had this guy tell me something very similar to this..." They might be able to use your information in some way or another. If you have ANY reason to suspect he might be a viable threat to ANYONE, you really do need to say something....you don't want that shit on your conscience!

    Good luck hon.
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    I think people who take their misery out on innocent children are just sick people. And, if he is that upset about his ex, perhaps he needs to admit he's CO DEPENDENT! Classic signs of co dependency are not wanting anyone who is associated with the person who is denying the person being denied (ex etc..) to be close to them.

    In any event, sounds like your regular is messed up


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    Default Re:OMG!!! my regular just killed himself and his kids!??!

    I'd freak out thinking that this guy would be looking for me then noticing he hasn't shown up. Like Bridgette said, he may have used a fake name at your club.



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    Quote Originally Posted by Deja Voodoo link=board=27;threadid=8616;start=msg101771#msg101 771 date=1083027727
    I'd freak out thinking that this guy would be looking for me then noticing he hasn't shown up. Like Bridgette said, he may have used a fake name at your club.

    yes, but if its the same guy, you're missing the point. HE'S DEAD! its very rare that dead person seeks out someone to kill days after they've passed.

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    hmmm fake name, thats a good point, everything seem too coincidental,for it not to be him.

    maybe i should just call the police and give them waht i do know. might save his kids life if its not him.

    thanks

    im not worried about him hurting me.

    his hatred was towards his ex.

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    Just hope his ex does not look like you



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    LISTEN , YOU ARE OBLIGATED TO SAY SOMETHING ABOUT THE THREAT TO THE KIDS. WETHER YOU LIKE IT OR NOT. IF YOU REFUSE TO DO SO THEN POST HIS INFO AND I WILL DO IT AND NOBODY WILL MENTION YOU. HOW BAD WOULD YOU FEEL IF IT HAPPENS AGAIN AND IT IS HIM AND HE MURDERS HIS BABYS AND U COULD HAVE STOPPED IT???!!! HELLO???!!?
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    you're not obligated to do shit........

    sure, you could probably make the statement annonomously, but how many people did he tell? maybe he just told you.... so if thats the case and the police question him, he'll know who rolled over on him, and it may be your ass getting killed. this is ofcorse assuming he wasn't the guy that just wacked his family.

    its your call. if its the same guy, its over. if its a different guy, he was probably jsut blowing off steam and wasn't serious.

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    Next time you see that guy recommend a good counselor. Trust me getting him harrassed by police and social service workers will only worsen the situation. It will not help him one bit or the kids. If anything it will freak the x out and drive the wedge between them even deeper.
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    My point was this...

    I work at the Crazy Horse in Vegas, the week before the attacks of 9-11 four of the pilots / highjackers came in almost every night four nights in a row. They were talking and bragging about what they were about to do...nobody paid any attention. Everyone thought they were just a bunch of drunk arabs being loud and talking sh**. But ya know what, fine go ahead and listen to sander8son he's right "you are not obligated to do sh**"
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    I do feel that something should be said out of the safety for the kids Mermaid. I mean think about it this way, knowing what he's told you, can you live with knowing what he's said and how he feels if something were to happen to his children?

    I'm sorry, but I have to disagree Sanderson. I know that I couldn't deal with knowing someone has all these threats against their ex and saying something as crazy as taking their own children's lives without being concerned. I would feel pretty damn shitty if a couple of innocent children died because I ignored something like that.

    My point is this. This guy obviously has a screw loose. In my opinion it sounds like a co-dependency issue. Recommend a counselor would be a good thing, but at the same point, he's not going to go. You can call a social worker (here in the US its Health and Welfare) and make an anonymous call. If he's divorced, they will notify his ex, she can then seek a protection order until he's sane enough to deal with his issues. And yes, he's crazy in my opinion.

    Why take him lightly? I wouldn't. Children have no reason to be at the hands of people who think nothing about their welfare. For the children's sake I would say something.

    Vegas vixen, I am in Boise, and my friend who works at Little Darlings told me the same thing that you posted about 9/11... they came into her club too.


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    Default Re:OMG!!! my regular just killed himself and his kids!??!

    yeah....isnt that the creepiest thing , to just think those people inside my place of work etc. I still cant even stand to really, really sit down and think about it.
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