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    Wow. I went throught the EXACT same thing about a year and a half ago. I had just turned 18 and it was my first club. It got so bad and those girls were so miserable, I honestly couldn't (and why would I want to?) hang and left. Those bit**es were vicious, man! LoL Anyways, I never regreted it and ended up in a much nicer enviornment for it. If I hadn't been driven out like that, I would have never had the guts to go audition at this other place, so I said thank you to her as I left. She was so pissed when she figured out why, I have to admit i found it hilarious. The girls at my new club are nothing like the other ones, most are sweet as pie. I think that club had some really bad karma or something.

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    This is just f*cking unbelievable.
    Well last night I was kicked out of the club I work at one hour after I arrived. I was put on SUSPENSION because of the nasty, vindictive BITCH who I began this post about. (I have also discussed this issue with a few of you in emails a/b a month ago).

    This girl and I are still having issues. I ignore her, and she still continues to harasses me, so she can chase me out of the club. I had planned to talk to management about the harassment, but had left my the log (where I documented dates/times/descriptions of her harassment -minor harassment, but still harassment) at home. Anyhow she got her wish. She finally got me out of the club -or at the very least, suspended until they decide otherwise.
    Last night I was directed to go see the manager. Once inside, the housemom and the manager sat me down and the manager told me that a "customer" had called the club and informed him that I had taken him into the club's bathroom in late March. The manager told me that he was going to watch all of the surveillance cams from 5-6 weeks ago, meet the "customer" who made the accusations, have a chat with him, and then decide on whether or not I will be invited back to the club.
    Of course when he is telling (yelling) me all of this, I get so upset I start crying. I ask manager and housemom how they dont realize that this is all part of the dancer's scheming to get me out of the club. I KNOW that this horrible awful girl whose been trying to run me out for TWO months now, either went to management and said that I took a customer into the bathroom, OR she actually had a male friend call the manager and pretend to be a customer, and saying all this B.S. And of course, being managers, they have to take these complaints seriously.
    But neither of them acknowledged my thoughts on this and told me that it had nothing to do with her. Bullshit. Then the manager escorted me through the club to get my belongings to make sure I left his club ASAP.
    The whole experience was scary, heartwreching and absolutely humiliating.
    To think that this girl was one of my best friends less than three months ago is like...surreal. I cannot believe she has done this to me. She's twisted something into a nasty disgusting story, and she's running as far as she can go with it. I cannot believe she has gone this far to get me out of the club.

    So my fate at this club relies on the surveillance tapes of 7 weeks ago, and whoever shows up a.ka. (or does not) a.k.a the "customer" to talk with the manager this week. It's like I have no say whatsoever. It's like if someone makes a nasty claim about you, you are subject to all sorts of embarassment, accusations are immediately believed, and you are suspended or fired. Wow. getting someone fired can be quite simple these days, huh? I cant even believe that this is happening.

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    Hi! My advice is to make as much money as you can. That pisses them off the most! By catfighting, you are spending energy that should be spent on making $$$! When people are cunts to me, which is pretty rare, I ignore them and put my anger into being all the more sexy. Making more money than them is the best revenge. They usually feel like an ass!
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    I've already done that. This girl is just so homely and has mounds of cellulite that just wont quit. She makes shit money which explains why her and her lil boyfriend live with her parents. But making more money than her has just made her work all the more to accomplish me being 3/4 kicked out of the club.

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    Kayla, I'm so sorry to hear that. What a bitch. Did you save the nasty messages that she left on your answering machine? If you did, bring them into your club and have your manager listen to them.

    Hope things get better for you soon.






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    We have a 500 dollar fine for fights,both sides pay,doesnt matter who is at fault.
    Even if its just an argument in front of customers,its 500 each.

    You would be amazed at how few fights we have here.

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    I'm with Farrah, only I would have already taken the message to work and played it aloud. This bitch is counting on you to let her make the first move, and that is how she'll win if you let her. She fucked up leaving a message saying she would lie about your vip activities to get you fired. Take it straight to work and play if for EVERYONE. This will expose her for the lying scheming jealous bitch she is and that she is not to be trusted. As long as you wait for her to make the first move, she has the upper hand. YOU take action, and you couldn't do anything better than playing that message for the people at work. If you do that, you will turn the tables on her and SHE will be seen as the asshole at work, rather than you. Punching her or saying anything bad about her will only make you look like an asshole. Just bring in the message, if it's on voicemail bring your phone, announce that this is the latest message you got from the bitch, and this is what she's REALLY like, then play it. No name-calling, no nothing. You might add that the stuff she's been telling everyone about you doing extras is all lies. You won't have to say anything else.

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    The $500 fine thing does not really help, but thanks for the real advice Bridgette and everyone else

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