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    Default I've lost my MOJO- Seriously.

    Well, I don't know how this happened, but I have lost it. My MOJO is caput.

    Just a little background here. I have some business partners that live in different cities and when they come into town, we usually do a little dinner and then head over to the local "ballet" for some entertainment.

    Well, we went in to the club, and my favorite dancer was there and she came over to talk. As a description, she is the best looking dancer there about 6 feet tall, great figure, beautiful eyes, and a brunette (my preference). Did I mention the beautiful eyes? I have known her for a couple of years and she dances off and on. Anyways, we always have a fun time and conversation.

    Now, last time we were in the club for just a short time so I just gave her some money for the conversation time , but this time I could tell that she really wanted to dance as she hadn't danced yet. They called off the 2 for 1. So, I said "Sure, let's do a couple."

    Anyway, she danced, but it felt like I was getting a dance from my sister. THIS IS NOT GOOD!

    I have been agonizing over this feeling, and I think it is because I am hanging out on stripperweb too much. It's hard to keep in the customer mode when you know so many great people in the business on-line.

    I am hoping it was just because I had so many business things on my mind. But what if my MOJOs gone forever? :'(

    What should I do?






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    Default Re:I've lost my MOJO- Seriously.

    what you should do is, come get some dances with me you'll get that old feeling back before you can say "mojo"

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    Hmmm, maybe I need a change of pace.

    But just to clairify, I do look at dancers as normal people and I am not looking to take one home or date or etc.

    Example: riding into work this morning and there was a discussion on the radio about whether you should be in the delivery room with your wife. The guy was being told by his friends that once you see a baby born, you will never look at your wife in the same way. They were discussing whether this was true or not.

    Maybe I should ask the guys on the board... Guys, do you look at the dancers differently now that you are interacting with them on the board than before you were here?

    And, since I will be in New Orleans the first part of June, maybe I should stop in and see.


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    OH MY GOD - they found out we're human!
    If you can't get rid of the skeleton in your closet, you'd best teach it to dance.
    -George Bernard Shaw

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    Brooke you crack me up lol lol
    "And when your'e crawling over broken glass to get to me, thats when I'll let you stay." -me

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    About 20 years ago, I discovered dancers were human.... Since that time, I have counted the number of nipples, divided by two, and I think that I have seen 1024.5 human dancers.

    So far, I have not been to Mexico to witness the other kind....



    Where oh where has my MOJO gone, oh where of where can it be?

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    More human than human (add techno from Rob Zombie song)...


    Wow. This is too weird that you posted this because last week I had a regular who told me that he couldn't get dances from me anymore

    Why? Because he said that he was getting too attached to me and that it felt too weird . So I asked him why it felt strange to him and his response? " I am getting to know you too well.", and " I'm beginning to have feelings for you". I've been dancing for him for a little over three months. He comes in and he drops a good amount of money, we talk, sometimes we have dinner, and we have gotten to know eachother, but not on a deep level. My opinion is is that my regular is extremely lonely, he's older-around mid to late 50's.

    Unlike most dancers at my club, I am married. However, I do not speak of my personal life in a great amount of detail. If someone asks me about my interests I will tell them, I mention that I have a daughter, but the topic has never really been raised about me being single etc. I guess I avoid it or somehow it never comes up, plus, I don't think that it helps me anyways to tell someone that I am married-it ruins their fantasy, and in a sense, it hurts my money. (Guys please interject here- would you rather know or would you rather not?) Perhaps with this regular I should have told him I was married to avoid any "attachment" on his part.

    So, I don't think you've lost your mojo I think you've become a bit attached to your favorite. Maybe I am wrong, but when you begin to care about someone because you get to know them, the experience is totally different.

    I have danced for a good friend of mine and I told him, "Next time, I'm hooking you up with another dancer." Why? Because he's like a brother, it feels weird to dance for someone you know.

    I try not to get to know my regulars on a deep personal level, maybe the reverse should also apply?

    I don't know girls, help me here, do any of you agree or have any insight?

    In any event give it a rest and maybe the next time you return it will be different.


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    Gynger,
    Maybe you are onto something.

    Yes, it is great to lust from afar, but you can't do that with a "human" that you know as a person.

    Sort of like that thread of when the ladies were talking about dating customers. After they are on the customer ladder that's what they are....




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    lots of hugs sitri.... I don't know how much of what I said helped, but just an observation.

    Have a great week!


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    Default Re:I've lost my MOJO- Seriously.

    I hope that you know I was just kidding, Sitri... Your posts are typically thought provoking or insightful, and I do know how you look at dancers. I just have to have my fun sitting here at this desk all day!
    If you can't get rid of the skeleton in your closet, you'd best teach it to dance.
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    This is common. After some time a guy begins to feel like he 'knows' the girl too well, it's too comfortable, feeling too much like a relationship and less like a hot sexy affair. When this happens it's time to move on or take a break from the girl. Maybe you can go back to see her later, after trying out some other girls, and the old feeling will return, or maybe it won't.

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    When you lead a nontraditional life don't try to measure it with traditional milestones.

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    Sitri,

    I think it might also be because you remember her as... maybe "goddess" like? But then when you see her in person, as beautiful as she may be, you see a very attractive HUMAN - not mythical goddess. This is probably as Gynger was saying, because you've gotten to know her. But when you're not around her, you make her more desirable in your mind.


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    Default Re:I've lost my MOJO- Seriously.

    Gynger,

    You're married, but you go to dinner with your customer? Doesn't that create problems at home?


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    Sandi: My club serves food. I am only allowed to dine inside the club. No and no problems at home. My hubby is very supportive of what I do. He knows where I sleep at night and where my heart is. This is a business and I treat it as such.


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    1) Getting to know women on stripperweb hasn't decreased the guy-fun that I have in strip clubs.

    2) Getting familiar can be distracting. There have been one or more times when I've met a dancer from stripperweb, and the dances didn't have the sexual overtones that they otherwise would.

    3) I don't care if a dancer is married or dating or not, or if she tells me. I take it easy on my fantasies and simply assume that every dancer that I meet is married and doesn't want to tell me.

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    Brooke,

    Appreciate your comments. I know your kidding. And I also know I need to be kidded.. Hey, we are here to have fun and dialogue.

    I appreciate your opinions...But I also have to say I do not have undeniable irrefutable evidence that all dancers are human. I did watch My Stepmother is an Alien....And that is why I count nipples.

    Thanks for the serious replies Bridgette and Gynger.. I will have to go solicit some new talent.. must be the 7 dance itch.

    Jay Zeno, maybe that's the feeling I am talking about.


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    Default Re:I've lost my MOJO- Seriously.

    My bad Gynger. Didn't mean to be disrespectful, just sounded strange for a minute.


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    nope Sandi, it didn't. I can see where someone would have gotten confused with how I phrased it. My club serves food, I would never dine with a customer outside the club. We are told that we can not do so as it implies the solicitation clause.


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