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    I gave my couple lap dances at a party last night my problem is that i like to kiss when i lap dance i relize i can not kiss customers how to you girls stop from doing this. also what do you do when you find you are actully into you custmer.
    please help i need input thank you ; ???

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    I'm prob not the right one to respond. I find kissing during LDs gross. For some reason, I feel asexual when I am stripping, I don't feel turned on by any of the customers (not to say I don't enjoy having them though).

    Thing is, if you don't want to kiss when you know you shouldn't then don't. It's pretty simple and disciplined. Not only will it possibly aggravate your colleagues, but you don't wanna catch crap from strangers (bleuch!!).

    When I work, I am not attracted to customers like that. If you are just ''highschool crushing'' on a customer which might be likely, then don't risk your job doing stuff with them in the club, and for your safety, outside. If you can handle it, then use that sexual attractiveness and energy to get the money from the man. If I found a customer cute, I could roleplay better as there is a bit o chemistry; it makes the fantasy more believable and will probably help you dissolve your feelings to some extent and help your income.

    However, if you're majorly falling for a customer head over heels, just be careful. Sometimes girls also make the mistake of falling into the fantasy too, feeling that their dream customer is ''da man'' so to speak. Just try and keep real about it.

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    I wouldn't recommend kissing strange boys. Who knows where they have been !?!

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    eewww!!! ok i am also definitely not the right girl to ask since i am totally grossed out by my customers....yep pretty much all of em! but if u cant control the kissing urge i would remind myself that u could catch lots of heat from your co-workers if they see ya kissin clients.
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    i don't know... i'm probably not the right one to ask either, but i agree with the other girls... kissing is a no-no for several reasons. be mature enough to fight the urge.

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    how can you LIKE to kiss middle aged men with stinky beer breath? yucckkk

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    I enjoy lap dances, but I do not want to kiss the lady. If she is kissing everyone in the place who knows what you could catch. Just stick to the dance.
    "I don't know about you, but I'm going to get my kicks before the whole shithouse goes up in flames" Jim Morrison

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    Kissing customers is disgusting. I only have one customer I kiss, and it's just a peck. And I really enjoy his company, and am not grossed out by him.

    Something else that I find totally gross is when doing double dances, sometimes the other girl tries to kiss me. This happens so frequently during these, and I guess they feel comfortable doing it because we work together, but I'm totally not into it. Happens nearly every time though.
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    hi thanks for all your input i never expected to find out that no one else has this problem but I can see your point 1st i never actully thought about how gross that could be plus some said me mature enough not to do that i think thats a very vaild point i think i will be okay with this issue thank you. if any one else has a comment feel free to add.

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    I went out to another club last night looking for one of my ATF...she usually works...turns out she caught and passed mono onto...several customers and two dancers that she had a "girl-on-girl" session with on stage. This isnt always the case for everyone but hearing that new last night kinda made me not want to kiss anyone...
    Besides when kissing a customer not only you kissing them, you are probably kissing their wife, who kissed her children, who kissed their dog, whom of course just got done licking his balls and his butt.
    Just a thought anywho...have fun dancing!!!

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    I am also asexual when giving dances! I don't ever find customers attractive, especially not enough to kiss them! blach! I am usually thinking about the things I need to do tomorrow or my grocery list, I don't even mean to!! Just don't do it, it's gross!


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    YUCK!
    Ok, I have LOST customers to other girls that did kiss them and the ones that kissed them were nasty! No way I would put my mouth on some sstrange old pervert!
    We had this 1 girl that would always suck on customer's ears and NO girls would go in the back for dances with customers that went back with her - she had the most foul breath ever and when her customers came out of the cd room, their ears stunk! Weird, but our whole club knew about it.

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    The only kisses I give to my customers are on the cheek...and it's never even a full lips on cheek peck...more like the European cheek to cheek kiss. But, to each their own...PoleKitten...nice description...I just about spewed my water out of my nose reading that...LOL

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    I've had girls pretend kiss me during a lap dance.They would come in close like they wanted to kiss then stop real close.Kind of like that game with the invisable barrier...see how close you can get without touching.Eskimo kisses are nice.Forehead to forehead is also sweet.I suppose you would have to trust the person not to kiss you though,lol....

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    Polekitten.. LOL... Great way of looking at it! And absolutely true, too..

    I never had the urge to kiss a man while dancing for him. Hell, I don't even kiss my hubby when he gives me money.

    To me, it was always a job. If I had worked at McDonald's, I wouldn't have kissed every customer that supersized their fries either.


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    EWWW.. Nope, not the right one to ask either!

    But, I do the eskimo kiss thing, but not with just anyone.

    Polekitten, you always have such a way with words! I love it! LOL...


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    I suppose I'm a wrong person to ask, too, but as a customer I pretty much won't go the the Champagne Room with anyone I haven't kissed (or who doesn't seem likely to). It's sort of one of my bottom-line requirements. And I'm sure the initiator of this thread will agree that, contrary to what some people have asserted, it's not only skanks who do it.

    But don't think I'm unsympathetic. I suppose that if I were you guys (uh, gals), I'd find it pretty gross to kiss someone like me, too.

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    Maybe it's just me... but - ick- I don't see why you'd have an urge to make out with customers!?!

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    Well (he said defensively), I generally don't drink beer at the clubs, I keep breath mints handy, and I strive to be well-behaved and not a pervert (please don't roll your eyes like that).

    Some dancers, not many (I've met maybe two), take some enjoyment in the sensuous interactions of their job. Assuming that the customer isn't repulsive (evidently, according to the comments, in some places, they're all repulsive), such dancers, who can be very nice girls, enjoy a level of faux romantic interplay.

    But it's not a good idea. On the rare occasion when a dancer I don't know has looked to kiss me, I'm wondering where she's been (oh, I'm the 30th guy she's kissed today - how appealing) and I'm wondering why she doesn't wonder where I've been.

    (I do notice that there's any number of dancers who would never ever kiss me, which is perfectly fine, but they don't mind taking a dollar bill that has been God knows where and sticking it in my mouth. A bit of a double standard there, no?)

    There's a couple of dancers over my several-year club career whom I've come to know personally. If they were to kiss me, I might not think so deeply about it, any more than I'd accept a kiss from a personal lady friend outside the club. (Perhaps those would be different types of kisses, though.)

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    Pole Kitten! lolololololol! That is the most hilarious, yet true way of looking at it!


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    Quote Originally Posted by PoleKitten21 link=board=25;threadid=8743;start=msg102980#msg102 980 date=1083266557
    I went out to another club last night looking for one of my ATF...she usually works...turns out she caught and passed mono onto...several customers and two dancers that she had a "girl-on-girl" session with on stage. This isnt always the case for everyone but hearing that new last night kinda made me not want to kiss anyone...
    Besides when kissing a customer not only you kissing them, you are probably kissing their wife, who kissed her children, who kissed their dog, whom of course just got done licking his balls and his butt
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    Just a thought anywho...have fun dancing!!!

    Hahahah--OMG--ahaha, that is absolutely hilarious and TRUE! Are we talking about kisses of the French kind? Ouch. Air kisses and hugs, or curtsies are plenty enough for me. Now, kissing a cute girl--well, it's better than kissing a guy. hehe

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    Why would you want to kiss customers anyway? That is straight up nasty! You are there to perform and mind f*ck guys out of $$, but don't subject yourself to the cootie's in the heat of your "moment". You certainly should be mature enough to know the difference between kissing a customer or being on top of Tom Cruise and trying to fight your urge. If a girl is caught kissing anyone at my club, you are fired. No questions asked. It is taken as a form of prostitution in my city.



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    Why wouold you WANT to kiss some strange guy? Sick!!! Not to be mean...well kind of..... but if you are that sexually frustrated, then you need to rush out, buy a vibrator, and take care of some of that b4 work.

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    if you want to incorporate kissing into your dance maybe try kissing your fingers and then putting them on their lips or forehead,etc

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    I see all your points but sometimes passion wins out over hygene. If you like kissing your customers and they are willing, do it. I'm sure its not every customer anway, just the ones that it seems right when you do it. I was completely wasted and mesmerized by my fave when i first got a dance from her and my mouth was open a bit so she leaned down close and for what ever reaon kissed me on the lower lip which prompted me to stick out my tounge a bit and then she slowly flicked her tounge on mine and then kissed me full on the lips. If its part of her routine it sure hooked me. Do what you feel comfortable with and that helps you make money.

    WTF-kissing is prostitution somewhere? What city is that so I can stay away...probably cut my head off for getting high.

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