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    Hello there! I've looked through the Newbie Forums and have found a WEALTH of information that I will never be able to thank you enough for! I still have a few questions though that mostly relate to me personally.

    I have gone to all the clubs in my area (I'm pretty sure I hit them all, lol) and have a pretty good idea of what to expect. I have no problems with public nudity nor 6" heels as I frequent a bar where me and a couple of the waitresses 'liven up' a dead Saturday night. lol. (Hey I get something for it, I party for free.) I've also been told that I am a 'natural' flirt. I never knew it was flirting, I thought it was being friendly. So I think I have the right mind-set and attitude. **hopes**

    So here are my questions:

    At almost every club I went to the average height of the girls is about 5'4" with only about 2 being 5'6". I'm 5'7" and in 6" heels I'm over 6'. None of the guys at the bars mind, but I'm not sure customers would find that ok. What do you think?

    Secondly, I don't have much in the way of 'curves' per se. I'm VERY short waisted and although my stomach is flat, it's not the hourglass shape that all you lovely ladies have. Are there any exercise I can do to bring it in on the sides?

    Thirdly, because I am short-waisted, I have freakishly long legs. I have a 32" inseam with my legs making up about 37" of my height. Do you think that will help compensate for only being a B cup? Or would it be a turn-off since I'm out of proportion?

    BTW my measurements are 36B-27-36.

    Any assistance would be greatly appreciated!
    Thanks in advance!!!

    Synnove
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    Ok...I've said this before and I'll say it again. Men love all types of women. You being taller than the other girls is a nice way to stand out. Long legs? Are you kidding? Men go crazy over long legs!! Legs for days are totally in!! Some men LOVE the "runway model" look. Use it to your advantage!!

    I am 5'6", so with my heels, I am about 6'. I had a guy tell me that he thought I was so beautiful, perfect body...but just too tall for him so he didn't want to buy a dance. WTF? I asked him if I was 6" shorter, would he buy a dance...of course, was his answer...so I took off my damn shoes and got me 4 dances!! Men can be extremely picky sometimes...and sometimes that works totally in your favor.

    If you have confidence in your body, then you will do fine. Men love the confidence more than anything. Just get up on stage...move your sexy body and you'll get dances.

    Happy dancing!!

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    I may be new also, but i've been to clubs...and I can't even think of an example where long long legs would be a bad thing! Trust me!

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    Hey Hon,

    You sound like you'll do very well. I'm 5'3", about 117 lbs and danced for 11 years. I'm newly "officially" retired from the stage to concentrate on other things. My small size never affected my earnings, and I'm sure your tallness won't affect yours at all either.

    My torso is extremely short, my height is all in my legs, so I know where you're coming from.. LOL

    Your measurements seem very well proportionate, I wouldn't worry at all hon.


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    Thanks for the vote of confidence girls! I don't have any female friends that I felt would be able to give me an honest answer. I have mostly male friends and hell, you know how men are, LOL!

    Thanks again!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Synnove link=board=25;threadid=8755;start=msg103092#msg103 092 date=1083275919
    Thanks for the vote of confidence girls! I don't have any female friends that I felt would be able to give me an honest answer. I have mostly male friends and hell, you know how men are, LOL!

    Thanks again!
    Synnove
    LOL I hear ya, girl. I have 2 Best Girlfriends that I've had since the sixth grade (Going Wayyyyyyyy back now.. lol). We were 3 girls who hung out with a ton of guys. I never got along with any other females. They didn't like me, and I didn't like them. I can be sociable with women, of course, but I don't have any that are friends.

    My best best-friend is a guy, though. Ironically though, I met him on AOL about 8 years ago, and we've been close since the beginning.




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    i have no problems..im almost 5'8 with out the heels...so when i put them on im really tall..but on stage it makes my legs look nice and long!! and guys love that!


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    I'm 5'11" without my shoes...and range from 6'5"~6'7 in my shoes! Still haven't gotten complaints... Just comments here & there usually along the lines of "oooh - you're a tall one". *dumbass giggle from customer* LOL!

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    We have almost identical measurements other than the crazy inseam length!

    I honestly think it's all in how you present yourself. Men love women. I haven't really witnessed bust size or height be a deciding factor in how well a woman does.



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    My inseam has always been a problem. But things are getting better nowadays. I used to have to either wear mens pants (which is just oh-so-sexy, LOL) or look like Urkel.

    Thanks for the help!
    I may have put the oron in moron, but I didn't put the upid in dumb.

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    I'm 5'7ish too. In one of my old clubs there was a girl who was 5'11 and she wore i think 7' shoes, the guys loved her, she towered over most too. She definitly did very well.

    When I waitressed and only wore 3inch heels I still would be much taller than some of the dancers who were wearing their 6+ inch shoes.

    I dont' think your height thing would be an issue - just make sure you are confident about it!


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    We have the same measurements! Wish I had the long legs too. I use one of those exercise balls to do my sittups, pilates on the ball really trims the waist, quickly too!

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    Thanks for all the advice gals! Czarina, thanks for the tip!! I will definately check that out.
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