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    Hi,
    I was just curious . I have small boobs, i am considerd very pretty, nice legs and butt. I have a problem though, i have lose confidence on stage because of my breast size. Off stage im fine. I know this question has been asked before but, how much do they matter? Just wondering... Thanks

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    a ton of girls at my clubs have no tits to speak of. and a ton of these same girls are in the top third for making money.

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    It's not the dancers boobs that makes her money it's how you make a guy feel.
    "The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy."

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    I was just thinking because of your post.So I thought I'd share.
    I used to be a -AAA bra size.Then I FINALLY got implants.But...I still find myself dancing with my but facing the men because that's what I had to work with.
    I do make more $ now.But don't feel insecure if they are small.Chances are you have more than I did.I have seen all shapes and sizes of women over the years and the customers don't seem to mind.It's all good!

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    Butt size matters alot more then Boob size...
    (trust me I should know...
    34" D .. and my pants size is a 1"!)
    show off your best features and you'll be fine!

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    Lola, first there's no reason whatsoever to feel "inadequate" in the boob department. Just like butts, legs, etc. there are guys who like them small as well as guys who like them big.

    As far as potential impact on dancing income, this is dependent in large measure on the "club culture" in your local area, as well as the typical cross section of dancers in your area who you must compete against for customer attention and money. There are show clubs in some areas where implants seem to be everywhere i.e. NYC, Vegas, Atlanta, such that having really small breasts might pose a small obstacle to getting hired. However, there are lots more areas where breast size plays a much smaller role in getting hired and earning decent money. Larger implanted breasts can also turn out to be worse than small natural ones income wise, particularly if the 'boob job' results didn't turn out all that well from a cosmetic standpoint.

    If you are contemplating implants, do NOT make this decision based on potential income increase - it's a very personal decision which should be made based on your own self-image etc. with no consideration to financial matters or the potential opinions of others.

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    Melonie said it all....good thoughts.
    it's hard if you're surrounded by those w/ implants. but as mentioned before guys like all sizes. confidence is what matters. strut yo stuff and if you believe in it, they will.

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    Lola,

    From a guys perspective, Dont let this play on your mind. You have to remember Guys, beer, pretty naked girls, ect. They are not thinking about the size of your boobs guys could care less about size just as long as they get to see them.

    Let me ask you a question. What do you think the average attention span of any guy that has had 2-3 beers is?

    Probably about 30 seconds and in that 30 seconds do you really think they are contemplating the size of your boobs. I dont think so guys are too busy looking around trying to figure out what they may be missing ie: another pretty naked girl walking by or onstage ect. So dont think nothing of it let alone let it play on your own self confidence.

    As you stated you are OK outside of work and thats all that matters right? It is only a job. Oh and about the attention span thing i mentioned earlier in this post I would like to change the time factor on that from 30 seconds to The length of 1 song. haha

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    Yeah, out of all the guys that go to stripclubs, maybe one or two of them will really care about the size of your breasts. If you are happy with the way they look, others will be, too! I have found that self-confidence has a way of grating on other people, to the point where if you have it, they consider you a goddess!

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    Hey Lola!!

    Just wanted to let you know that there are a LOT of guys out there that prefer smaller boobs. I will search through a club for the girl with the smallest boobs, that's the one I want a dance from.

    Society unfortunately has decided that to be sexy a girl has to be:
    1. Tall 2. Blond 3. with Big Tits I don't agree.

    Myself and I am sure many others guys prefer short, petite, brunetts, blonds, or redheads with small boobs. Proportion is what really matters. No offense to any of the well-endowed ladies out there, but I big, especially fake, boobs do nothing for me.

    I spent some time with a girl in Honolulu awhile back with tiny boobs, I asked her if they were "a-cups", she laughed and said that they are more like an "a-minus"!!!
    I thought they were incredible!

    One theory would say you should look around for a club with smaller "girl-next-door" types that you would blend in better with. But if you are dancing in a club with mostly larger, fake boobs you will be unique and would appeal to a customer like me and probably do very well.

    Hope this helps, I am sure you are very sexy!!!
    Good Luck, John

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    sexiiqt123 was right
    "Butt size matters alot more then Boob size...."
    I myself like natuaral breasts, but I like a girl with a nice but first and foremost.
    "I don't know about you, but I'm going to get my kicks before the whole shithouse goes up in flames" Jim Morrison

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    John,
    what you said is super, super cool! that probably made my day (being an A-cup myself.....).
    Thank you!!!

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    Boob size doesn't matter. Proportion matters. Your attitude matters. A woman's smile and eyes matter. Don't worry about it.

    Good luck,
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    Thanks Giselle!! I appreciate the nice comment

    It really bother me when girls lose confidence because they have small boobs. I don't think here is anything sexier than a well-proportioned petite girl with a GREAT BIG SMILE!! :smiley:

    Yes, attitude and cofidence makes all the difference.
    If ya got, you'll do great.

    You know, ther haven't been any post to the "boobie pic" thread in awhile, sure wish some of you "smaller" girls would make some contributions :wink: It sure would make my day!!

    Heres to TINY BOOBIES!!!

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    Heres to TINY BOOBIES!!!
    While I admire your sentiment, there IS something to be said for big boobies also !

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    On the same note: Why do guys prefer blondes over redheads or brunettes? I mean, I'm a redhead and it seems to be that no matter how hard I try sometimes guys will respond more to a blonde's request for a dance than mine or a girl with darker hair.
    What's up with that?

    I think melonie summed it up nicely in regards to the boob question. I know lots of guys who prefer smaller boobs.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Melonie link=board=27;threadid=8768;start=msg103611#msg103 611 date=1083379986
    Heres to TINY BOOBIES!!!
    While I admire your sentiment, there IS something to be said for big boobies also !
    Absolutely true, Melonie....If that's what your into, that's wonderful.
    I just think it is unfortunate that society is bombarded all day long with the notion that you have to be a tall, blond with big tits to be sexy. I just prefer a girl that is small and natural and I think sometimes you have to stand up for the little girl and let her know that she is appreciated as well!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gynger link=board=27;threadid=8768;start=msg103623#msg103 623 date=1083380875
    On the same note: Why do guys prefer blondes over redheads or brunettes? I mean, I'm a redhead and it seems to be that no matter how hard I try sometimes guys will respond more to a blonde's request for a dance than mine or a girl with darker hair.
    What's up with that?

    I think melonie summed it up nicely in regards to the boob question. I know lots of guys who prefer smaller boobs.
    I understand what you are saying Gynger, the blondes do tend to get more attention. Probably that damn society influence again! LOL

    I took me years, but I finally figured myself out:

    I lust after Blondes,
    I fall in love with Brunettes,
    But, I have a special place in my heart for Redheads,
    (I lost my virginity to a Redhead a long time ago).

    John

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    There is a common myth in this industry that larger is better. Many dancers attribute having implants equals more income and it's just not true. The reason why many dancers do start making more money after the surgery is because it can be a self-esteem booster, but the size itself has nothing to do with it. Attitude, personality, the ability to sell, and the overall package is what makes guys buy dances, not going from a A cup to a DD.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gynger link=board=27;threadid=8768;start=msg103623#msg103 623 date=1083380875
    On the same note: Why do guys prefer blondes over redheads or brunettes? I mean, I'm a redhead and it seems to be that no matter how hard I try sometimes guys will respond more to a blonde's request for a dance than mine or a girl with darker hair.
    What's up with that?.
    Personally I have a preference for brunettes or even black hair. As for why? I couldn't tell you But it is a minor thing. I like blondes and redheads too. Hmmm, I guess if I am at a club and I can pick any girl I want I am going to pick one that (for whatever reasons) most closely matches my fantasy fetish that night. In real life though hair color wouldn't make much difference to me if any. On the flip side, hair length makes a BIG difference to me. Why? Because I love running my fingers through a woman's LONG clean shiney hair. Short hair can be cute, but cute is just cute. Long hair is sexy Of course your going to find plenty of guys that prefer short hair, and plenty of girls that look smoking hot in short hair. Hair color, boob size, it is all just minor differences. Don't worry about. You can't be everything to everyone. Use what you have to your best advantage. All that aside, your attitude is the most important thing.



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    Quote Originally Posted by DancerWealth link=board=27;threadid=8768;start=msg103780#msg103 780 date=1083400915
    There is a common myth in this industry that larger is better. Many dancers attribute having implants equals more income and it's just not true. The reason why many dancers do start making more money after the surgery is because it can be a self-esteem booster, but the size itself has nothing to do with it. Attitude, personality, the ability to sell, and the overall package is what makes guys buy dances, not going from a A cup to a DD.
    I'd have to respond that under certain situations you are correct. However, in different situations you are not correct. If you were, there would have been no point of me shooting for a cup size in the second half of the alphabet.

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