<< that's how I like my dancesOriginally Posted by kitana link=board=8;threadid=8807;start=msg122097#msg1220 97 date=1087224356
I need to cool off after that



<< that's how I like my dancesOriginally Posted by kitana link=board=8;threadid=8807;start=msg122097#msg1220 97 date=1087224356
I need to cool off after that
Start off slow, take your time. As the song goes, build up the intensity. In my honest opinion, the BEST way to get multiple dances is to get closest to him just at the very end of the song. If a guy has super hot girl on top of him, acting like she's about to orgasm, saying "you're not really gonna make me stop now, are you?" is he going to say no and tell her to get off of him?! I don't think so!!
"You did then what you knew how to do; when you knew better, you did better" ~Maya Angelou
Be playful, make it fun. No dirty talk or other phoney crap, that really turns me off.
Friends Of Naked Dancing Ladies (FONDL)
What's good? I guess I'm all about foreplay.
if we've seen each other before, when you see me, give me a great big smile, a great big hug, act like you've missed me and it's great to see me again
eye contact like you're having fun and enjoy my company. (one time, I met a dancer that I thought would be fun to be with until she danced for me. She looked at herself in the mirror the whole time. I got the impression she wanted some privacy.... with herself. lol)
take my hands and guide them to do whatever you are ok with, doesn't matter what
slow light kisses on my face, total turn on
whisper in my ear
tell me what you like. for those of us that think of you and treat you like ladies, take the lead sometimes
before starting the dance in the lap, do a little "normal date dancing" with me, just turn around, snuggle up to me and start dancing when I'm standing up before I sit down. If I've sat down, take my hands and stand me up
acting like you are hot and turned on after spending some fun time together, this can only be done after time. If it comes too fast, I know it's not sincere. If it comes later, it may be sincere, it might not, but it's fun to think it's sincere.
there's 5 moods, fun, romantic, passionate, horny(I want you now), fantasy and I want to please you. take your pick
above all else, just be yourself and have fun


Getting a Lap dance for me is a great feeling. I Love them. I love them with a pretty dancer on my Lap who enjoys her work and enjoys seeing that I am happy with her. I Love the Legs. I am a Leg Man so a good carressing of the legs is important to me. Hair, is nice Long flowing hair, nice smell and some pretty manicured and maintained fingernails. I Love her wearing a Garter with Money in the Garter. Her Looking directly at me into my eyes mesermizng me with her beauty. Her knowing her power over my senses because of her beauty, knowing that she will be getting money from me. And to finish the Dance with a climax that just feels so good as she watches me staring into my eyes at that moment with her enjoying her work that she has done. Then to finish it off with her reaching into my Wallet and taking the money from my Wallet that she should have. To me, that is a great Lap Dance and the way I like them. IO had a few like this and I always strive for to find it.

<<<Oh gosh jeans hurt!!!!!>>>
Try taking your costume and putting it over his jeans.
Or buy a sarong that you can lay over him.
A great lapdance (lol)! What I love to do is to get my friends to give me LDs so I can pick up tips and incorporate them into my dances.
I think it's important to work on your 'look' in a LD more than all your moves (although that is important also). If it gets too acrobatic, then that will inevitable become the main focus of your dance, and it will get boring/repetitive when you run out of moves. However, if you have the eyes/smile/talk, that can keep a man mesmerised for a lot longer. I swear, my dances are as simple as Jane, but that's not what gets me repeat dances when I put my mind to it....![]()
You are the envy
of all parallel lines that
dream of curves and convergence
- Sara Bailey: Sieve of Words
Nibbling on my ear and neck is a definite turn-on.
I know this may sound weird, but my ATF will lick from the tip of my nose to the top of my forehead.





*Edit*
Ok let me describe this a little better, lol....
How about leaning foward to him really close to his lips, as if you were about nearly kiss him on the lips. And then move your face away when you get close, slowly, gently breathing down to his neck & rubbing it with the tip of your nose kind of. Then go back up the same motion & gently blow in his ear. And MAYBE, licking the ear lobe just a tad?
Is this good enough? Licking the ear lobe too much, is it crossing it?
And when is it a better time to do this, after or before the conversation?
Vyanka-I like it before the dance...its like foreplay. Also if the guy has nice lobes try sucking them during your dance...it can be a huge turn-on.





Got it thanks!!Originally Posted by goldclubbing link=board=8;threadid=8807;start=msg165075#msg1650 75 date=1093625512
But I think sucking could be a bit personal no?
I guess it depends on the guy and what your comfortable with...but its just an earlobe...and it keeps the guys attention.





eh, I guess.Originally Posted by goldclubbing link=board=8;threadid=8807;start=msg165298#msg1652 98 date=1093644277
I mean i'd lick it, but sucking i'm not sure.
How about for an extra $100?
Just kidding.





hahaha, ok now you got me sucking on that ear lobe like if there was honey on it. jkOriginally Posted by goldclubbing link=board=8;threadid=8807;start=msg165309#msg1653 09 date=1093645520
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I think I already have the stripper mentality. Thanks for helping me out Golds, hee hee.
If you don't fancy the idea of licking the earlobe, then why not just blow into the guy's ear? It sends chills down their spine just the same.
You are the envy
of all parallel lines that
dream of curves and convergence
- Sara Bailey: Sieve of Words





That's what I was thinking too. I rather blow the ear, then lick it.Originally Posted by Malibu link=board=8;threadid=8807;start=msg166765#msg1667 65 date=1093859862
I think eye-to-eye seduction is a great turn-on. Dont spend half of the lap dance time explaining the Club and State rules for not touching.....just say touch everywhere except here!
I know guys cant touch this....but can you touch that? Do it and tell him/her what are you doing. Before you lap dance, get confident with the person. A little intimate conversation helps. And this actually happened to me in Norfolk a month ago.....dont do lapdances when you are in your period.... please!
It's TOO BAD SHE'LL won't LAST, BUT then again WHO DOES!?




The "trick" or technique that I enjoy and which keeps me having "just one more" for a long time is gradual escalation. In other words, however sexy or permissive or intimate the first dance is, I will pretty quickly lose the intense level of interest that keeps me buying if the 2nd, 3rd, 4th... is just like it, but if each one seems to provide just a bit more or different tease and stimulation than the previous one, it tends to really keep me curious and hooked. The "what will she do next time" feeling is very seductive.
From the dancer's side of the table, I guess this means not pulling out all the stops and giving him your best shot the first time...or indeed on any early dance. Of course, it has to be good enough that the customer will want a second one, but then gradually add new elements or varied styles with each additional dance. If you can create a sense of building sexual excitement, it feels like foreplay and much more personal/real, but if each dance is pretty much identical to the previous ones, it feels mechanical and impersonal.
-Ww
"At this moment what more need we seek?
As the Truth eternally reveals itself,
This very place is the Lotus Land of Purity,
This very body is the Body of the Buddha."
- Zazen Wasan





Here's a trick that a few girls have pulled that really works on me.
Usually early into the second song (dancers generally know a guy likes her performance if he buys a second dance), the dancer will put on her seductive eyes, look me in the face and ask a question along the lines of:
"So what turns you on about a woman, boobs? ass?"
Once the customer has given his answer, from that point forward, the dancer will give intermittent periods of emphasis on whatever part of her body the customer chose, usually with an extra intense dosage right before the end of the song.
Never be afraid to do some clever information gathering as you work. Stuff likes this makes the dance feel like it is more personal, and that you're not just giving him some clinical boring routine.
Former SCJ now in rehab.





Hmm thats a nice one to consider asking Dog catfish. I didnt know guys cared to be asked that question. I always felt it was general. But, I guess it helps then I'm doin it.


Her eyes . . . ..
If she constantly looks at you, the feeling of her actually being interested makes it so much better. The ones that look away, or wave to their friends (that sucks so much) are the ones to keep away from.
Keep looking at the guys........
My last girl melted in the sun

I hate to quote Britney, but "Breathe On Me."
It's surprisingly hard to do, it seems. I've had some girls get close to my ear, and start this deep wheezing, like a sprinter after a race. Others actually blow, and all that does is make it sound like a news reporter trying to broadcast in a hurricane.
The key is...to now quote Whitney, just exhale. Especially a deep, long breath. Don't blow, just let it flow out. Of course, you have to be close, but this is a lap dance, so proximity shouldn't be a problem. The breath will be warm (even hot) on his neck, and if you do it just right, he may not be able to know if you're touching him or not.
Other than that, the other suggestions on this thread (particularly asking) are great. But I've got to admit, one of my favorite dances of all time was in one of the private rooms at Lil' Darlings. It wasn't too much grinding, but a bit of conversation, a lot of joking around and laughing, and just random stuff (She did some 'Vogue' posing, made faces, so forth). It was great stuff. But I'm weird.
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