Hi All,
Okay I am having a hard time. This weekend I spent time with my sweetie. Lately we have only been seeing each other on the weekends cause i work and so does he and he lives about 25-30 minutes away from me and I work from 2-10 and works 8-5. So its like we phone date and see each other on the weekend which is still okay...
But this weekend I was really pumped to see him and we had a date for Friday and he comes and gets me and I took all day to prep for the date went and got my toes and nails done had my eyebrows done even fit into my j-lo pants so i was feelin good then i get in his car and he doesn't say not one word.
Then we go for pizza and he then says something about how pretty i looked but I just felt like he doesn't want to be with me or something? So i spend the night and things are going good. Then we have breakfest and he is black and he asks about Puerto Rico and i tell him and i tell him how here they trip about interacial couples and there its so laid back. So he says he prefers to date black women. And I said um okya i am Puerto Rican and ever since he said that i was totally turned off. LIke I felt very insecure with every black girl that walked by us. He took me to Reno and even gave me 60 dollars to gameble but i wanted to come home cause he made me feel like shit and ugly and fat. I told him that he makes me feel like i am low and he is high and he was like WOW REALLY! Said it hurt his heart and that put him in check to treat me better but I don't know I am just not feeling it anymore. Like ever since then it too the wind out of my sail?
Please help waht do you guys think? I really love him but is this normal?




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I was a little taken back when he said that, but when I later brought it up, he was shocked that I took it that way.
So I just dyed it back to my natural color, and its still growing out, but I will never go back again.
Dont worry too much. Sounds like you have a good guy.


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