This thread is in reaction to an incident my roomate observed -
She's a waitresses at an SC and the other night she watched this dancer working a guy. the guy was Mexican and spoke little English (I point this out to highlight how maybe cultural isolation contributed to this event) , and was obviously very drunk. With the stripper on his lap he starts to actually cry, telling her that he wants someone to love him. She says "Baby, I love you, come on, let's go to the VIP room" ($250 minimum to enter) They stand and he, still quite emotional and drunk, is still going on about how no one loves him, and he's thumping his chest and saying "I'm a man, I'm a man dammit!" She keeps reassuring him of his masculinity and pledging her love, all the while saying "Let's go to the VIP room, I'll show you how much i love you." My roommate DID NOT want to ring up $250 on this guy's card (not to mention whatever else she would have gotten from him once in the room) so she wouldn't ring him up -- of course the guy suddenly thinks that my roomie is somehow trying to screw him so someone else rushes over to ring the sale. Away they go, into the VIP room.
Bear in mind that throughout this the guy is crying and talking about how no one loves him and still thumping his chest - does anyone else have a problem with this? Yes, there's working a guy for money, but there is a line between doing your thing well and manipulating someone who is obviously imparied (in more ways than one) - in my eyes what she did was worse than reaching into his pocket and stealing the money
Am I being ignorant here? (as I have been elsewhere- lol) And this post was partly inspired by reading someone's profile - I thought it said they like to trick drunk guys out of their money but when I reread it I didn't see the word "trick" so maybe I read it wrong the first time.



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