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    Lately my mom has been holding back on her support for me and my training.

    She use to train me and help me with anything I need and lately she has been holding back due to me being with my boyfriend she doesn't care for him to much. But I was just talking to her today and she doesn't seem to really care so how do you guys stay motivated and focus?

    I am losing sight of everything lately! I know I came a long way but man its been really hard lately!
    Love Yourself Like Nobody Else Could Then you will have that everlasting love we all search for!

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    Honey,

    Dont let it get you down. I know how it is. Being hispanic, I know how hispanics can be prejudiced against EACH OTHER as well. (this one hates that one, etc)

    It takes a while to accept, I guess. Some of my family is a little "behind on the times" but you cant always blame them as they were raised that way. my great grandmother is 98 and thinks people should stick to their own, however, she doesnt HATE. My cousin married a Filipino, and shes cool about it, just that at first she was skeptical. It takes time to adjust and get used to for them since they are old fashioned.
    I think that once your mom realized that your bf is a good guy, she will start to open up. It takes time... But good luck and just work on yourself and him. Thats all you need to focus on right now.
    Good luck

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    Why doesn't your mom like your boyfriend? You may want to consider her reasonings. I used to always ignore my mom when she told me her likes/dislikes about my past boyfriends. The thing is, since she is on the outside looking in, it was easier for her to see the flaws that I was missing. Of course, it is your life and you need to live it how you want, but maybe giving mom's views some consideration may help you out.

    If you feel that she is completely off base, then sometimes we need to let go of our parents and live our lives the way that we feel they should be lived. The person that you really need support from is you. If you do not support/love/value yourself...no matter how many other people do, you will still never feel that support.

    Take care of yourself.

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    You said you are losing site of your goal if that means becoming a stripper please don't give up you can do it i have been wanting to be a stripper for a verry long time i have been so afraid to take the plunge i keep my body up real nice and now tomorow night i will go to the club and dance for the very very first time i could not be happier with myself hang in there girl you can do it. Lots of luck

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