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    My first day as a dancer is next Wednesday. Aside from a couple of drunk nights with my fiance (lol) I have never given a lap dance. My guy is 1,000 miles away right now and I don't particularly want my male friends to know what I'm doing, so I guess I'm just going to go with the flow. My club has a no contact policy, so I'll have to see what the other girls do to keep the customers coming back for more.

    This question is for all you "pros"...what was your first table/lap dance like? Had you practiced? Were you nervous? I'd love to hear your story!

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    I was so nervous, I thought I would fall over!! My first lap dance was kind of awkward as I wasn't too sure of what to do...and because I was nervous. Usually, though, the customers can tell a newbie, so they'll be nice to you. Whatever you do...do NOT believe them when they want to do something that they shouldn't and then tell you that "the other dancers do it." Most of the time its just a ploy to get you to do it...and even if its not...you don't want to be known as one of the "dirty girls".

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    i just did my first lap dances this weekend ahhhhhhhhh oh my god i was scared but i found its no big deal just get on them grind like you fucking my custmers moan ans shit i was not expecting that, one drunk guy made it threw half a dance and got becuse he had to puke that was funny. good luck

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    Thanks for the advice, VenusGoddess. I'll be sure and keep my hands- and, um, my other parts, clean. lol

    Krchab, I'm glad your customer didn't throw up ON you! Wow! I wish it was as easy as grinding on them at my club, as I have been dry-humping since I was 15 (haha) and could do that... but we are a no- contact club, so the only thing I'll be allowed to do is touch their face/hair/arms, or lean back on their chest facing away from them.
    I tried practicing, but boy, I sure feel lame giving my sexiest look to an empty couch. Oh well.

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    Default Re:Your first time.....

    there was a new girl at my club a few months ago who had a customer throw up on her on her very first night during her very first lap dance. :o she must have taken it as a sign because we never saw her again.

    during my first lap dance it was almost totally air and the brief moment i DID sit on the guys lap he got a hard on and i felt it and i almost DIED of shock. i also limited guys to one dance each, and when one guy said he didnt have just $15 that he only had some $20s and a $10 and would just have to get another dance instead of getting change i was SO ANNOYED. finally another girl took me aside and gave me a lapdance so i could learn what it was like. to this day i am more than happy to do the same for any new girl and im sure you can find someone at your club who is just as nice

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    I was fortunate to get eased into it. . .sorta. The club was all nude with no contact. The first time I went on stage, I was not expecting to go at that moment. I was unshaven and I had no underwear. That freaked my chubby little ass out!

    OTOH, I gave strictly air dances for months. So the fist time I gave an actual LD, it was no biggie because I had been stripping for months.
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    LOL Juliette! I have known for 2 weeks that I have to go onstage Wednesday, and my chubby ass is freaked out anyway! I can't imagine being stuck onstage with no underwear and leg stubble. I'm glad to hear it gets easier after awhile, though.

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    OMG I was so nervous. The guy was super hot too. Like every new dancer the guy totally took advantage of my time and I talked to him for like 45 minutes to get one stupid dance. The song was "Waiting for Tonight" by Jenifer Lopez. He said something like "God your boobs are huge" and feeling another guy's hard on was like such a werid feeling considering I'm in a relationship. But yeah I was like omg when is this song going to end it seemed to take forever. I was totally shaking.

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    Default Re:Your first time.....

    I started out in my first club super confident but when it came to lap dancers I was totally lost! It was painful. But then I watched the other girls and asked the guys what they liked (I told them I was new)

    After a while I just learned what I am comfortable with, how to time myself, how to sell a second, etc.

    It can be pretty boring after a while, but you fake like you are really enjoying yourself. Move slowly and just let em look at you. Built up those thigh muscles!

    You'll get the hang of it. Just like sex, you don't have to be perfect at all you just have to have fun and be into it.
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    my first lap dance was alittle awkward because i wasnt in very good shape and i was breathing kinda hard, but it went fine. I think going on stage was more weird for me, I look back and i think how the hell did i let myself look like such a geek? But you live and learn and the men start dropping to their knees in your presence (overstatement) .
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