Darkness, you consider this a CHALLENGING question?
Ok, if you say so!
Darkness, you consider this a CHALLENGING question?
Ok, if you say so!
Girls that claim they hate their job probably just hate it when they are having bad days but when they say it it comes off that they hate it all the time. I love my job, i just dislike some of the dirty creatures i come across once in awhile. But for the most part, i love to be NAKED!!!!! its fun, i think i look terrible in clothes! lol
Few people understand the psychology of dealing with a highway traffic cop. Your normal speeder will panic and immediately pull over to the side. This is wrong. It arouses contempt in the cop-heart. Make the bastard chase you. He will follow. Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas
darkness, take it from me....you are not allowed to disagree with 9 out of 10 of these girls, you are not allowed to have your own opinion, and u are not allowed to defend yourself when insulted and referred to as a man or (in my case) a bitch. (see venus post) anyways if you DARE to have your own view on things and then HAVE THE NERVE to post it they will all gang up on you and run crying to pryce until she or he throws u off the site for standing up for yourself. so either let them call u whatever they want or else stay off. otherwise u will be thrown off. these girls dont want anyone to have the right to their opinion unless it is THIER OPINIONS...get it? anyways if u need to vent feel free to email me....if u do it on the open forum they will "tell on you". lol lol![]()
"And when your'e crawling over broken glass to get to me, thats when I'll let you stay." -me
their. sp check.
"And when your'e crawling over broken glass to get to me, thats when I'll let you stay." -me
LOL.....Gotta love the drama
But I understand what you mean, Lexi.
I always imagine the money rolling in.....Think of the money....
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--Georg Christoph Litchenberg





darkness do you allow the guys to touch your pussy? Personally, I don't because:
A) the kitty is reserved for only one guy
B) I don't know where PL's hands have been
C) I never knew pussy fondling was included in the price of a lap dance
eeewww, darkness, please tell us all that at least you didnt mean THAT when u said u do whatever?????? did u? I mean each to their own but......eeeewwww![]()
"And when your'e crawling over broken glass to get to me, thats when I'll let you stay." -me
Vegas, but instead of shutting up, you call venus a BITCH again. When the drama dies, you bring it back up. Oh well...its entertaining. lol
And its THERE! spell check. not their.![]()
actually it would be more of a Grammar check issue.
But lexi.. I do happen to agree with you!
DRAMA DRAMA DRAMA
Gosh guys,:
I personally think that everyone takes things too seriously on here sometimes. I read a lot of threads and I see a lot of questions getting raised to the level of sensitivity that wasn't originally intended. This is why I avoid a lot of threads that I normally know are gonna end up as flame wars.
I read it as this: Darkness said that a lot of people moan about their jobs. That is a general comment. In our jobs, guys will try it on, we all know that. She never said that she let guys finger her or otherwise. Nor did she say that the fact men try to get a free feel is OK. She just said that it happens and we're all aware of that and with that knowledge, we shouldn't moan about that all the time.
Now while some of you disagree, that's fine. She threw her opinion out as on open question. Not for an invitiation to get personally bashed! It seems like a bit of a gangwar for some people. None is saying that you're not entitle to your. She has given her view, you give yours. There's no need for anyone to get upset. If you're not too happy with the thread, ignore it and move on. All threads on SW have a lifespan and will die. No probs.
Anyways, I've said my piece. Gotta dash to uni...laters!![]()
You are the envy
of all parallel lines that
dream of curves and convergence
- Sara Bailey: Sieve of Words



It's 'cause darkness is historically a shit-stirrer and troll-like. (although this doesn't mean s/he IS a troll.)
Anyway, the argument of "if you don't like it, ignore it" is BS to the max because, hi, where would we be if we didn't challenge opinions and ideas and statements that we find distateful or offensive? Oh wait--we'd be barefoot and pregnant in the kitchen.
Oh, I'm not saying that people cannot challenge one another. It's when it turns into a situation where someone becomes a target of a flame war because your views clash. I don't think that there have been many people to answer what has been said constructively i.e. without adding aggression in their reply or insinuating a dislike for the person because of their views.Originally Posted by abadvi link=board=27;threadid=9079;start=msg108657#msg108 657 date=1084432899
Referring to ''if you don't like it, ignore it'', well, different strokes I guess. I normally ignore a lot of threads that personally I think aren't worth the emotion a lot of people put into them. In the end, the threads just vanish like they should have a long time ago. And I'm referring to threads here, not social situations so I think that your comment about being barefoot and pregnant in the kitchen jut proves to show how seriously every word being said is taken.
You are the envy
of all parallel lines that
dream of curves and convergence
- Sara Bailey: Sieve of Words





well, as far as my answers go, I wasn't trying to flame her or express a dislike of her. I offered genuine answers and brought up touching of genitalia because it happens all too frequently. The last question I asked, that was rhetorical I really don't expect (or even want) her to answer it. Nor do I care what the answer is. Some girls on the board maybe never experience guys constantly trying to paw their privates. Just trying to provoke some thought...![]()
HOLD ON!!!!!!!!!!!! I was not calling venus a bitch ....if you read carefully (or just read) i was telling darkness that VENUS CALLED ME A BITCH. which is why it says "they will call you names in your case a man in my case a bitch (see venus post) " I was letting her know that because venus didnt like what i said SHE CALLED ME A BITCH. I NEVER CALLED HER ONE. If I can at least refrain from stooping to some people's levels on here then i am happy. READ THE POST CORRECTLY BEFORE ACCUSING PEOPLE OF THINGS THEY HAVE NOT SAID...unless of course you (lexi) just enjoy attacking certain people (me) all of the time about everything they say then feel free to continue...i will work on continuing to ignore it.
"And when your'e crawling over broken glass to get to me, thats when I'll let you stay." -me
Originally Posted by vegasvixen1 link=board=27;threadid=9079;start=msg108519#msg108 519 date=1084408668
Well first of all.. women are catty.. everyone knows this.. BUT if your going to come to a womans message board you better be prepared to defend yourself.. and you better be damn good at shuting the other girl up... And why should they believe you? being around women so much YEAH I think they would be good at knowing a male from a female. its not like the people that have been accused of being a man ever showed us any proof.
Originally Posted by RoseDelight link=board=27;threadid=9079;start=msg108523#msg108 523 date=1084409502
Heh, yeah if i want drama ill goto work.. I dont come here for drama.
so what if she is a he? there are plenty of men on this board , they are allowed just like we are. I was simply warning her that she will be attacked for having a different opinion than the majority and not to look to these girls for support but to come here if she wants to debate would be better preparing her. Oh and if she's not careful she will start to be accused of calling people things she never called them.
"And when your'e crawling over broken glass to get to me, thats when I'll let you stay." -me
I think there were plenty of reasonable answers given here...... personaly I think that most don't "hate " the job totaly, just parts of it. When they whine about it it's just venting.
Some people just vent alot more than others![]()
No, wait... you are right.Originally Posted by vegasvixen1 link=board=27;threadid=9079;start=msg108803#msg108 803 date=1084474985
This is the SECOND time I read shit wrong. I need my eyes checked...
First I said something wrong to ISIS, and now to you.
Sorry about the confusion, and NO I dont like to pick on you Vegas. I think you add a lot of entertainment to the board.
all I am saying is that how can you possibily hate your job when you make a but load of money!?! WHY?!? there are three types of dancers:
1) THE PRUDE- definiton, accidently sits on a guys crotch and freaks out about it, or a guy touches your butt and she threatns to take the money and run if he touches her again or screams for the bouncer. all i can say to that is lighten up!
2) THE MEDIOCORE- grinds a little bit, a guy touches and she simply comes up with a good comeback" i'd let you touch but the bouncer will kick you out" how clever.
3) THE PRO- the dancer who loves dancing and it shows! take me for instance, I love to be sexual, I enjoy dancing, I love to turn men on, I don't mind a hand on the EXTERNAL parts (and for the record no one touches, looks at, smells, sees my pussy at any part of the dance that to me is INTERNAL and what touches it is by no means no man's hands or his eyes, to me, showing any part between your legs is a dirty dancer) what is a slight hand on the breast going to do? it washes off and it's really no big deal! to people on here though it is a sin! well girls who stand up or spread there legs during a dance is a sin to me. I think that is showing everything you have to everyone you meet! at least i have something that not one guy there sees to take home with me, a mystery. but anyway I obviously feel differently than most of you girls on here do, and i guess that's why i make what i do.



Darkness if you love being sexual so much why don't you get really smart and hook up with an escort service. You would be making WAY more money and get to be as sexual as you want. Stop worring about other people.
While I dont agree with your whole post, darkness, it doesnt make my opinion any more "right".
The "Prude" dancer may be on who works in an upscale club where RULES are established. Yes she has a right to freak out because she can lose her job.
The "mediocre"... I dont find anything wrong with this. Obviously some girls look for an excuse to tell the guys no without making it sound like they are offending them.
With the both dancers (prude and mediocre in your opinion) doesnt mean that these girls can not enjoy dancing, or their job.
Now take me... I work in two clubs. One is a contact club, but its nude. Yes, guys can touch boobs in ONE club. Do I freak out if a customer tries to touch my tit in the other club? Of course! I do not want to get into trouble or do anything that I should not be doing.
Now, both the clubs are nude. So I do "things" that you would consider a sin. I do spreads...but I dont understand what you mean by "girls who stand up" ???
So ok...you may consider me a dirty dancer. Most would, because for one, I am nude. Secondly, one club is a contact club. But with the last part of your post, you sound like you are putting the "dirty dancers" down... something you complained about earlier.
Wow, Darkness. Spoken like a true young guy trying to convice dancers to allow every Tom, Dick and Harry to paw and grope as they please.
Anyhow, as a dancer, isn't it a tad ridiculous for you to be judging other strippers styles of dancing as "dirty" or "sinful?" Isn't that like the pot calling the kettle black? Are you implying that if a guy is looking at my cookie but he's groping your tits and ass and dry humping you, I am the sinner, according to Darkness's Moral Ethics On Stripping? So "spreading" is dirty but, allowing every guy to molest your tits and ass is kosher? That's mystery, to you?
Since your the EXPERT on the THREE TYPES OF DANCERS could you possibly enlighten us on why is it's not "sinful" for a dancer to be grabbed but it is so when she spreads her legs? -And remember if you argue that a woman's vagina is more private/naughty/sinful/off limits than her breasts, then that could make you the prude, now wouldnt it?th:. Gosh, that shit will come back to bite you in the ass now wont it?!!
Just because a "hand on the external parts" "washes off" does not make it less sinful than a glance. And it does not constitute who loves their job more, who is the better dancer, who is more sexual, and who makes more money. If that's how you make your money, that's fine but it's it's senseless and wrong for you to judge others and act as if your earnings are superior compared to other girls who do not choose to do what you do. Your way is NOT the only way to make money, to prove your sexuality, or measure your sucess as a dancer. Go peddle that bullsh*t elsewhere because it doesnt fly here.
Also, I consider myself VERY sexual and I love my job, and since relocating to a great club, I make excellent money too, as do MANY other dancers who contribute to this website. You are far from the only girl here who makes good money, sweetie. And (surprise!) many of us here make such great money, not necessarily because we let guys maul us (and pass it off as "Oh I'm soooo sexual -teehee!")
but because many of us posess the SKILLS to make money with our brains!! Many girls here BANK simply because they have the ability to entice a man with their body AND mind, and exude sensuality that is far more effective than planting a stranger's hand on your tit. Perhaps in-your-face blatant sexuality might be the only method within capability? When you learn not to judge dancers who dont choose to be pawed by strangers and make their money through sensuality, class, and intelligence, then you'll understand the true definition of a PRO.
Again, not saying that a "Pro" is a "contact-free," dancer, she's just a dancer who is also capable of enticing men with her mind in addition to her body. Using your brain or not allowing men to get away with what might get you fired or make you unhappy is NOT considered "prudish."





EXACTLYOriginally Posted by Kayla Nicole link=board=27;threadid=9079;start=msg109150#msg109 150 date=1084511858
I can only speak for myself but I took on this role because managing was not near intense enough for me. Spinning the music is way more busy. Five things to do every 180 seconds. Besides allowing me to be musically creative and besides being financially rewarding, emceeing in the adult industry gives me an outlet for a deepseated psychological need to torture men.
As an adolescent I was drugged and molested by a very old man who was closely aligned with several members of the clergy. This put a very dark bent on my view of male mentors in general. Now on a nearly daily basis I enjoy myself at work and feed my family by perfectly presenting the root of my worldly anger with something they can pay to look at but cannot touch or have. It's the perfect fantasy. The more perfect it is the more the girl makes. It's not her fault she's beautiful and expresses herself well while naked on stage and it's not his fault that his reality is not near as desireable as her fantasy. It just is.
Oops there. Sorry, I just woke up again. Did I say something?
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