Page 3 of 4 FirstFirst 1234 LastLast
Results 51 to 75 of 79

Thread: WHY do girls dance if they claim to hate it?

  1. #51
    Veteran Member
    Joined
    Mar 2004
    Location
    PDX
    Posts
    234
    Thanks
    6
    Thanked 4 Times in 3 Posts

    Default Re:WHY do girls dance if they claim to hate it?

    *applauds Kayla*

  2. #52
    Veteran Member darkness's Avatar
    Joined
    Oct 2003
    Posts
    189
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts

    Default Re:WHY do girls dance if they claim to hate it?

    people call ME a dirty dancer for letting a guy touch my boob or because i talk dirty well if your going to call ME a dirty dancer for doing things that YOU don't do, than I 'm going to call YOU a dirty dancer for things that I don't do! got it?It's so funny to me that when a dancer, such as myself,posts things on here that to you is morally wrong your quick to accuse that I'm a man. just because I go against the grain doesn't make me a man. convincing to let every tom dick and harry to touch, look you all have your standards they will never change, I'm just saying to open your eyes, we will not be young and hot forever, will you be the one looking back at 45 getting older and unable to dance and wishing you took my advice? most likely. I make 800$ to 1300$ every night i work! I am well on my way to being a millionaire, why? because I've been there and learned from the best now my observation has paid off! if your going to be a prude and follow every rule by the book than sadly my friend you will be the one who will still be shakin' it at 45 probably at one of the clubs that i will own!

  3. #53
    Banned
    Joined
    Jan 2003
    Location
    B.C & USA
    Posts
    1,869
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts

    Default Re:WHY do girls dance if they claim to hate it?

    Darkness- how long have you been in the biz ?

    What part of the country do you work in ? If your comfortable with saying I am also curious what club.

    You may ask why I would like to know this information- the reason is to better understand your position.

  4. #54
    Veteran Member
    Joined
    Aug 2002
    Location
    Twin Cities, Minnesota
    Posts
    719
    Thanks
    16
    Thanked 50 Times in 24 Posts

    Default Re:WHY do girls dance if they claim to hate it?

    Awww darkness makes 800 to 1300 a night, do you want a cookie or a little pat on the head? Somehow I highly doubt you our posting this becuase you want us all to make money and are concerned about us. Mabey you should be happy that you are one of the only ones who let guys grope you becuse if every girl started to do it you would have a bitch of a time trying to compete with everyone. By the way join an escort service you would make way more than 800-1300 a night.

  5. #55
    Veteran Member
    Joined
    Aug 2002
    Location
    Twin Cities, Minnesota
    Posts
    719
    Thanks
    16
    Thanked 50 Times in 24 Posts

    Default Re:WHY do girls dance if they claim to hate it?

    You guys Darkness is sending me harrassing pms!!! Just to know if you cross her she/he will make you pay with disagreing with her/him! Posters BEWARE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  6. #56
    God/dess Lexi's Avatar
    Joined
    Jan 2003
    Location
    Jerz
    Posts
    6,117
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts

    Default Re:WHY do girls dance if they claim to hate it?

    SMART dancers never post their earnings. And if they do, they dont say they "ALWAYS" make that.

    ::watches from the sidelines::

  7. #57
    God/dess erotictonic's Avatar
    Joined
    Dec 2003
    Location
    Watching lalaland
    Posts
    2,307
    Thanks
    17
    Thanked 39 Times in 34 Posts

    Default Re:WHY do girls dance if they claim to hate it?

    Well, personally I couldn't care less if darkness thinks she knows it all. But darkness, you must realize that your way isn't the only way that works. Each individual dancer has their own limits, based on their morals and experiences. The important thing is tolerance and being non-judgemental. We all take off our clothes for a living, we need to stick together. By judging and breaking the rules, you are separating yourself. I try to be a professional, which imo, includes following the rules. Chances are the other women at your club don't like you for breaking the rules. I'm sure you don't care. As far as the types you have so neatly placed us into, I try to see everyone as an individual. Every dancer I know has different limits.

    I know many dancers who make $1000+ a night without ever being touched. Your way would not work in the clubs they work at. You need to open your mind, and realize that everyone is not in the same boat as you.

  8. #58
    Member dj buckwheat's Avatar
    Joined
    May 2004
    Location
    Phoenix
    Posts
    28
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts

    Default Re:WHY do girls dance if they claim to hate it?

    Ditto on the idividualism. In lotsa years in lotsa clubs in lotsa booths every girl has a different reason for being in the biz though ostensibly it might seem the same. And along the same lines, for every personality and body type, there is a guy for her , ready willing and able to pay to be entertained by that person, regardless of how i feel about her ability to attract customers personally.
    blues in my veins

  9. #59
    God/dess Bridgette's Avatar
    Joined
    Apr 2002
    Location
    Gettin the fuck outta Dodge!
    Posts
    14,241
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts

    Default Re:WHY do girls dance if they claim to hate it?

    Quote Originally Posted by lilac666 link=board=27;threadid=9079;start=msg109397#msg109 397 date=1084574509
    You guys Darkness is sending me harrassing pms!!! Just to know if you cross her she/he will make you pay with disagreing with her/him! Posters BEWARE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    The IGNORE feature on this site is a wonderful thing for this type of problem.

    Quote Originally Posted by pheno View Post
    When you lead a nontraditional life don't try to measure it with traditional milestones.

  10. #60
    Featured Member Lilith's Avatar
    Joined
    Oct 2003
    Location
    Florida
    Posts
    1,309
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 14 Times in 11 Posts

    Default Re:WHY do girls dance if they claim to hate it?

    Quote Originally Posted by lilac666 link=board=27;threadid=9079;start=msg109397#msg109 397 date=1084574509
    You guys Darkness is sending me harrassing pms!!! Just to know if you cross her she/he will make you pay with disagreing with her/him! Posters BEWARE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    You aren't the only one he does this to. I'm placing money that this is actually Dreamer or Creamo.

    Lilac, that PM is a badge of honor and should be saved for posterity. Everyone knows that you haven't scored a real hit until you get the rabid, foaming at the mouth PM. Congratulations! He probably is still sulking.
    He who fights with monsters might take care lest he thereby become a monster. And if you gaze for long into an abyss, the abyss gazes also into you. ~ Friedrich Nietzsche

  11. #61
    Veteran Member Rayleen's Avatar
    Joined
    Oct 2003
    Location
    USA
    Posts
    648
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 4 Times in 4 Posts

    Default Re:WHY do girls dance if they claim to hate it?

    Quote Originally Posted by dj buckwheat link=board=27;threadid=9079;start=msg109553#msg109 553 date=1084620573
    Ditto on the idividualism. In lotsa years in lotsa clubs in lotsa booths every girl has a different reason for being in the biz though ostensibly it might seem the same. And along the same lines, for every personality and body type, there is a guy for her , ready willing and able to pay to be entertained by that person, regardless of how i feel about her ability to attract customers personally.
    that is soooooo true

    Quote Originally Posted by Lilith link=board=27;threadid=9079;start=msg109632#msg109 632 date=1084641369
    I'm placing money that this is actually Dreamer
    I've thought the same thing once or twice actually

  12. #62
    Veteran Member darkness's Avatar
    Joined
    Oct 2003
    Posts
    189
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts

    Default Re:WHY do girls dance if they claim to hate it?

    LILAC666- I never harassed you! you sound like a 3 year old running to mommy " mommy darkness called me a brat" wha wha wha. and lexi for the record if you saw the little dash in between the amount that i make you would understand that the dash means:INBETWEEN!

  13. #63
    Veteran Member
    Joined
    Aug 2002
    Location
    Twin Cities, Minnesota
    Posts
    719
    Thanks
    16
    Thanked 50 Times in 24 Posts

    Default Re:WHY do girls dance if they claim to hate it?

    Well I have always got a great response when I go on stage in my schoolgirl outfit, put my hair in pigtails, and suck on a lollipop so THANKS darkness!!!!! I guess I play the part really well huh!

  14. #64
    Veteran Member piper_monroe's Avatar
    Joined
    Apr 2004
    Location
    Pasadena, CA
    Posts
    269
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 2 Times in 2 Posts

    Default Re:WHY do girls dance if they claim to hate it?

    I don't hate being a dancer. I just hate the slow times and when the club is full of guys with no money who are just sitting there slobbering.
    "Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, and fabulous? Actually who are you not to be?" -- Marianne Williamson.

  15. #65
    Featured Member CrescentLuna's Avatar
    Joined
    Jan 2004
    Location
    Upstate NY
    Posts
    1,146
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 5 Times in 3 Posts

    Default Re:WHY do girls dance if they claim to hate it?

    I agree with Darkness's later point that there are girls that dislike taking their clothes off for money. It would be annoying to work with them. However, the girls who complain about "Mr. and Mrs. Cheapass" or "Mr. Violating Orfices" or similar, I commiserate with plenty. So, yeah, it depends.
    And I hate the nights we have no customers and I make $30, less than minimum wage from another job. But, ya know, I get over them.

    I do find it amusing that I dance nude and guys can't touch my boobs - yet I'm the immoral stripper. Luckily my coworkers don't want to kill me over it.
    "I still have my name
    I still have my face
    I have not run away from home
    Doesn't seem so long
    If I now embrace
    Every single thing I've never known"

  16. #66
    Kaiyla
    Guest

    Default Re:WHY do girls dance if they claim to hate it?

    A dancer who makes top dollar would never feel the need to throw the numbers out there. A dancer who makes amazing money is confident enough with herself and that money not to feel like she has to seek out validation from complete strangers by bragging that $800-$1300 is being made nightly. Credibility annhialated.
    As for working in strip clubs till old age, most of us here (who have brains) will have moved on to new and exciting ventures in life that will be profitable in many ways. However, bet I can make a pretty accurate prediction of who will be up on that stage every night, 45 years old, still being groped and licked, dry-humped and finger-speared by every Tom, Dick and Harry and still proclaiming in a husky voice, "I'm thsooooooo thsexual and mysterious!!" Then running backstage in between songs to tuck it.

  17. #67
    God/dess Lexi's Avatar
    Joined
    Jan 2003
    Location
    Jerz
    Posts
    6,117
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts

    Default Re:WHY do girls dance if they claim to hate it?

    Quote Originally Posted by darkness link=board=27;threadid=9079;start=msg109655#msg109 655 date=1084648830
    LILAC666- I never harassed you! you sound like a 3 year old running to mommy " mommy darkness called me a brat" wha wha wha. and lexi for the record if you saw the little dash in between the amount that i make you would understand that the dash means:INBETWEEN!
    I think I know the lingo, hun. But an A for effort on trying to educate me.

    Either way, you are saying you consistently make that money. I guess you have never had a "bad night" eh?

  18. #68
    God/dess Lexi's Avatar
    Joined
    Jan 2003
    Location
    Jerz
    Posts
    6,117
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts

    Default Re:WHY do girls dance if they claim to hate it?

    Quote Originally Posted by Kayla Nicole link=board=27;threadid=9079;start=msg109946#msg109 946 date=1084730327
    A dancer who makes top dollar would never feel the need to throw the numbers out there. A dancer who makes amazing money is confident enough with herself and that money not to feel like she has to seek out validation from complete strangers by bragging that $800-$1300 is being made nightly. Credibility annhialated.
    As for working in strip clubs till old age, most of us here (who have brains) will have moved on to new and exciting ventures in life that will be profitable in many ways. However, bet I can make a pretty accurate prediction of who will be up on that stage every night, 45 years old, still being groped and licked, dry-humped and finger-speared by every Tom, Dick and Harry and still proclaiming in a husky voice, "I'm thsooooooo thsexual and mysterious!!" Then running backstage in between songs to tuck it.
    This entire post made me laugh out loud... thsooooo thsexual

    "running backstage between songs to tuck it?"

  19. #69
    Senior Member vegasvixen1's Avatar
    Joined
    Mar 2004
    Location
    Las Vegas
    Posts
    183
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts

    Default Re:WHY do girls dance if they claim to hate it?

    yeah, i dont know but i usually do consistent at least and i dont think i have ever had to be strong and repress the urge to post my nightly earnings in statistical form on the message board....bragging about some things is ok i guess but bragging about $$$$??? kind of odd i guess.
    "And when your'e crawling over broken glass to get to me, thats when I'll let you stay." -me

  20. #70
    Veteran Member darkness's Avatar
    Joined
    Oct 2003
    Posts
    189
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts

    Default Re:WHY do girls dance if they claim to hate it?

    800$ and under is a bad night for me, happens once in a blue moon. BRAGGING?!? no, just thought we all made the same...guess not. well I should have figured that since some of you were giving me crap about what i make, i hit a nerve somewhere,sorry. :'(

  21. #71
    Banned
    Joined
    Jan 2003
    Location
    B.C & USA
    Posts
    1,869
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts

    Default Re:WHY do girls dance if they claim to hate it?

    Darkness- I asked this once before, maybe you missed it.

    I am wondering, how long have you been in the biz ?

    What part of the country do you work in ? If your comfortable with saying I am also curious what club.

    You may ask why I would like to know this information- the reason is to better understand your position.

  22. #72
    Featured Member polecat's Avatar
    Joined
    Nov 2003
    Location
    Bay Area, CA
    Posts
    1,391
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 15 Times in 13 Posts

    Default Re:WHY do girls dance if they claim to hate it?

    On the bigger, original topic- yah, people always bitch and moan about their jobs. It's what defines a good job as one that poses challenges, discontent and other such things that makes them worthwhile and interesting. Venting is usually a method of releasing this, and usually leads to a better outlook on things, eventually towards humor/sarcasm. It exists in all forms of work.

    On darkness- I would have perceived darkness as a man as well, but not so much from portrayals of attitude (I do know some dancers with a relatively similar outlook overall), but from the method of communicating said outlook. So while I know there are some similarities with various dancers in the field, they would never in a million years hop up on a podium and shout them out so tactlessly.

    In general, there is much to be said for subtlety as well as not having to go into the deepest details for those things usually left unsaid. This kind of habit is usually very symptomatic of someone trying to be something they truly are NOT, so in this case a non-dancer (or male) pretending to be a dancer (or female).

    And lastly, I'd totally believe that in even the worst economical regions could one average $800-$1300/night.. of course, this would be the kind of club that hands out spraypaint cans in the dressing room as job description trainers (clack-clack-clack-clack-clack!).
    It doesn't matter if you're somebody in this world, it rather matters you mean the whole world to somebody.

  23. #73
    Veteran Member darkness's Avatar
    Joined
    Oct 2003
    Posts
    189
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts

    Default Re:WHY do girls dance if they claim to hate it?

    when you assume you make an ass out of you and well...just you. haven't you ever had a dancer with different views, yes i do shout out on a podium what my opinions are. does it shock you that someone on here goes against the grain? o and the money issue...believe it!

  24. #74
    Featured Member polecat's Avatar
    Joined
    Nov 2003
    Location
    Bay Area, CA
    Posts
    1,391
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 15 Times in 13 Posts

    Default Re:WHY do girls dance if they claim to hate it?

    Quote Originally Posted by darkness link=board=27;threadid=9079;start=msg110720#msg110 720 date=1084905185
    when you assume you make an ass out of you and well...just you.
    Which you have now proven by assuming I stated that I believed you to be a man, or questioned the average nightly income. (neither of which were actually portrayed)..

    It doesn't matter if you're somebody in this world, it rather matters you mean the whole world to somebody.

  25. #75
    Kaiyla
    Guest

    Default Re:WHY do girls dance if they claim to hate it?

    <<"well I should have figured that since some of you were giving me crap about what i make, i hit a nerve somewhere,sorry. ">>

    Hit a nerve by stating what you make?? Huh?? Why? Again, you are far far farrrrrrr from the only "dancer" who makes good money here. Perhaps you are the only one who passes being groped, slobbered on, and speared as being "mysterious," though. And you wonder why people here laugh at you?? Look at the things you say, dude.

Page 3 of 4 FirstFirst 1234 LastLast

Similar Threads

  1. How to deal with girls you hate in the club?
    By serenityx in forum Stripping (was Stripping General)
    Replies: 32
    Last Post: 04-04-2013, 10:58 AM
  2. When other girls hate on u n Chat
    By Blu_Rayne in forum Other Work
    Replies: 7
    Last Post: 12-27-2010, 03:43 PM
  3. hate nasty girls!
    By TROU8LE~ in forum Stripping (was Stripping General)
    Replies: 120
    Last Post: 07-20-2008, 06:34 AM
  4. I Hate Extra Girls!!!!
    By bella622 in forum Stripping (was Stripping General)
    Replies: 60
    Last Post: 04-18-2006, 07:42 PM

Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •