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    Default Re:WHY do girls dance if they claim to hate it?

    POLECAT-"i would've percieved darkness as a man as well but not so much from the portrayals of attitude, but from the method of communicating said outlook." "this kind of habit is usually very symptomatic of someone trying to be somethingthey are truley not,so in this case a non dancer (or male) pretending to be a dancer (female"
    sorry but by reading that i did not assume anything you do!

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    Default Re:WHY do girls dance if they claim to hate it?

    I'm still patiently waiting to find out where you work Darkness so I may come and visit to see a performance....

    Its slow all over the country right now... I've talked to girls all over the place who are having bad nights, and managers who have all reported slumps due to the economy and the war...


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    Default Re:WHY do girls dance if they claim to hate it?

    I guess Im blessed...my favs dont seem to hate their jobs at all. Good money...you get to party...and with a little bit of experience you learn to deal with the losers and cheap asses. So whats to hate?

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    Once again I have embraced my addiction and have put off the moral dilemma to another day.

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    Default Re: WHY do girls dance if they claim to hate it?

    Maybe the reason some of us dance, is because we have money problems and we can't find another job that will cover the bills. And some of these money problems are often not our faults, such as huge medical bills in collections, or raising children alone without the father helping, hurricane/devastation to property, someone racking up big bills in our name and not paying them, etc. For example, at the time that I first started dancing, I'd spent months jobsearching yet the only job that hired me was a part-time restaurant hostess gig that paid me $5.15/hr. I was a college student with good grades and a rigorous major within one semester of graduating, taking time off due to money issues, yet no one would hire me for more than min wage. I don't hate all aspects of the job, but here's the things I hate:

    1. hiding/lying to my family about it, as well as ALL of my high school friends; they have major moral issues with it
    2. dancing does not allow me to use my college degree that I put so much money & effort into obtaining
    3. yes I love when guys compliment me, but I hate when guys insult me, belittle me, imply that I'm stupid, etc.
    4. when it is dead, it drastically decreases my chance to make money, and if I'm not able to get tips/dances, I'm either working for free that night or I'm dipping into my savings just to make tip-out
    5. girls that do sexual "extras" or interrupt me with a customer, take potential money away from me. It is frustrating that I follow the rules(no drugs, no extras, I am too polite to interrupt other girls) and as a result, I get stepped on and this "being a good person" results in #4, not making any money.

    I do like some aspects of dancing, but the 5 bad things that I mentioned are the reasons I can really hate dancing sometimes. If I could get a corporate job making $50,000/yr, I would take it and I'd probably still dance 2-3nights/week just for extra money and savings. If I could get a corporate job making $50,000/yr but was forced to stop dancing, I would do it in a heartbeat if it meant gaining invaluable degree-related, corporate work experience that I wouldn't have to hide from my family.

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