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    hey i was just wondering what gets the guys attention in the clubs that you work at? Do you wear dominatrix outfit, do you dance to swing?Do pole work, wear neon colors.
    I personally do the plaid school girl dress with chokers and heels with chains.I cant wear costumes only gowns or dresses on weekends.
    But wanna know what its like for everyone else what you do the best in ect.
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    I'll give you two guesses LOL !

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    Belive it or not when I dress in a really sultty but classy gown with really flashy rhinestones. Oh and porn star hair and makeup!

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    My smile, but after that, they really go for the Victoria's Secret outfits. That caught on quick though, so on nights when it seems all the girls are in VS, I'll put on something completely different and that gets their attention.
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    I used to do very well wearing a deeeeeeeeep cowl-neck bum-skimming dress in black (which I sadly got rid of!)! The boys used to always take a peek of the 'goods' down that before being led of to the LD area (lol!)!
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    I can only wear gowns and dresses...so, like Malibu, I have a light baby blue cowl neck gown with very low back that is a nice money maker.

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    Default Re:what gets you the most attention

    Ladies- From a long time regular customer p.o.v.- outfits,
    hair, make-up etc. will all work to ATTRACT attention. To
    HOLD attention nothing works better than a genuine,
    warm, friendly SMILE !! Not the sultry "come hither- let's
    drop the laundry a.s.a.p." seductive grin that so many dancers have mastered and that usually says "hustle"
    in bold neon; at least to me- BUT a "real" smile with
    eye contact will pique a lot of interest.

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    Just a quick follow up. At least as far as outfits are
    concerned- in a strip club milieu what would stand
    out the most IMO would be something sexy and
    somewhat revealing yet understated i.e. something
    that accentuates the best features of the dancer
    while still leaving something to the imagination. E.g.
    if she has a beautiful pair of breasts an evening gown
    or negligee that shows just enough cleavage; if her
    legs are her best asset- an outfit that shows them off
    w/o exposing them 100%. A man's mind is a terrible
    thing to waste. Just my op. BUT I lot of guys I talk to
    tend to agree.

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    I do best in outfits I really like, which has been a wide variety over the years, but recently it's been a bit more fetishy. Lots of red PVC with black mixed in. Lately I seem to do best in the 9" heel thigh high black patent boots with red w/ black accent PVC zip-up corset and no bottoms except the thong. A thin small-studded collar and a vinyl bracelet with large rhinestones, and dark cateye makeup completes it. The corset shoves my DDs up into some pretty serious cleavage, and the boots just scream for attention.

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    I have this white, kinda see thru "innocent" dress. It plays up my young looks & really shows my best ASSet, my butt! It also has matching stockings that come above my knees & my clear shoes that put me at 6'6"ish. The guys LOOOVE it! I always get attention, compliments, & my most dances.

    And Bridgette - - your outfit sounds HOT!!!

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    I wear my glasses sometimes- works like a charm

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    I, too, do best in the slutty clothes with the porn star hair & make up. I guess it's the white trash in me that people recognize! lol


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    I think anything that helps you stand out helps get attention. For instance, at my club most of the girls wear short skirts, booty shorts, etc... so I wear mostly gowns. Even be different when it comes to color.... if girls are wearing black or white- I go for blue or red.

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    i stand out at most clubs anyway because i am an samoan/black...dancer to dances to all rock...lmaooooooooooo so other than that i gues iw ould say my outfits to...


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    I have one word to say "Garters", guys love em! A smile works wonders too!!!

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    I'd Imagine Samantha's Tatoo works wonders as well.

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    Oooh Bridgette! Red PVC mixed with black is some of my favorite stuff on the redhead here (big grin).

    It's absolutely incredible the impact of black leather thigh-high boots, red vinyl mini, and black corsette-style half top has visually. It's a very striking look.

    And as simple as it may sound, for those of you at the racier clubs that might allow such, there is one outfit here that caused quite a stir when modeled one night on the floor. I can count the number of times I've been knocked non-verbal by an outfit on one hand- this was one of them.

    A simple, full-body, crochet body stocking. Similar in style to this one, but in a much lighter color (the incident described was a light almost white sky-blue):
    http://www.thehosieryshop.com/images/std-117.jpg

    She came strolling out in the one-piece, soft body stocking with high-heels.. took almost a full minute to resume the ability to form vowels and consonants.. to barely squeek a "very nice" to her query of how I liked it. It felt soft, almost like cotton/yarn. Every eye in the place went to her, and I read/heard about that for WEEKS on local forums and chatrooms ("Damn, who was that in the full body light colored thing?" etc.etc.).

    It's 100x more striking in person than photos could reveal.
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    Id say a big smile and a cute little 2 piece outfit. But most of all i say smile!
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    My posture and smile!
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    I always make sure to wear colorful costumes that make my blond hair and tan stand out. For example I love hot pink, aqua, and electric blue. Also I try to stand out from the other dancers by wearing unique costumes. Many of mine are made by a costumer or I buy them online from catalogs.

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    As a spectator/photographer - I'd say the dancer's attitude and performance matter more than the clothes - though the clothes make the performance/

    Case in point: A model came to the club I was working one time, looked like any business office geek - kinda clunky actually - but when she started moving, working the crowd and doing an AMAZING high-end dance routine (clearly she had theater training and experience) the outfit became irrelevant (may even have supported the performance) and the crowd loved it.

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    I would have to say my dark, ass-length hair. They always want to smell it or stroke it.

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    i hustle really well and i dont' go on stage and that's what makes me money. and i wear cut-outs dresses.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Melonie link=board=27;threadid=9103;start=msg107857#msg107 857 date=1084292905
    I'll give you two guesses LOL !
    ((raises hand)))
    ewww ewwww
    I know?!?!?!?!?!

    Its the left one??? :o

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    Thought i responded, guess not.

    Does not matter what i seem to wear ever.....The hair gets number 1. Then i get the legs if i wear real short shorts and black pantyhose, not stockings......Strange.

    Pamela

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