Okay, originally I was going to post this under ladies only, but I want some opinions of the guys here too. I'm sure most of you have read on here about the various relationship roadbumps my boyfriend and I have been experiencing...well, here is another.
Okay, my boyfriend has a kid with this stupid bitch who I can NOT STAND at all. I think she was raised by wolves, she is rude, ignorant, she has disrespected me on several occasions...I understand that my boyfriend has to call her on the phone on a somewhat regular basis and talk to her about their kid, whatever. I deal with it, but it doesn't mean I have to like it.
Now, I have an ex-boyfriend who my current boyfriend can't stand. When I first got together with my current boyfriend, I still occasionally spoke with my ex-boyfriend on the phone. When I told my ex I had a new guy, he asked me if I would still hook up with him anyway when he came to my city to visit (after he graduated from college, he moved back home, which is two states away from me). I told him NO. And my ex also messed up my boyfriend's name on purpose over the phone (for example..."What's his name...Matt? Mark?"--->when his name is Mike) Just b/c he was jealous and wanted to be a dick about it. So the last time I talked to this guy was back in January, my ex called me and left a message on my cell phone, and I told my boyfriend about it. My boyfriend said that he wanted me to call back only when he was right there, so he could make sure no more disrespectful things were said about him. Fine. So I called back with my boyfriend right there, and my ex said he was on his way out and would call back, but never did. Until last week. He left a very respectful message on my voicemail ("Hey, this is your long lost friend....just wanted to see what you were up to, see how you were doing") So I told my boyfriend and he just flipped out. He said that if my ex calls back he will tell him never to call me again, or I can tell him never to call again. Uh...WTF?
My boyfriend said that if I still want to talk to him that badly, then I must still have feelings for him. Ummm, NO. Maybe I just would like to keep in contact with someone I dated on and off for 4 years? Granted, my ex was not perfect, he fucked me over a few times (and he still owes me money), but I fucked him over a few times also, and it is all water under the bridge now. But it just really makes my blood boil that he talks to that little cunt on a regular basis (I know, he HAS to), but he is telling me I can't talk to I guy I used to date even though we are friends?!? If for no other reason at all, I would like to keep in contact with my ex just to spite my current boyfriend, so he knows how I feel whenever he talks to the little bitch.
I know this drama is reminiscent of high school, but it is my life, and I am wondering what others think of this bullshit.



, and I am wondering what others think of this bullshit.
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