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    What the hell let me tell you guys something I was dancing last night the club was basicaly dead and 1 custmer was tipping me on stage i was going to ask for him for a lap dance but before the song was over one of the other dancers went over to him and threw her self at him and she got the dance i was soooo upset i cried. any advice or comments welcome

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    It happens. It will happen again. You will get used to it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Juliette_deSade link=board=25;threadid=9255;start=msg110090#msg110 090 date=1084760815
    It happens. It will happen again. You will get used to it.
    Very well put!


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    Yes, that will happen. Has happened to me numerous times. lol Its part of the job.

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    If you're crying over that honey, you are in deep, deep trouble. You must be calloused all over to survive in this business.

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    dont mean to sound cold or anything but you must be new because this could likely be even a nightly occurence and you just gotta get over it.
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    What they said. Sounds like you're new and this is just part of the job. Some girls will see a guy tipping and throw themselves at him because they know he's likely to buy a dance. Some girls will see you sitting with a guy who's spending (or looks like he will), and wait for you to go to the bathroom or on stage and throw themselves on him. Some will even lie to customers asking for you, saying you're not there, and throw themselves on him. You just have to shrug it off and move on. Ask the next guy.

    This is not an easy business and it is definitely not for the faint of heart.

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    You should thank the dancer for a valuable business lesson- the guy tipping frantically stage-side is usually a pretty easy sale. Don't be afraid to identify these guys and throw yourself at them as well.

    Any kind of sales is all about dog-eat-dog, and the aggressive eat.. the non-aggressive go home broke. The key is to get Joe-Customer#1's cash in your G-string versus someone else's, so all is fair provided they aren't already being hustled by someone else (as in sitting with them).

    And if you're crying about these kinds of things, you really need to take a breather and reevaluate the job, what's involved and what it's all about. DINERO/CASH/THE GREEN STUFF. No teary eyes allowed! When someone swipes a customer out from under you, learn to respect her game skills and use them yourself. The best way towards success is watching and evaluating the "old pros" in your midst that are making the money and learning how to do this yourself.
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    As much as it happens to you you'll do it to someone else (sometimes without even knowing it) so it evens out

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    Thanks for the advice yes i am new its a dirty game and i am going to learn how to play

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    THERE IS NO CRYING IN GO-GO!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by krchab99 link=board=25;threadid=9255;start=msg110071#msg110 071 date=1084756790
    What the hell let me tell you guys something I was dancing last night the club was basicaly dead and 1 custmer was tipping me on stage i was going to ask for him for a lap dance but before the song was over one of the other dancers went over to him and threw her self at him and she got the dance i was soooo upset i cried. any advice or comments welcome
    When a situation like that occurs in the future, you might consider offerring him the lap dance from the stage, when he comes up to give you the tip. Say something like, "If you will wait unitl I get off stage, I'll have a really hot lap dance for you." Of course it would not make sense to do it if there were a lot of guys tipping, or even just a lot of guys in the club, but it might have worked in that situation and could not have hurt.

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    I sell the lap dance from the stage in that situtation. Even IF there is a LOT of guys tipping!! If all the guys at the stage are tipping singles, and there is one guy who tips with a $5 or $10, then you bet your ass I am going to sell the lap dance RIGHT THERE!! A lot of girls who have been in the business for a while, learn to watch some of the customers by the stage...gives them an idea of who has money and who's being a cheapie. So, next time you are on-stage and a guy tips you nicely...do not wait to get off stage, go to the dressing room, freshen up, touch up the make-up, etc, etc, etc. Sell the dance while you are still on the stage and then he'll usually blow off any other dancer that comes up to him with the old, "Thanks, but no thanks...I'm waiting for someone."

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kelli link=board=25;threadid=9255;start=msg110222#msg110 222 date=1084800794
    As much as it happens to you you'll do it to someone else (sometimes without even knowing it) so it evens out
    You took the words right out of my mouth. krchab, you have gotten some great advice here by everyone. Most importantly though, you may have done the same thing to someone already and didn't know it and I'm sure it will happen again.

    In addition, there is one thing that is always taught in any good sales course and that is if you didn't close the sale, you don't get the credit. There are MANY ways to close sales of dances to customers when on stage. It's just a matter of learning to do it. Remember, just because you have the fish on the hook, it doesn't mean you can mount it on your wall until you get it in the boat.

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    Quote Originally Posted by VenusGoddess link=board=25;threadid=9255;start=msg110267#msg110 267 date=1084818436
    then he'll usually blow off any other dancer that comes up to him with the old, "Thanks, but no thanks...I'm waiting for someone."
    That is definitely what I do (as a customer) in those circumstances, and I sort of like it too because it gives me some time to think about what the dance will be like and to enjoy the anticipation while I wait for her. Also, I find that a dancer I decline with that reason usually comes back later to ask again because it tells her that I have some money to spend and am buying dances, so as a customer you are usually not even giving up any opportunities that won't come around again.

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    Thanks agine you guys this site is priceless

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    A sort of related note: A few of times when I was sitting with a dancer and buying occasional dances from her in a not very busy club and she was called to the stage for her turn, she has promised me a "2 for 1 treat", or something like that, if I will wait for her to come back after she gets off stage. Actually if she had just asked me nicely to please wait for her, it would probablly have worked just as well, but I am pretty sure that her goal was to make sure that no other dancer "stole me" , so to speak, while she was away.

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    Quote Originally Posted by erotictonic link=board=25;threadid=9255;start=msg110172#msg110 172 date=1084777447
    If you're crying over that honey, you are in deep, deep trouble. You must be calloused all over to survive in this business.
    Speak for yourself! I get some really great pedicures, no callouses on my feet, maybe everywhere else, but my feet... baby butt smooth.


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    Definitely sell the lap dance from the stage, don't wait until the song is over and you can approach him from the floor. If he's tipping you on stage, it's super easy to segue into a sale. "Thanks so much, sweetie. I'll be down in just a minute, if you'll just stay put for the rest of this song, I'd love to give you a closer dance."

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    You just cant let that get you down, hold your head up and move on!
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    I would never do that, I have actually seen girls with my same body type watch who tips me on stage and then go up to them at the table. Kind of funny and annoying. It may be possible that the girl already knew the guy and had danced for him before, that just opens up a whole new can of worms. You have to understand that if the guy really wants you to dance for him then you will, just because he tipped you doesn't mean he owes you any "loyalty".....he may have felt like tipping just about anyone on stage because it was so damned dead.

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    yeeeuugghh, I barely avoided getting "punched in the face" by another dancer over this, 'cause it was dead, while I'm dancing on stage the guy asked me if I could do a private dance when I get off stage. So, I get off stage, go up and say 'hey, you ready?' and off to the private dance area [separate building]. Apparently once we left the girl went ballistic, from stage is yelling "THIS IS THE SECOND TIME SHE'S DONE THIS! I'M NOT FUCKING DANCING ANYMORE AND WHEN SHE COMES BACK I'M GONNA PUNCH HER IN THE FACE!" Then sat down on the stage and fumed. Then basically the DJ calms her down and I apologized when I got back and she's like "I don't care what fucking class you took [doing this is not covered in the Dancer Wealth course, just a note], I've got a fucking kid to support, that's cut throat, you don't fucking do that!" and I'm like "sorry, you want the money I made from that dance?" [a whole $10] "no, I'll earn my own money, thanks for nothing."
    Thing that gets me is one customer bought five dances from me and then the very next girl who went up to him he bought seven from, if this girl had done something besides do shots all night she might've made money and not have been pissed off because I "stole" $2-3 from her stage set. And I get yelled at [by DJ, not management] for going up to the stage, the girl that causes a scene is "calmed down." Ya know, if any other job had a girl refuse to work further and threaten bodily harm to another worker in front of customers, more'n likely they'd be asked to go home. Gotta love the drama.

    Anyway, according to DJ and another dancer, the correct procedure when asked for a dance from the stage is to A. say "I'll be at that table *point* as soon as I get off stage" and meet them there. or B. ignore them [great plan here]. so, yeah, for future reference if any of you guys get into a similar situation.

    ah, that felt better. Carry on, m'dears.
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    roll with it baby, you'll get it soon. Besides, take the next good tipper that u c and go with it.
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    i hear yheay luna gota luv the game

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    That's why it's best to tip the DJ extra to keep you off stage as much as possible. You will lose a lot of money on stage. That dancer had every right to ask that guy for a dance. She was just doing her job. There is no reason for you to be upset with her. You hadn't even made arrangements with him yet.
    He is a customer of the club and can watch the stage and tip and see someone on the floor and go off with her. He can get dances from anyone that he wants to. You don't own the guy just because he sits at your stage.
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