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    I'm a college student in CT, and I'm looking for a good place to dance where I'm not expected to do extras, but I'll be able to make enough for next semesters tuition at a private school and rent for the summer. I worked at the Blue Parrot in the fall and then for the first couple months of the spring, and I liked it there, but I want to work somewhere else. I'm 5'7 with long brown hair, and I'm a 36C. I don't have a perfect body, but I'm pretty fit and good looking. Can anyone please give me advice on where to work, and if there are costume restrictions because I have some booty short outfits I like to wear. Schools getting out, and I need to start in a week. Over the summer I could be working 4-5 nights a week, but during the school year I could only work 1-2, however if there's a good club that requires 4 nights a week I would still prefer to work there for now, and then just find somewhere else to go. Please help, I still get really nervous about it all (as you can tell from my rambling) and I've been looking on line but I just don't know where to go. I've heard about Gin Dee's in West Haven, Kahoots in East Hartford, Mardi Gras 2, and Gold Club in Hartford, although I'm nervous because I don't want anyone from school to know I work there. Any info on any of these clubs, or any others would really be appreciated. Also, because the one club I've worked at was kind of small and didn't have poles, I don't know any pole tricks, will that be bad? Thank you for all of your help. When I'm on stage I'm okay, but I just get really nervous when I think about it all and I have to lie to my friends and family. I don't drink or do any drugs at the club, and I don't mind a little contact with the guys, but I don't do any extras, so I'm looking for a club that might fit with me. Thanks again. Peace.
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    A couple of my friends are going to check out Beamers. I've never worked there but heard that the potential to make money is there and that some girls do bank. I don't know about the extras but in any club there will always be one or two girls that will do them.

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    Truthfully, if your objective is earning enough money for fall semester, I'd seriously consider checking out clubs across the RI border. Northeast clubs have never really recovered from the economic downturn, and RI offers the advantages of less restrictive laws, more summer tourist business, etc. I spent last weekend in Providence and Newport, and money seemed to be flowing like water !

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    YEA. cadillac lounge or club fantasies in providence

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    hey dancinggirl,

    the parrot, huh? i worked there until last summer and agree that it is a decent place. now i work at places in eastern CT. to be honest, they're slow as hell, but i continue to work there since it's close to my residence. do you mind if i ask where you go to school? my school is very close to where i dance, and for that reason i am switching clubs (probably back to the parrot) come fall.

    if you're really worried about someone recognizing you, melonie's advice about RI is superb. however, that extra driving time may not be worth it if it takes away from school/study time.

    there's always and for info. on clubs, but who knows.

    good luck

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    Quote Originally Posted by tampafldancer link=board=4;threadid=9271;start=msg110887#msg1108 87 date=1084910602
    YEA. cadillac lounge or club fantasies in providence
    There's money in the new Club Desire, too. I like the outdoor patio.

    In CT, I like Electric Blue (Tolland), but the money is definitely in Providence, and you can get summer sublets from Brown students.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Melonie link=board=4;threadid=9271;start=msg110579#msg1105 79 date=1084867945
    Truthfully, if your objective is earning enough money for fall semester, I'd seriously consider checking out clubs across the RI border. Northeast clubs have never really recovered from the economic downturn, and RI offers the advantages of less restrictive laws, more summer tourist business, etc. I spent last weekend in Providence and Newport, and money seemed to be flowing like water !
    Damn, Melonie! You were up here in RI? Hope you liked it! This place isn't so bad, when you're visiting.. When you're living here, it's a different story.. lol

    I would say that RI is probably your best bet. The clubs here are pretty good. Club Fantasies, Cadillac Lounge, and K2U (Woonsocket) are nice from what I hear. I've heard some good things about Desire also. Steer clear of Cheater's and Balloons though. Foxy is going downhill fast, so I'd avoid that one too.

    Blade and his wife, Deanna are in Ct. Deanna dances there. You could send them a PM and I'm sure they can give you the scoop on any Ct clubs.

    Take care..

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    I am thinking of working at Fantasies or the Cadillac but have heard that there are extra's and some other shady stuff that go on in those clubs...anyone know how true this is? Do you guys know if the money is as good (or better) than the Foxy or if the club is as clean (or more) as the Foxy? Thanks~!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kayla Nicole link=board=4;threadid=9271;start=msg111244#msg1112 44 date=1084938300
    I am thinking of working at Fantasies or the Cadillac but have heard that there are extra's and some other shady stuff that go on in those clubs...anyone know how true this is? Do you guys know if the money is as good (or better) than the Foxy or if the club is as clean (or more) as the Foxy? Thanks~!
    Hey Hon,
    From what I hear, the money at Foxy isn't as good as it used to be. My hubby has a friend who frequents the strip clubs here in RI, and has said that a lot of shady things are going on in the VIP. I don't know if it's entirely true, but he definitely has stopped going there, which leads me to believe it's gotten really bad. Normally, you can't drag that boy out of a strip club until his pockets are empty. I can say, without a doubt, that Cheaters, and Balloons are full of extras, and basically trash. They should advertise it as that, because that's how bad it's gotten.

    As for extras at CF or CL, I'm not sure. They could be going on, although I haven't heard anything terrible. It's worth giving them a visit though, so you can check things out for yourself. Make sure you stop in Woonsocket at K2U. They're a great bunch there.

    Also, check out SCL. They have a lot of customer reviews and comments. Some posters are actually employees of the clubs, but they're easy to figure out.

    I believe that Sirona and Nina77 are still at K2U. You could shoot them a PM and ask them for some details.

    Good Luck To You Hon..

    Let us know how it works out...


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    I have worked at pretty much all the clubs you inquire about. Here's the scoop. Kahoots is ok. I averaged 300-500. A good night would be 600-700. Your on stage for 15 minutes every hour. The dances have a lot of contact. Dances are 25, you have to give five to the house and house fee is 35 dollars with tip out to the dj is 15. The gold club in hartford isn't a bad place. I average 450-550. A good night is 700-800. A bad night is 300. Your on rotation on stage. House fee is 20, di fee is 20. They do have a champagne room that you make a 100 for an half hour. Kahoots has no champagne room. The gold club has 2 sides one nude the other topless. The topless side has very little contact while the nude side does. They ask you to work a 7 hour shift. Mardi gras 2 is ok, but I wouldn't recomend it. If your going to go up that way you might as well drive the fifteen minutes more and work in springfield at mardi gras 1. The money there is good, but the dances have a lot of contact. I average 500-600. A good night there would be 800-900. Also your on stage a half hour every hour. ( The bar is the stage). I've never worked at gin dees. I hope this was helpful.

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    Melonie or anybody that have visited Rhode Island clubs can you please give me more information?


    I've only danced about 3 months Nude my 3 1/2 years as a dancer. I visited stripclublist and see that most of the clubs are nude. Are the girls completely shaved?? How does this work? Are you nude only on stage or also during dances? rt:

    Are most of the clubs gown/dress clubs, or can you wear two piece outfits and pants, etc?

    Also, I think K2U Southside in Woonsocket, RI is topless. Is the profit potentail about the same or is there a significant difference in topless and nude club earnings?

    Any and all information is appreciated !!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tori link=board=4;threadid=9271;start=msg111334#msg1113 34 date=1084955633

    Also, I think K2U Southside in Woonsocket, RI is topless. Is the profit potentail about the same or is there a significant difference in topless and nude club earnings?

    Any and all information is appreciated !!!
    Yes, K2U is topless only. They have a very good environment and customer turnout. The earnings of course vary from girl to girl, but for the most part, I believe they all do quite well. I would definitely recommend making a visit there.

    They hold open auditions every Monday and Tuesday from 3pm to 7pm. It's probably a good idea to call the club ahead of time though, just to make sure management will be there to watch your audition. Ask for either Andy or Dyan. They handle the hiring, I believe.

    The club is very nice inside, and has a cozy atmosphere. The staff is very friendly, especially the Dj (who will most likely be on if you decide to audition). His name is Forest, and will play anything you want for your set.

    I auditioned back in January (I think). I didn't follow through after the audition, because I was deciding whether or not I wanted to continue my dancing career. My experience was very good though.

    As for the other clubs, I haven't been there personally, I've only gone by what the self-proclaimed strip club expert of a friend that my hubby has. lol.

    Satin Doll could be another possibility. It's in Providence. I checked out the club before I checked out K2U. It's alright, if you like a bikini/pastie club.

    I believe Melonie can help you more with Foxy, or Club Fantasies, because I believe she's featured at those clubs. Hopefully I've helped a bit though.

    Good Luck to you...

    ~Rhi~

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    I have to agree with previous posters that Foxy has gone downhill to some degree, but it's still one of the better clubs in Providence. Club Fantasies is my favorite club, down to earth but with upscale earnings potential. These two clubs are located very close to the convention center and upscale downtown hotels so they naturally draw upscale customers.

    I wouldn't work at Cadillac or Balloons because these clubs are legendary throughout the region for high mileage, which I'm not comfortable with. But if you're cool with that, there is a ton of money waiting to be made. Also keep in mind that mileage is a relative term, such that very high RI mileage might equal typical South Florida mileage and low San Francisco mileage.

    My main observation about RI clubs is that, because of the 'travelling businessmen' factor, the 'vacation factor', and the more lenient RI laws, these clubs never fail to attract guys with LOTS of money to spend. You may have to do a bit more than you would in Manhattan to convince them to spend it, but the earnings potential is definitely there !

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    Fantasies, Cadillac and Desire are the best places to make money, but they're all high mileage clubs with nude two-way contact and girls available outside the club. Fantasies has the tightest policies on drugs.... K2U is topless only and more of a friendly neighborhood bar. Not quite as much money, but the best working environment for dancers and the best lapdance area.

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    Which has more contact; Fantasies or Cadillac? At the Foxy there is no grinding (but girls still do a little) and guys can touch arms and legs. Is it the same with Fantasies or Cadillac? What kind of contact? Are the guys allowed to touch your boobs/butt? is it likely that you'll walk into the VIP/Champagne and see shady stuff going on? What is average $ at these clubs? How are the other girls there? Foxy was really catty --yuck. I am looking for anyone who has worked these clubs to share some info with me because I'd really like to relocate .

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    Fantasies is still a classy club, although some degree of tits and ass grabbing is expected. Cadillac is in a different league (which I've referred to as "sleaze clubs" in other posts), where guys can probably find whatever they're looking for given the right girl and the right amount of money. Both offer excellent earnings potential - however Fantasies is a bit picky about the dancers they will hire, where Cadillac will hire anyone but you'll be expected to provide a lot more "up close and personal" contact.

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    Hey Dancing Girl.... I work at the Dirty Bird myself . Love the club and the girls are great although there are a few things about the club I am not crazy about...1) aside from Blade the DJs NEVER play what you want to hear...2) It is still very slow....3) the management just upped the freakin tip out again yesterday!!! But all in all I would much rather work in a club where the girls get along and we have fun and make money at the same time.

    If you are looking for a club in CT without being expected to do extras I do not reconmend Gin Dee's. Although I have not been in there in quite some time it was a pretty low end club when I was there and witnessed many "extras" going on.

    Unfortunately from what I have heard from many dancers in other clubs all the Ct clubs are very slow right now... so to agree with many that have posted to you, RI is a good choice if you don't mind a small drive to work. I would go also if it wasn't for me leaving in a few months. Good luck hun.


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    Wow Melonie.. I had no idea that CL had that type of reputation too. Hubby's friend might not have said anything about it because maybe he liked it.. LOL.. Thanks for the heads up though, I had thought about checking the place out a while back. I know he stopped going to Foxy because he said that their hiring standards had changed, and a few other various reasons, which I'm sure you know about. lol




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    Again, everything is relative. Cadillac may not be up to the same upscale standard as Fantasies, but it's a far cry from the overt "sleaze factor" at Cheaters. You can still earn good money at Cadillac without going the "extras" route (even though a couple of girls might possibly be providing "extras" to select customers), whereas at Cheaters providing "extras" in order to earn decent money is pretty much a given.

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    i worked at fantasies, foxy lady and cadillac. Dancing girl, pm me if you would like.
    I havent been there in about 2 years, but i liked all the clubs. (foxy lady started to go downhill when i left)

    There is good money to be made at all of them. I never experienced the high mileage aspect of dancing at either of them. (however i know certain girls did escort away from the clubs)and i have heard rumors.
    I guess its a breath of fresh air in comparision to clubs in tampa florida!

    Mel, when did you feature in ri?

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    several years ago, before the changes at foxy. Last weekend I was in RI to do a private thing in Newport (gotta love millionaires and graduation parties!).

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    Nina77 and I are still at K2U and we're both loving it.



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    If you really want to stay in con,elans and kahoots are your best bet.I worked at both kahoots in east hartford and elans.Elans is definitely more upscale than kahoots but I think the clientel at kahoots and the money is better.Elans is basically a no contact dance and kahoots the girls do grind but that was the worst I saw and it isnt necessary to make money.I veraged 700-1000 at kahots and 400-600 at elans.Elans is a gown club and kahoots last time I worked in 2002 was as well.

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    Hi There!
    I am a a dancer living in CT, but I drive to Providence, RI to work at the Cadillac lounge. I really like this club! I have worked at many clubs in the Northeast, and this is the best one by far. A bad night there for me is $400-500, and a good night $800 or so. I have been working there for about 6 months. The drive is a really big pain but it is well worth it.
    As far as the customers being allowed to touch, they are allowed to touch from the waist down. (minus private areas) They have couch dances and booth dances. Customers will try to get away with more in the booths because they think they can. You just have to tell them no, and most people are respectful.
    The manangement is awesome! They will solve any problem or get rid of any customer for you. I work Thurs-Sat, and I always have a great time here. Saturdays are the busiest nights, there is litterally no room to walk around.
    As for clubs in CT, in my opinion they are not good. I went to Kahoots in East Hartford a couple weeks ago to check it out and I was not impressed. I got hired there but not actually worked there. It looked like it used to be a diner that they converted into a strip club.
    I am going to go check out Juicee's this Wednesday. I have heard it gets busy on the weekends since it is right near the casinos in CT. I will let you know how this turns out.

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    I live in eastern CT, and have also thought about working in RI when i start dancing again. Or a completely different part of the state. I grew up here, and the thought of someone that knows my family seeing me doesn't thrill me. From the sound of it some of these clubs in RI sound good. I'll have to make a note of them so i have a list when I'm ready to dance again.

    I don't know if this is an option for any of you or not, but I've also started to look into some clubs that are newly opened in Springfield,Mass. They've advertised a few in the Hartford Advocate.

    As for Juicee's; I've never been there myself, so this is hear say; a friend of mine use to go with her husband because it was close by to them, she said it wasn't one of the prettiest clubs she's seen. like i said that was her take. I'd be interested in someone elses view.
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