I'm a self-employed professional in his late twenties and had never been to a club before until February of this year. I was on the road at the time filling in for one of my salespeople at a four day tradeshow. By the second night I was dreading forcing myself to sleep at an ungodly early hour, so I began to think of things I could do to entertain myself. Oddly enough, the next morning at breakfast I heard two men at the next table discussing a club they had been to the previous night. The way in which they were talking struck me as very piggish, and initially I dismissed the concept simply based on the way in which they were speaking, I would not like to be likened to them. But, as the day dragged on, I decided I would check a club out, and if nothing else walk away with an experience. That night I went into a club and spent about two hours with one of the women there, got two dances and talked the rest of the time. When I walked out of the club I was surprised by how much I had actually enjoyed myself, but dismissed the evening as just an experience in which I had paid a woman to have an intellectual conversation with me instead of sitting at a bar with a bunch of drunks listening to their banter. A week later I learned that I had actually developed a customer in that region through the tradeshow. The customer required a lot of work from me in that market, I have been back in town eight times since then and have gone to the same club and seen the same dancer everytime, probobly dropping between $1600 and $2000 each night. One night, after she told me she was leaving after I did, I offered to buy her a drink, elsewhere that is, she turned down the offer, and I appologized for putting her int he situation, and never mentioned it again. A week ago I was in town again, and went to the club again, one of the first things she said was that she would like to hangout with me outside the club. I turned the offer down because, I knew that I probably would not be back in town for another six months, I explained this to her, and that given that, she was proably better off keeping me as a customer. I mean, I'm not about to plan trips to the area based on one night out with this woman, and, not to mention, from what she said the first time, and what I have read on the boards here, it could cost her a job. I am not married, nor do I have a S.O. Throughout that night she began making comments that I found very surprising: "You make me feel very comfortable," "I'm so happy I met you," and, "You don't treat me like a stripper." :o The last comment was what in fact led me to this site, and henceforth to create this post. To an extent, I felt like I was being hustled for some reason, I wasn't amused. I have not attended any other clubs to date, and really haven't had any intentions of doing so. My question is, is it ever legitimate? Regardless of what it is, I will stop by again if I'm in the area, form my perspective, I enjoy conversation, but, if I am going to continue to visit this woman, I do not want to feel like I'm getting worked, major tunoff, I might add.![]()


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