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hello
Basically, I've been in a long distance relationship for nearly three years, and I hadn't seen her for five months when I first wandered into a SC. After all, in spring a young man's fancy turns to love, and I'm in a town that was crawling with beautiful women I can't get anywhere near. I wanted...no...needed to see something beautiful, and since the ballet only comes here twice a year, I figured it could be the next best thing. It was utterly bizarre, and I was conflicted about whether it was the most sexist thing I'd ever done. I asked every wrong question while trying to figure it out, but as I watched, talked, and enjoyed myself, it began to seem like the most natural thing in the world. The interactions going on were primal, visibly complex, and fascinating. Looking ahead to grad school (psychology), I have read nearly every paper ever written on the environment, and to the chagrin of my gf have decided to make it my therapeutic niche. I'd love to see every dancer happy with herself and her job, and I really do believe that it is a potentially sacred thing, because we've come so far in western civilization that we fear the parts of us which are still animal. I think the stripper is the only person in modern america who can be a bridge between the parts of us that like to f*** and the parts of us that are truly divine. I may have to give up going as a customer when I begin to practice for professional reasons, but the spirit of exotic dance is so valuable that I feel truly blessed to have been there. And that's why I'm here.
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Re:hello
I'm a man with a strong feminist streak who is planning on focusing my career on helping women in the sex industry. I go to the clubs to enjoy myself, of course, but I am also trying to use the experience to grow personally. For instance, the research shows that the women who strip for the longest periods of time have the greatest difficulties with their personal relationships, partially because they bring the techniques that work inside the club outside, and have a difficult time keeping the two lives separate. I need to be able to recognize and be immune to these techniques if I am going to actually help, and since they are designed to work on people precisely like me, that will take practice. Furthermore, I have a strong spiritual side, and I believe that this is truly a noble profession, with roots that reach back to our most ancient ancestors. It is sad that there is a stigma attached to it. As for my purpose in being in this forum, I need to have as much background on the ACTUAL thoughts of dancers as well, and the academic literature is never enough. I can't expect the truth if I'm handing over my green, but coming here allows me to look through the techniques to the women beneath the role.
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Re:hello
A very poetic introduction! Welcome to SW!!
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