Hello everyone. I am a new dancer(this will be my third week). Im am 19 years old.While never dancing at a club before, Ive always had the passion to dance, and practiced my moves with others(received great feedback). I am a very enthusiastic/ creative dancer when the song and beat is right. The lady manager who hired me has told me a few times not to "dance so hard". First she said bc it may intimidate others, and then when i started doing "minor swings and stuff on the pole", she told me not to until a dancer teaches me because it does not look good. The other dancers will not teach me. I went on my own and asked another manager if i could practice in the back and he said yea(was very nice). He then told girls to help but they did not. It was not like i was trying flips and stuff on the pole! I was just getting stronger climbing on it and stretching out my leg. Is minor experimentation on the pole while dancing not allowed???? i was not falling all over or anything! It seemed to work with my performance. A bouncer has even said he noticed me getting better on the pole.(a few days before lady manager said it didnt look right)Also i would like to add that i danced jazz and ballet for a while and realize that i have to keep with the beat and not dance like im in a regular nightclub. That has not what i have been doing,. When a slow and sensual song is on, i move slow,sexy and graceful. I was thinking maybe the manager just doesnt want the other girls to drive me away and is warning me in her own way?Also please note that while on stage i focus my attention on a customer i see sitting ALONE, and never cut in on another girls rounds(like they do to me and eachother). Thats how i choose to work professionaly. Also last night was very slow and only 5 girls danced. I had the chance to entertain many customers that were not with dancers..... and they loved my performances and were very hype. I also scored lapdances after performances. I just dont understand while these things were pointed out to me. I mind my own buisness, dont act like im better then everyone else, and do not "c*ckblock" with someoes customer as they call it. Sorry this is so long.. any feedback will be helpful. This club is convienent and close to home right now so im willing to hold my own ground and ignore jealous girls. Just concerned about if i should "mellow out" my routine to conform with the other girls?. Did anyone have any similar situations?



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