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    I started at a new club the other day. A nude club, and its making me uncomfortable on stage with "in your face nudity" and to top it off the club is 18 plus!

    The stage is not far from onlookers, and when it is packed it makes me feel really uncomfortable!!!


    now i worked sun night and tues night and brought home out of this world money for florida, but my manager is pushing for me to work more.

    i cant deal with all the people.
    what should i do?

    should i slowly try and work on it and build myself up to a friday, etc?

    or should i quit and go back to the gentleman's club?

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    Yes for sure you should work up to a Friday. If you are freaked out at the crowd now. A packed Friday with a bunch of crazed men could be a little too crazy. Try a quiet day shift or two and see how things go.

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    hi i live in uk and really want 2become a poll dancer but cant find any1 who teaches it plus feel i dont look rite 2 do it

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    TampaDancer- try keeping on your skirt or dress and just pull it down to show your breasts and then remove your Tback while still wearing the something so that you are still showing cookie (since it's a nude club) but you'll feel a bit more covered with a little something on. Even just keeping on gloves or whatever can make you feel vulnerable and exposed

    I think if you try this for awhile it will help you get more and more comfortable with the full nude stage work.

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    i think its a comfort issue if you are that uncomfortable with it maybe it isnt for you, but if you think you could overcome your "fear" than stay for the money, maybe working on a friday and getting more used to it it will go easier for you do what you feel good luck babe
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    I am the same way! But think about it...the first time you got onto a stage topless...didnt it take you a minute to warm up?? you were nerveous more than once when you first started right??
    I think it just takes a minute to get used to showing the cookie...you know? Just brake it in slowly ..and if after a month or so you still feel weird and cant bring yourself to do a friday night...go back to where you are more comfortable. But at least give it a chance and see how things go. Good luck!!



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    i dont know girls. Im still having trouble with this!!

    I wear long gowns (what im use to) and it would be hard to partially cover up while showing some skin at the same time, although that was a VERY awesome idea.

    i havent been back to the club, but i need to before i ruin this nice money maker i have found!

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    maybe invest in a short dress and/or a 2 piece skirt set?

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    Is it the nudity itself that's making you uncomfortable, the crowd, or both? If you like the money but are uncomfortable with the crowds, work less crowded shifts since it seems you're making money anyhow.

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    Don't be afraid to vary your stage act from the other dancers!

    Of the nude clubs I've visited (and worked in), while 90% of the dancers are out there "flappin' labia" millimeters from patron's faces, there's always a dancer or two that stay more reserved or keeps her goods more concealed.

    It honestly has little impact on floor dance sales since a nice smile, friendly attitude and sexy demeanor are what get the guys to pry open the wallets moreso than offering an amateur gyno experience to the front row for a buck.
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    hey there,

    I work in a all nude club as well and it took awhile to get used to being totally naked on stage, some girls wear a garter, belly chain ect. so that they feel less naked. Can you pull off the cutsy little girl thing? Short skirt that you can just start by flashing a little after you've taken your g off, the customers here love the shy little girl thing, if anyone asks later you can just keep playing the game until you feel comfortable.

    Good luck, don't give up it gets easier!


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    gee you don't like it what should you do?hmm.QUIT!

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    Quote Originally Posted by darkness link=board=1;threadid=9716;start=msg123893#msg1238 93 date=1087507957
    gee you don't like it what should you do?hmm.QUIT!
    Another example of useless advice from non other than darkness....
    Anyone else notice I am taking it on myself to combat darkness? maybe I should rename myself Light,lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by Blade is a D.j. link=board=1;threadid=9716;start=msg123902#msg1239 02 date=1087508974
    Quote Originally Posted by darkness link=board=1;threadid=9716;start=msg123893#msg1238 93 date=1087507957
    gee you don't like it what should you do?hmm.QUIT!
    Another example of useless advice from non other than darkness....
    Anyone else notice I am taking it on myself to combat darkness? maybe I should rename myself Light,lol
    Lol Blade, kudos on your crime fighting work! Keep it up!

    Tampa,
    Keep to what you are comfortable with. Like polecat said, you don't have to do the "flappin' labia" routine. There are millions of other ways to be sexy and nude without flaunting it. Use your uncertainty in your act, play up the coy, shy girl thing. I'm sure you'll find plenty of fans that way!! Good luck!



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