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    Hello, I have read this website for many weeks and I finally joined up.... I was a dancer in Detroit area bars a few years back... I worked at Booby Trap and Tycoons, and Traffic Light too. I have since then had a child and have a little pouch and some stretch marks. I still don't feel confident to show my body off like I used to. Is there a way to snap back into things or am I stuck? People tell me I'm hot but I just don't see it.... Can anyone suggest something? I'm trying to upload a pic but it's gonna take some time...... Michelle

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    BONK on the head. You don't have to be absolutely perfect Michelle to turn us guys on - us guys know we aren't. A pretty face, pretty smile, sexy/happy attitude go a hell of a long way (IMHO)

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    If you are really worried about stretch marks, there is a cream by a French company called Darphin. I cannot remember the name of it and it's pretty pricey but the brand has been around since the '60s. They use herbal ingredients in their products and they have good reviews.

    I am going to purchase an exfoliator from them, it is the only exfoliator I've ever seen that does not contain beads or granules. It is pretty amazing (I've tried the sample). I think they're worth checking into.
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    ah a rockcity beauty, im from detroit born and raised lol, michelle girl you will be fine, i go to alot of clubs around here with the boys from work and eye candy has been greatly lacking, im sure even with your so called pouch and stretchmarks you would still look better than most of the girls out here, and besides both of those things are fixable and easy to camoflauge i know lots of dancers who have kids its dark and guys rarely even notice and the pouch can be toned up as well, even without the toning tho i think if you pick the right outfits youll be fine good luck and feel free to pm me whenever
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    Oh I SOOO hear you on the pouch and stretch marks. Although I'm still working on it, I love Pilates for ab excercises. And for the stretch marks, try Trilastin. Same type thing as Stri-Vectin, but cheaper, so more worth a shot in my book. I've been using Trilastin not even as faithfully as I should and I've still seen a pretty big difference. Give it a shot if you're interested. www.trilastin.com

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    I wouldnt worry about it at all. Most clubs are so dark you cant see stretch marks at all. I have a slight pouch too which I'm tryin to work off but it doesnt show on stage. Our lights are rather flattering. There is this one dancer who has one of those perfect shaped asses but when shes in the dressing room (bright lights) she has a butt with complete cottage cheese skin! On stage you cant tell at all so dont frett!
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    also michelle forgot to mention this earlier even if its a lil pouch no one will notice lol and fuck man i know this one girl who started dancing with her after pregnancy pouch and 2 months into it the danching toned her tummy up so much i think u are adorable lol go for it!
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    It's natural for most women (and some men for that matter) to be very self conscious about their bodies after going through a pregnancy or surgery. Aside from the different products that have been mentioned already, talk to your doctor about what types of exercises may help to flatten out the areas you are worried about. Even still though, understand that the more you are worried about it, the more it will show in the club because you are worried about it. The less you care, the less the chances are your customers will even notice.

    I knew a dancer out of Miami once who lost her left pinky finger in a car accident. She was absolutely beautiful, and all she did was obsess about this issue because she felt like a freak etc. I told her that she just needed act as if it never happened. Walk the same way, talk the same way, but by always obsessing about it, she was subconsciously projecting that it was an issue. Once she was able to change her attitude over this, guys never even saw it. She actually had regulars who knew her for some time who never noticed until weeks or months later simply because she carried herself differently. Attitude means everything. Just as Pisces mentioned, lighting in most clubs is designed to hide minor characteristics such as stretch marks and as for the "pouch", it will probably never even be seen, especially once your self consciousness about it diminishes. So, welcome back to the biz and especially welcome back to SW...I know you are going to do awesome!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Michelle024 link=board=25;threadid=9731;start=msg116561#msg116 561 date=1086134288
    Hello, I have read this website for many weeks and I finally joined up.... I was a dancer in Detroit area bars a few years back... I worked at Booby Trap and Tycoons, and Traffic Light too. I have since then had a child and have a little pouch and some stretch marks. I still don't feel confident to show my body off like I used to. Is there a way to snap back into things or am I stuck? People tell me I'm hot but I just don't see it.... Can anyone suggest something? I'm trying to upload a pic but it's gonna take some time...... Michelle
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    When making your decision to go back and fear gets in the way, please keep the following in mind...

    There are men out there that will pay to watch women urinate and/or defecate. One such video I heard about (*cringe*) involves either a man or a woman eating (yes, eating) the feces of another human being... *vomit* (Sorry if I offended anyone out there).

    There are men who prefer heavyset women, model sized women, and anorexics. Big boobies, small boobies, no boobies. Some have foot fetishes, desires to be put down, facination with being mutilated or, on the other extreme, put on a pedestal. Men will buy videos of pregnant women, lactating women, older women, "teenie boppers", and women having sex with a large animals (not refering to men here girls *lol* Just kidding, guys) or otherwise (ex: horses, sheep, etc). I once even saw a site with a blow-up doll that did not only resemble a sheep (no joke), but it was (yes!) a blow-up sheep doll (imagine getting caught with THAT in your closet!).

    What I'm trying to say, and I hope the above demostrates well, is that, like us, they come in a variety of different sizes, shapes and flavors.

    Don't worry about what "they" think. Screw 'em... You're beautiful.

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    My wife has children...she has stretch marks. They are her badge. "Boys" in the club may not like it....but then again, they don't spend any money.

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