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    I wouldnt listen - I wouldnt listen.
    What a Putz I iZ.

    I wrote here several months ago talking about dating a stripper that worked at Mademoiselles then moved on to a place called 24 kt gold. I wish I would of listened . SOme told me to run. Some told me not to waist my time or money.

    Sure, it brought me pleasure giving to her and giving to her etc. I liked the smile on her face and her personality. But it wasnt real. I konw you're saying "Doh" , I know its her job. But you don't have to lead people on and be deceitful.


    So no disparaging remarks to anyone,especially her, *an**, I am guilty - I am the buffoon. I never did date her, it was always avoided. I just wish she would of been honest with me. You know what, if she was, I would of still have done everything the same, but now I wouldnt have felt like an idiot.

    I've met other dancers there and else where and they were upfront and honest with me and great business as usual. I carried on with them the same way. So try being honest, it does pay off for all parties.

    Thanks - I'll go back but I will never be a regular to someone...



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    sounds like a episode of south park to me, that one that was a take off of hooters?
    Baby's, the OTHER other white meat!

    I want my baby back, baby back, baby back.............................................r ibs.

    im damn sexy and you know you want me!

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    any dancer will tell you that most dancers will not date a"reg" the fact that she avoided the whole subject should have told you something.... hmmm... Oh well better luck next time.

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    Quote Originally Posted by metropolea link=board=1;threadid=9824;start=msg117862#msg1178 62 date=1086360736

    Sure, it brought me pleasure giving to her and giving to her etc.

    I never did date her, it was always avoided. I just wish she would of been honest with me. You know what, if she was, I would of still have done everything the same, but now I wouldnt have felt like an idiot.
    Speaking as a guy, I could easily fall into the same trap (confuse the fantasy world of the club with the real world), so I sympathize. I don't know how she was dishonest with you. We can never depend on others to be entirely honest with us, but we should always be entirely honest with ourselves. At least ask yourself if you were being honest with yourself. If you gave and gave to her because you enjoyed doing so, great. But if you gave and gave because you were expecting something in return (e.g., dating and sex) be honest with yourself about your motives and don't blaim her for your choices.

    Good luck bro. As I said, I could easily fall into the same trap so I sympathize.

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    Being a dancer is like being an actress, dancers potray a FANTASY. we say that a million times on here. Acting is NOT lieing. "oh bald men as sexy" "older men really do turn me on" "no i dont have a boyfriend" its all part of the FANTASY. When you walk into a strip club expect it. Now if a girl does that outside of a club, yeah thats something to bitch about.

    and yeah, south park, raisins i think, cuz they were young, but it was based on hundreds or thousands of real life episodes like this........

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    Quote Originally Posted by ami link=board=1;threadid=9824;start=msg118194#msg1181 94 date=1086443707
    Being a dancer is like being an actress, dancers potray a FANTASY. we say that a million times on here. Acting is NOT lieing. "oh bald men as sexy" "older men really do turn me on" "no i dont have a boyfriend" its all part of the FANTASY. When you walk into a strip club expect it. Now if a girl does that outside of a club, yeah thats something to bitch about.

    and yeah, south park, raisins i think, cuz they were young, but it was based on hundreds or thousands of real life episodes like this........
    Good points. We customers have to remember that this is a job for the dancers. We are paying them to put on act for us (so it doesn't make sense to take it personally when they put on such a good act that we confuse the act with reality). Customers should assume that everything that was said and done was part of the act... Only the dancer knows what is truth and what is part of the show.



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    Metropolea,
    You are human, you have feelings no different than anyone else. No one deserves to be lead on, or used for that matter. Its too bad that this happened to you.
    But, in the strpper world youve got to know that most of us do not want anything but to make a living. With that being said, you should still go out there, get to know the girls. Many of us our real and could be great company for you. Who knows---you could actually meet a true "friend" .

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    However, there is a dotted line between being a dancer portraying an innocent fantasy and a dancer deliberately misleading/encouraging false impressions/conning customers based on implied promises that they never intend to keep.

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    Default Re:YOU were all right

    Life's lessons are harder than the one's read in a book.

    What is sad, is that one end's up looking at people with a different eye, a more suspicious eye.

    I don't go to strip clubs anymore. The older I get, the less I want to do with them.

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