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    How do dancers perceive couples in a strip club and how can the client make the dancer feel more comfortable approaching the table? Is it unheard of for a couple to take a girl home with them at the end of the night? How would a couple approach a girl without making her mad or crossing any boundaries?

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    Quote Originally Posted by PrincessJLynn link=board=27;threadid=9850;start=msg118268#msg118 268 date=1086459939
    How do dancers perceive couples in a strip club and how can the client make the dancer feel more comfortable approaching the table? Is it unheard of for a couple to take a girl home with them at the end of the night? How would a couple approach a girl without making her mad or crossing any boundaries?
    For starters, no couple should go into a stripclub with the thought of taking a dancer home with them It is abstract of the purpose of going into a stripclub in the first place. Now, there are one or two general schools of thougt concerning how dancers percieve couples that come into a club(especially if they don't already recognize them)
    1. A dancer does not know if the woman is truly comfortable there in the first place. Women don't always go to clubs with their men because they WANT too Therefore, if the dancer approaches the table, she is wise to approach the woman, not the man. Doing this in a friendly manner is a good tactic for gauging her feelings about being there.......as well as putting her more in control of the situation.
    2. If the woman seems comfortable enough, especially if she is doing some stage tipping and getting dances with her man, a dancer must STILL be careful. Alcohol has a way of bringing out someone's true feelings about any given situation.......I doubt I need to elaborate anymore on this. Therefore, a dancer(especially one who has been at it for awhile)will usually exercise a bit of caution and a little extra etiquette with a female patron. However, once the lady has been in for awhile......it gets more laidback for her and the dancers.
    As far as how to make a dancer feel more comfortable around a couple: tip her onstage or get a waitress to go get her. And talk to her a bit early on, before any dances take place......because she may be exercising caution around the lady patron(s) at the table!
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    Quote Originally Posted by PrincessJLynn link=board=27;threadid=9850;start=msg118268#msg118 268 date=1086459939
    How do dancers perceive couples in a strip club and how can the client make the dancer feel more comfortable approaching the table? Is it unheard of for a couple to take a girl home with them at the end of the night? How would a couple approach a girl without making her mad or crossing any boundaries?
    Sorry, learning about the quote thing. Dallas here...I work in a club that is world famous for couples night. It is pretty wild. We have male entertainers on two stages and a big main stage where couples can dance and the women can take off their tops. I am very comfortable with couples because they have been a main source of income for me for years. Making the woman feel comfortable is the most important thing. I am straight so if they ever approach me about a threesome, I let them know that this is not appropriate for me. If a dancer goes home with a customer, I guess it is up to her. In my club this has been going on since the late sixties. Couples are very comfortable. I think that the best advice I can give to any dancer about couples is that they are also customers and will spend money. I try to treat women the same as I do men. Besides, the guys at stage get off on it. It is up to the individual dancer I guess. If it offends you, don't do it.
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    Last week I danced for two girls. I think they were a couple, but I didnt want to ask. They came into the club with a guy, but ended up me and the two girls going upstairs to VIP. I think they were dancers also. I am strictly dickly, LoL, but I felt much more at ease dancing for them than most men. I wished they stayed with me the whole night.
    But i have seen couples together and most of the time they look to be having a good time. There was one time in particular though, the girl looked so upset, I felt really bad for her and didnt bother approaching them.

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    strip club does not equal swingers club


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    Quote Originally Posted by Emily link=board=27;threadid=9850;start=msg118328#msg118 328 date=1086475605
    strip club does not equal swingers club

    That is so very true! I wish everyone understood that.

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    Yup, once you realise a strip club does not equal a swinger club or a pick up bar.... then you are already on your way to having a great time in the club.

    Personally, I do not approach couples unless they approach me first. This can be via tipping me on stage or making friendly eye contact with me when I'm "on the floor".

    The reason I don't generally approach couples is because, in my experiences, they generally don't buy. I have danced for plenty of couples tho' and found alot of them to be quite fun - because they are there to have fun not find a threesome participant.

    Also, some dancers do not dance for couples out of personal preferance (don't dance for females period.).

    Talk with the dancers, make yourselves (both of you esp. the female) approachable... and you should have a great time.


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    Yeah, my feeling is a lot of couples are looking for a "two-for-one" pricing deal...I try to avoid them.

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    I can speak for both sides! YEAH!
    My hubby and I have gone into clubs as a "couple" and not doing it to take a girl home, although we have accoplished that feet. I don't know if it is the fact that the girls that are attracted to us enough to go home with us are so comfortable with it because they know I'm a dancer too or what.
    When I am working I like to dance for women, even if I'm not attracted to the woman. They are (usually) a lot less touchy feely in the couch room. And we have a lot of chicks that come in our club. Usually they only tip onstage when they come in a group. They do request a lot of music though. I agree with always approaching the woman first but I can say this from the "other side"...don't ignore these customers! I know it bugs me to death when I tip a dancer and they never even come by to say hi or anything. Sometimes it's really hard to get the girls over to talk unless I know some of them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PrincessJLynn link=board=27;threadid=9850;start=msg118268#msg118 268 date=1086459939
    How do dancers perceive couples in a strip club and how can the client make the dancer feel more comfortable approaching the table?
    Usually, I think the girl is either there to please her man or see what the fuck her man finds so enticing.

    My perception is CHANGING however. I work in a club where our female patrons find the nerve (and a guy to fork over some cash) to have their butts pulled onstage, stripped naked and "played" with by a dancer. I have never done this. I don't know if I ever will.

    Girls who are into me.... Well, I'm not usually into them and frankly, I HATE dancing for women because I always feel like I'm going to BREAK THEM.

    Is it unheard of for a couple to take a girl home with them at the end of the night?
    I've never heard of it. But I tend to be in my own La La Land and pretty much oblivious to what's going on around me.

    How would a couple approach a girl without making her mad or crossing any boundaries?
    Gawd. Don't grope. Don't be obscene. Just ask. Politely. And if she's not interested, then be super duper polite and thank her for her time (i.e. hand over something bigger than a $1) and tell her she's gorgeous.


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    I personally love dancing for MOST couples. Like anything there are exceptions. Like the ones where I dance for the woman and the guy watches, then he tries to touch me or his woman below the belt because he can't handle the excitement. But for the most part I approach couples and sell the fantasy of the girl girl thing. ALso if the couple is too touchy I will bring my girlfriend in the booth with me and dance with each other and put on a serious girl girl shoow for them and that way they can't be too touchy because we are too busy touching each other.

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